FabSwingers.com forum: Profile advice please all you happy fabbers :-)

By *egvisir71 OP Man
over a year ago

Derbyshire

Hi. Returned on with single profile after a brief spell as a couple and would love any suggestions to improve my profile please. Any suggestions welcome but go easy

thanks in advance xx

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I can never understand, when it’s photos that’ll be the first thing a woman or couple will look at, that you think the two you have displayed are the best you can do.

The second picture is that your cock over a coffee ? If it is what are you trying to say with the picture?

The text is bland and uninspiring no different than thousands of other guys on the site. It means you’ll merge nicely into the background with the rest of the guys who won’t get meets off their profiles. So I hope your initial messages are interesting and informative with a face picture included, that may give you a chance.

Sorry if you think I’m being harsh but I would start again, look around at other guys profiles and get some new ideas. Or stick with what you have and when open, go to clubs and socials and meet those you seek face to face.

Good luck Op

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I honestly can't tell what your second pic is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your pictures need improving and your status would put me off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I honestly can't tell what your second pic is. "

He had put his dick in some coffee

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham

Harsh crowd today lol

It's a lot better than most

Pictures almost impossible to make out however

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By *egvisir71 OP Man
over a year ago

Derbyshire

Haha loving the feedback and find it interesting and not harsh at all.

It’s actually an espresso martini and a friend of mine dared me to dip into it when we were d*unk one night. I thought it was mildly amusing but obviously not the majority

I only include face pics on messages as I wish to remain private until I choose and yes I do try to send imaginative messages but tbh some that I receive back make me wonder about the future of the human race

It’s difficult to judge what to put on the profile as I see so many variations on women’s, from straight to the point, to long winded explanations about how we are only there to serve their pleasures and how the world works

I thank you for your time and input tho and will endeavour to shake my shit up a bit

Happy Fabbing ya dirty bunch

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By *egvisir71 OP Man
over a year ago

Derbyshire

"I honestly can't tell what your second pic is.

He had put his dick in some coffee"

It’s a bloody espresso martini

I have standards you know

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By *egvisir71 OP Man
over a year ago

Derbyshire

So, the question to all you sexy couples and ladies out there in the land of fab, what photos do you want to see on a guy’s profile? I’ve been told cock, face, ass, filth, no filth, naked, clothed.....the choice is endless....so for all the guys out there wondering wtf do they actually want to see....let’s hear it directly and see where the majority lie

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By *egvisir71 OP Man
over a year ago

Derbyshire

"Harsh crowd today lol

It's a lot better than most

Pictures almost impossible to make out however "

I’ll say

Thanks for the positive

and I’ll work on my pics

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By *egvisir71 OP Man
over a year ago

Derbyshire

Changed pics. Any better?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

He had put his dick in some coffee

It’s a bloody espresso martini

I have standards you know

A cock-tail ?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Changed pics. Any better?

I see I missed the coffee dip pic.

So you're looking to meet?

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By *egvisir71 OP Man
over a year ago

Derbyshire

He had put his dick in some coffee

It’s a bloody espresso martini

I have standards you know

A cock-tail ?"

Absolutely correct

glad someone sees my humour

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By *egvisir71 OP Man
over a year ago

Derbyshire

"Changed pics. Any better?

I see I missed the coffee dip pic.

So you're looking to meet?

Still on friends only

If the right person comes along

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can i just say it's really nice to see pics of a guy smiling....

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

Nice pics, ok right up.. but and this is just me the fact you will to meet that young puts me off! Yes I know it’s legal but still make me cringe a bit .

Good luck tho

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Have the glasses pic as your profile pic. Definitely the best one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could do with some help on my profile and I am asking some constructive criticism please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I could do with some help on my profile and I am asking some constructive criticism please. "

Bad form to gate crash someone else’s thread, you need to start your own.

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By *egvisir71 OP Man
over a year ago

Derbyshire

"Can i just say it's really nice to see pics of a guy smiling...."

Thanks and is that unusual then?

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By *egvisir71 OP Man
over a year ago

Derbyshire

"Nice pics, ok right up.. but and this is just me the fact you will to meet that young puts me off! Yes I know it’s legal but still make me cringe a bit .

Good luck tho

Thanks

tbh I just never changed it. I have kids older than that so wouldn’t actually meet that young so I take on board what you say and will amend it now

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By *egvisir71 OP Man
over a year ago

Derbyshire

"I could do with some help on my profile and I am asking some constructive criticism please. "

Not good hijacking someone else’s thread. You need to start your own.

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By *egvisir71 OP Man
over a year ago

Derbyshire

"Have the glasses pic as your profile pic. Definitely the best one."

Ok thanks

Anyone else got thoughts on that as I’m undecided

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By *egvisir71 OP Man
over a year ago

Derbyshire

"I could do with some help on my profile and I am asking some constructive criticism please.

Bad form to gate crash someone else’s thread, you need to start your own. "

Thanks

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By *egvisir71 OP Man
over a year ago

Derbyshire

"So, the question to all you sexy couples and ladies out there in the land of fab, what photos do you want to see on a guy’s profile? I’ve been told cock, face, ass, filth, no filth, naked, clothed.....the choice is endless....so for all the guys out there wondering wtf do they actually want to see....let’s hear it directly and see where the majority lie

Any views on pics girls and guys?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

do these threads work, maybe we should do a look at me thread, its not hard to look at other people and see what works

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

On your profile pic, why not crop off the people above your hat ? It would look much better.

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By *egvisir71 OP Man
over a year ago

Derbyshire

"On your profile pic, why not crop off the people above your hat ? It would look much better. "

Thanks. Is that better?

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Profile has improved, well done Op glad you’ve taken the advice given. A profile should be organic so if it still isn’t working keep updating it.

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By *egvisir71 OP Man
over a year ago

Derbyshire

"Profile has improved, well done Op glad you’ve taken the advice given. A profile should be organic so if it still isn’t working keep updating it.

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