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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi

Is it just me

When women socks me it goes hard and stays hard for great sec but some days she stucks to get it hard then it goes soft she is tight when it's soft it won't go in

Today it just would go hard try to out it in her tight pussy but it wouldn't go hard normally when it does and goes in her it's great

She said she is tight and she not had cock for 8 days

Has this problem happened to yous and how do you resolve it please I don't think it got something to do with me having eye sight problems

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

This post made me soft

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

It wouldn't surprise me if it's the stressing over getting a condom on. Even if it's subconscious it could be having an impact.

Another reason to practice practice practice

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It wouldn't surprise me if it's the stressing over getting a condom on. Even if it's subconscious it could be having an impact.

Another reason to practice practice practice "
that woman puts it on

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This post made me soft "
I was asking for advice not to make it go soft

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"It wouldn't surprise me if it's the stressing over getting a condom on. Even if it's subconscious it could be having an impact.

Another reason to practice practice practice that woman puts it on "

OK I'm wrong then, I just thought that with the amount of concerns you've been having it may be playing on your mind subconsciously, especially as not too long ago you had concerns that it wasn't fully on when pulling out if I remember correctly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It wouldn't surprise me if it's the stressing over getting a condom on. Even if it's subconscious it could be having an impact.

Another reason to practice practice practice that woman puts it on

OK I'm wrong then, I just thought that with the amount of concerns you've been having it may be playing on your mind subconsciously, especially as not too long ago you had concerns that it wasn't fully on when pulling out if I remember correctly.

"
that is right I got check for thwt cane back clear.

Could it have been cos I was sweating

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Erections are a mechanical action linked to blood flow, but they are also helped and hindered by how aroused you are. If you were not “feeling” it, that may account for you going soft.

Some men suffer from “performance anxiety”, a situation where they worry/stress/focus too much on getting erect that they essentially think themselves out of an erection.

Other times it can be down to how relaxed you are, how tired you may be, how long its been since you last came, have you been drinking, side effects of other medicines etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you tried slipping her an extra £10 so she tries a bit harder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blue pills. Or less socks

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"Have you tried slipping her an extra £10 so she tries a bit harder."

Not helpful at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you subconciously worried about Covid? I mean it may well be preying on your mind if you are meeting someone outside your bubble?

Or is it intimidated by the amazing shrinking minge that tightens up after a whole 192 hours cock free?

Erectile dysfunction can be psychological. Maybe speak to your GP.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Erections are a mechanical action linked to blood flow, but they are also helped and hindered by how aroused you are. If you were not “feeling” it, that may account for you going soft.

Some men suffer from “performance anxiety”, a situation where they worry/stress/focus too much on getting erect that they essentially think themselves out of an erection.

Other times it can be down to how relaxed you are, how tired you may be, how long its been since you last came, have you been drinking, side effects of other medicines etc.

"
I only had 2 pints last night I was worried about her little bit I'm not worried about getting hard maybe cause I was sweating

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

It happens to loads of guys, Derek. I know it’s easier said then done but I wouldn’t worry about it too much.

Maybe if it happens again, rather than trying to have sex, maybe just stick to a bit more foreplay so you’re more relaxed.

If then it still isn’t happening for you, you can speak to the GP to discuss other options.

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By *erDirtyRockstarMan
over a year ago

buckinghamshire

Relax dude. Enjoy the process..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Relax dude. Enjoy the process.. "
the woman is sexy normally I am but happens couple times not all the time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It happens to loads of guys, Derek. I know it’s easier said then done but I wouldn’t worry about it too much.

Maybe if it happens again, rather than trying to have sex, maybe just stick to a bit more foreplay so you’re more relaxed.

If then it still isn’t happening for you, you can speak to the GP to discuss other options.

"
thanks It went hard after but I and to leave as she had to go home

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Erections are a mechanical action linked to blood flow, but they are also helped and hindered by how aroused you are. If you were not “feeling” it, that may account for you going soft.

Some men suffer from “performance anxiety”, a situation where they worry/stress/focus too much on getting erect that they essentially think themselves out of an erection.

Other times it can be down to how relaxed you are, how tired you may be, how long its been since you last came, have you been drinking, side effects of other medicines etc.

I only had 2 pints last night I was worried about her little bit I'm not worried about getting hard maybe cause I was sweating"

It's any worry at all that can play a part, so worrying about her could have been all it took.

So many things play a part as mentioned above.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It happens to loads of guys, Derek. I know it’s easier said then done but I wouldn’t worry about it too much.

Maybe if it happens again, rather than trying to have sex, maybe just stick to a bit more foreplay so you’re more relaxed.

If then it still isn’t happening for you, you can speak to the GP to discuss other options.

"
I want to send you DM

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Erections are a mechanical action linked to blood flow, but they are also helped and hindered by how aroused you are. If you were not “feeling” it, that may account for you going soft.

Some men suffer from “performance anxiety”, a situation where they worry/stress/focus too much on getting erect that they essentially think themselves out of an erection.

Other times it can be down to how relaxed you are, how tired you may be, how long its been since you last came, have you been drinking, side effects of other medicines etc.

I only had 2 pints last night I was worried about her little bit I'm not worried about getting hard maybe cause I was sweating

It's any worry at all that can play a part, so worrying about her could have been all it took.

So many things play a part as mentioned above.

"
could be thanks for advice and helping

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Hi

Is it just me

When women socks me it goes hard and stays hard for great sec but some days she stucks to get it hard then it goes soft she is tight when it's soft it won't go in

Today it just would go hard try to out it in her tight pussy but it wouldn't go hard normally when it does and goes in her it's great

She said she is tight and she not had cock for 8 days

Has this problem happened to yous and how do you resolve it please I don't think it got something to do with me having eye sight problems"

Stimulating the mind controls the rest

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By *undayTarkaMan
over a year ago

South West

Get on the Viagra, I have a full tub of them,always carry one

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