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Best club for newbies in the south west area

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi guys

Looking to go first club or event but we are complete newbies . What’s best club for very laid back approach. We don’t want to have to walk through the door wearing next to nothing we a bunch of people we don’t know. We want a bit of class not a tacky pub / brothel atmosphere with dirty mattresses on the floor .

We are in south west but happy to commute few hours in any direction

Thanks

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham


"Hi guys

Looking to go first club or event but we are complete newbies . What’s best club for very laid back approach. We don’t want to have to walk through the door wearing next to nothing we a bunch of people we don’t know. We want a bit of class not a tacky pub / brothel atmosphere with dirty mattresses on the floor .

We are in south west but happy to commute few hours in any direction

Thanks "

Erm good luck with that lol

A club is just a place full of friends you haven’t met yet

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By *etnetWoman
over a year ago

birmingham


"Hi guys

Looking to go first club or event but we are complete newbies . What’s best club for very laid back approach. We don’t want to have to walk through the door wearing next to nothing we a bunch of people we don’t know. We want a bit of class not a tacky pub / brothel atmosphere with dirty mattresses on the floor .

We are in south west but happy to commute few hours in any direction

I’m in the same boat! Swing club will be my first experience and would like it to be classy to. Let me know please

Thanks "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Obviously we want to meet new people . I think you miss understood my question... if you read it again I asked where the best place was that had a ‘relaxed atmosphere’ and not one where we had a tacky pub atmosphere and where we have to strip down on entry

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By *amantha TSWoman
over a year ago

Swindon

Best advice I can give is look at the club reviews, and their websites. Should give you a fairly balanced view of what they're all like.

And don't forget a club changes from night to night depending on the people. If you're not keen on the vibe on one particular night go back and give it another go, it can totally change!

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By *oufouCouple
over a year ago

Somerset

Apparently... Secrets is the best in the West. We’ve never been, but everyone we’ve met who has been raves about it.

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham


"Obviously we want to meet new people . I think you miss understood my question... if you read it again I asked where the best place was that had a ‘relaxed atmosphere’ and not one where we had a tacky pub atmosphere and where we have to strip down on entry "

But you’ve never been to one, and you’re kind of implying some, all, most, clubs are tacky....

If you’re serious about going, being a little more open minded would pay dividends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Obviously we want to meet new people . I think you miss understood my question... if you read it again I asked where the best place was that had a ‘relaxed atmosphere’ and not one where we had a tacky pub atmosphere and where we have to strip down on entry

But you’ve never been to one, and you’re kind of implying some, all, most, clubs are tacky....

If you’re serious about going, being a little more open minded would pay dividends "

This!

We have been to many clubs within the UK and have yet to find ANY swinging club that is quote “We want a bit of class not a tacky pub / brothel atmosphere with dirty mattresses on the floor".

It's a very judgemental statement considering you have never even been to any clubs before.

Maybe do your own research and due diligence on the different types of nights / events etc, before going to a club so your expectations aren't unrealistic but more tempered to the reality of clubs and the scene.

Good luck on your adventures

KJ

KJ

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Obviously we want to meet new people . I think you miss understood my question... if you read it again I asked where the best place was that had a ‘relaxed atmosphere’ and not one where we had a tacky pub atmosphere and where we have to strip down on entry

But you’ve never been to one, and you’re kind of implying some, all, most, clubs are tacky....

If you’re serious about going, being a little more open minded would pay dividends

This!

We have been to many clubs within the UK and have yet to find ANY swinging club that is quote “We want a bit of class not a tacky pub / brothel atmosphere with dirty mattresses on the floor".

It's a very judgemental statement considering you have never even been to any clubs before.

Maybe do your own research and due diligence on the different types of nights / events etc, before going to a club so your expectations aren't unrealistic but more tempered to the reality of clubs and the scene.

Good luck on your adventures

KJ

KJ"

I appreciate what your view and don’t mean to offend anyone . I have looked at many clubs online and in my opinion they look like the kind of places I’ve described . Like you say I’ve never been to a club so I’m asking for suggestions from people like your self who have been and I assume out of the clubs you have been too some were better than others . I just don’t want our first experience being in one of the places that would be lower on your guys list as it would probably end up being our first and last visit to a club .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Apparently... Secrets is the best in the West. We’ve never been, but everyone we’ve met who has been raves about it. "

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Best advice I can give is look at the club reviews, and their websites. Should give you a fairly balanced view of what they're all like.

And don't forget a club changes from night to night depending on the people. If you're not keen on the vibe on one particular night go back and give it another go, it can totally change!"

Thank you appreciate the advice

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi guys

Looking to go first club or event but we are complete newbies . What’s best club for very laid back approach. We don’t want to have to walk through the door wearing next to nothing we a bunch of people we don’t know. We want a bit of class not a tacky pub / brothel atmosphere with dirty mattresses on the floor .

We are in south west but happy to commute few hours in any direction

I’m in the same boat! Swing club will be my first experience and would like it to be classy to. Let me know please

Thanks "

Purple Mamba club looks really nice . And very close to your location . Have fun x

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By *amantha TSWoman
over a year ago

Swindon

One other thing I might add. Always worth trying to find someone to accompany you on your first visit. Someone to calm the nerves, someone to talk to when you're in there and show you the ropes. And someone who'll respect your limits for your first night there and not push you into anything you don't want to do!

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By *axine500Woman
over a year ago

Dawlish

Steamers Quay in Torquay is my choice every time for fun. Just need to wait until its really open to play. Meet you there if you like. xx

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By *unnyb3Man
over a year ago

exeter

I was also going to mention steamers in Torquay , been many times myself and is a clean club and also very sociable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Steamers Quay in Torquay is my choice every time for fun. Just need to wait until its really open to play. Meet you there if you like. xx"

this is a great club

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By *ixey and CopperCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

We know exactly what you mean, in the southwest, there is a tacky one and some really nice ones, but they are all friendly. Tried to DM you but your profile is hidden xxx

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