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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am a 27 year old guy.

I have an unusual heterosexual appetite for women i don't like straight women there is no chemistry for some reason I prefer bi-girls and butch girls , andro girls and sometimes the girls girls.

but, I will kiss guys but thats as far as i will go and i do really like it and would do it again and again.

but does this count as BI or in other words can i call myself bi-sexual if all i would do is kiss?

And what about my taste in women what do i call that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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And what about my taste in women what do i call that?

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mate 99.9% of the men on here prefer bi women

your just a normal guy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

* that hshould say girly girls not girls girls

and i'll add that with straight girls all i will do and kiss them and go no further similiarto how i feel about guys

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

Didn't you have a huge thread on this last week?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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mate 99.9% of the men on here prefer bi women

your just a normal guy "

cool thats fine but what about kissing straight girls and guys only can i call myself bi

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Didn't you have a huge thread on this last week?"

yup still totally lost but getting closer to working myself out

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


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mate 99.9% of the men on here prefer bi women

your just a normal guy

cool thats fine but what about kissing straight girls and guys only can i call myself bi "

If I felt the need to define myself by what a bunch of (almost) strangers on a forum told me to, I'd really start to worry.

You are you. As long as you are meeting successfully and not lying to anyone it really doesn't matter.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

well i have put myself as bi on my profile but i will only kiss guys but i really get into it but i dunno if i should be putting myself as bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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mate 99.9% of the men on here prefer bi women

your just a normal guy

cool thats fine but what about kissing straight girls and guys only can i call myself bi "

why do you feel the need to find a label for yourself

im not really bi, i will play with women in group situations but i make no effort to look for women to play with

you like what you like, if you just want to kiss men, kiss them, be you and enjoy yourself

i think your doing yourself more harm than good to be honest with all this figuring out and labeling yourself

your not bi, straight, female minded or anything your just you

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"well i have put myself as bi on my profile but i will only kiss guys but i really get into it but i dunno if i should be putting myself as bi "

If you enjoy kissing blokes but not shagging them, then put that on your profile so people know where they stand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well i have put myself as bi on my profile but i will only kiss guys but i really get into it but i dunno if i should be putting myself as bi "

are you looking to meet men on here?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

mate 99.9% of the men on here prefer bi women

your just a normal guy

cool thats fine but what about kissing straight girls and guys only can i call myself bi

why do you feel the need to find a label for yourself

im not really bi, i will play with women in group situations but i make no effort to look for women to play with

you like what you like, if you just want to kiss men, kiss them, be you and enjoy yourself

i think your doing yourself more harm than good to be honest with all this figuring out and labeling yourself

your not bi, straight, female minded or anything your just you"

not wanting to label myself but what do i put in my profile bi, curious or straight?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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are you looking to meet men on here?"

no but i will kiss them in a group situation but thats about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

imagine the surprise of a bi guy asking if u do oral..his cocks out and u say, "oral as in kissing"

instant cockflop lol

I dunno what u could label urself if u had to...I normally assume, any properly viewed bi-guy would meet men without the need for women to be there....I'm totally against anyone pretending to be bi, just to get the pie!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


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are you looking to meet men on here?

no but i will kiss them in a group situation but thats about it "

If you're not going to shag or suck them then you're straight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

id say kissing is sexual contact, and to me bi is sexual contact with someone of the same sex so to me your bi

thats just how i see it tho

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm totally against anyone pretending to be bi, just to get the pie! "

see that's what i don't want to appear to be doing so... if ill only kiss is that more bi-curious or am i best saying straight ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

anyone got any ibuprofen?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"id say kissing is sexual contact, and to me bi is sexual contact with someone of the same sex so to me your bi

thats just how i see it tho

"

that's how i see it aswell

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"anyone got any ibuprofen? "

Ditto. It's exhausting on here sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just put on your profile that you only kiss men, theres more ways of letting people know your sexuality that clicking a drop down that says bi or straight

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

cool problem solved then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

personally , i just dont like the feeling of stubble...even on women

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"just put on your profile that you only kiss men, theres more ways of letting people know your sexuality that clicking a drop down that says bi or straight"

I said that too! He must prefer taking advice from your bum to my back.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"personally , i just dont like the feeling of stubble...even on women"

Oh dear, I might have some bad news then.

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By *thlete0Couple
over a year ago

southend

Kissing a man when ur a man is Bi. If u put straight and then try to kiss a dude he's gona be upset unless he's bi!

But I would ask way b4 u get into that situation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

personally can't understand why you don't have any chemistry with st8 females....... We know a few bi ladies and apart from liking sex with other females they don't act any different to myself lol.........!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"personally , i just dont like the feeling of stubble...even on women

Oh dear, I might have some bad news then. "

just dont shave then!..I can pull ur beard onto my cock instead of grabbing ur hair

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"personally can't understand why you don't have any chemistry with st8 females....... We know a few bi ladies and apart from liking sex with other females they don't act any different to myself lol.........!!! "

they feel different they have a different aura about them than st8, it's hard to explain, yes they do act the same i'd say.

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside

hmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"personally can't understand why you don't have any chemistry with st8 females....... We know a few bi ladies and apart from liking sex with other females they don't act any different to myself lol.........!!!

they feel different they have a different aura about them than st8, it's hard to explain, yes they do act the same i'd say. "

First off, that's bollocks. Whatever sexuality someone is, we're all human. An aura is your hormones matey.

So you like bi women and lesbians? Don't we all?!

I only date bi men but that's because I freely admit to liking guy/guy.

As for your own sexuality, well that will become apparent in time. In the meantime, I think bi curious is more an accurate definition. I agree that you should explain that you only kiss guys.

Just remember, this is how you feel now. It may evolve. The boyfriend told me he wanted to kiss our male friend about 2 years ago and he has slowly evolved into a confident bisexual male who has now engaged in many sexual acts with a few guys. He started with kissing too. Not to say that will happen with you, but it might.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"personally , i just dont like the feeling of stubble...even on women"

ffs you still going on about that, i told you i'd shave next time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just put on your profile that you only kiss men, theres more ways of letting people know your sexuality that clicking a drop down that says bi or straight

I said that too! He must prefer taking advice from your bum to my back. "

well i do talk out my arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *damandeve4funCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Even if you fantasise about sex with both genders, or all three, you are bi. Indeed, I don't think anyone is 100% straight or 100% gay. Everyone lies somewhere in between to one degree or another and where you are between 0 and 100 can change during time and is influenced by upbringing, family, peer pressure, religion, schooling, experiences, etc. You are just normal with your own unique set of likes, dislikes, desires and fantasies.

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By *inkyScot22Man
over a year ago

Anniesland

You are a 'nice' guy, as far as I can tell, you're sexual behaviour is a lot like most bi guys I've met (with the obvious exception that you don't have sex with guys, just kiss them) but you are a straight guy, albeit one with a fetish for bi girls, but that just makes you more normal. You hit the middle ground, you got the 'jock guy' taste for bi girls and the tender heart of the 'sensitive guy', just missing 'bi guy' by a few inches.

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Where is the "just flat out odd and in need of lots of attention" option ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bisexual without doubt. Be honest nothing worse than not being true to yourself!

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By *aldybiMan
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"Where is the "just flat out odd and in need of lots of attention" option ?

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That should go in the Suggestion Box - much needed!

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