FabSwingers.com forum: Seeing somebody you know??

By *ay_swing OP Man
over a year ago

travel with work

After some advice...what's the best thing to do if you recognise people from here or know them personally?

Or what would you want to happen if someone recognised you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just avoid them 110%

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By *ay_swing OP Man
over a year ago

travel with work

"I just avoid them 110% "

Yeah I do this, but aren't they on here for the same reason....

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By *unover40Couple
over a year ago

yeovil

Depends who it is I guess

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By *ay_swing OP Man
over a year ago

travel with work

"Depends who it is I guess"

As in? How well you know them or..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Up side if they on your doorstep

And u both like lots of fun

But I seen someone photos and they worked with me so I did not answer to they text lol

Hope that helps you.

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By *ay_swing OP Man
over a year ago

travel with work

"Up side if they on your doorstep

And u both like lots of fun

But I seen someone photos and they worked with me so I did not answer to they text lol

Hope that helps you."

This is my point I think that if you know someone and your obviously on here for fun don't see the harm...but it's nerve racking reveiling yourself I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nothing? Something?

if you don't want them seeing your stuff, block them.

if you want to get busy with them, shoot your shot.

personally, i don't usually mind. like it's whatever - im not exactly being discrete.

but yesterday i had a profile messaging me, using my first name, asking if i wanted to fuck a 'taken guy'.. Upon inspection, it was someone i know's fiance. Straight block.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

Really depends how well you know them and if you are happy to risk the chance of them avoiding you or gossiping about you.

Someone I barely know saw me on here and thought it was a great idea to contact me on social media. Very creepy, certainly has me walking in the other direction whenever I see him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Up side if they on your doorstep

And u both like lots of fun

But I seen someone photos and they worked with me so I did not answer to they text lol

Hope that helps you.

This is my point I think that if you know someone and your obviously on here for fun don't see the harm...but it's nerve racking reveiling yourself I guess"

OP you from the UK right ?

Wen you live here ( Ireland) it’s a village I mean it happens a lot !

Haven’t bumped in to anyone yet off of here !

but if the day ever comes hopefully I’ll be near a cliff I can launch myself off or a steep hill I can roll down swiftly to make a slick get away

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

We have seen a couple of people we know in real life on fab. One I blocked as I couldn't imagine playing with them the second one we said hi and I ended up playing with. Qt the end of the day we are all grown ups here after similar things x

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By *ay_swing OP Man
over a year ago

travel with work

I mean would people want to be told if they were recognised... I'm in mixed minds lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I mean would people want to be told if they were recognised... I'm in mixed minds lol "

Most people don't want to be told. Would you or would it depend who it is?

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By *ay_swing OP Man
over a year ago

travel with work

"I mean would people want to be told if they were recognised... I'm in mixed minds lol

Most people don't want to be told. Would you or would it depend who it is? "

I guess it would depend who.it was..not sure what criteria but as long as they were respectful

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By *histlerMan
over a year ago

Guildford

All depends on who it is. If it’s your dad, I’d avoid...

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

Depends on their profile to me.

If they are verified with a good profile then that’s fine I’m happy for them to know it’s me.

If it’s a single guy I know with no profile just here to perv then no.

I bumped into a boss and his wife at a sex club where I was in attendance with another colleague (friend) and it was fine

who cares, were all doing the else things!

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Depends who it is, seen a couple of friends on here, but I know what they're into, and they know what I'm into. So no big deal.

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By *histlerMan
over a year ago

Guildford

I do have fantasies about seeing a particular sexy neighbour of mine on here... she’s not, which is a shame lol

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I block everyone I know in real life. Seen a few people, I like to keep this part separate to real life.

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By *lym4realCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

This is part of "Our" life and in the end depends really on a whole bunch of different things but prefer this all to separate from our every day life and quite a few know we have a "Open" relationship as it's our relationship status on " talkutterbollockswankbook" or "faecesbook" or is it " Face book " ??? anyways do whatever ..we've made many " Friends" on here so ...

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

The problem with not having a problem with seeing someone you know is that person might become a problem. Then it gets awkward.

I also find that people mostly want to see the attractive people they know who they want to sleep with, they're not so keen when it's Gladys down the road with no teeth in and will happily block her.

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By *amantha TSWoman
over a year ago

Swindon

Saw my ex's cousin on here but to be fair just ignored her, none of my business and she'd never recognise me anyway!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block

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By *ee And MikeCouple
over a year ago

Cannock

We’ve had a couple of guys message us that they have seen Dee before, quite horny in a way, nothing sinister just compliments, perhaps we are lucky ones on here ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The problem with not having a problem with seeing someone you know is that person might become a problem. Then it gets awkward.

I also find that people mostly want to see the attractive people they know who they want to sleep with, they're not so keen when it's Gladys down the road with no teeth in and will happily block her. "

Gladys does an amazing velvet to be fair!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"After some advice...what's the best thing to do if you recognise people from here or know them personally?

Or what would you want to happen if someone recognised you? "

Personally I - male half - do not care if someone recognises me, you only live ONCE

so just enjoy it as best as possible and worry less.

I do not judge others.

All we have is this moment right now - the past is the past and the future is just a thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met a few people I know off here that I also know in real life . I'm not too worried as we are all here for the same thing . It's the same in the club's.

I've had some right laughs with people I already know. Nice to see them tbh

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By *uv2kiss2Couple
over a year ago

Norwich

Out Christmas shopping in Norwich City Centre one morning , we saw 6 different people at various points that we’d either met socially or had played with . A couple nodded , a couple smiled and a couple looked away ! (we obviously left an impression !) . It takes all sorts ,but our Fab life is totally separate to our everyday life and we wouldn’t have dreamed approaching anyone . It’s all about respect on both sides .

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham

"Out Christmas shopping in Norwich City Centre one morning , we saw 6 different people at various points that we’d either met socially or had played with . A couple nodded , a couple smiled and a couple looked away ! (we obviously left an impression !) . It takes all sorts ,but our Fab life is totally separate to our everyday life and we wouldn’t have dreamed approaching anyone . It’s all about respect on both sides . "

Blimey Norwich sounds amazing

We vaguely know or recognise a couple of locals but nothing awkward so far.

Anything remotely creepy would just be a straight block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We think it be good to SEE people we know on here turn us on even more but don’t think we would message them

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

"After some advice...what's the best thing to do if you recognise people from here or know them personally?

Or what would you want to happen if someone recognised you? "

The number one rule is discretion. So be discrete, block them and leave it at that.

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By *histlerMan
over a year ago

Guildford

Slight variation on this...

Would you approach someone in public that you’ve seen on fabs but don’t know them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"After some advice...what's the best thing to do if you recognise people from here or know them personally?

Or what would you want to happen if someone recognised you? "

I would be furious if somebody came up to me and said they recognised me from Fab.

If I saw somebody I know on fab I would block them.

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By *ower Couple - NorfolkCouple
over a year ago

Watton

I was on my 1st visit to a club and bumped into a girl that used to date a friend of mine at high school. Always had the hots for her then but didn’t have the nerve (before she dated my friend).

We had a giggle about it in the club, and chilled out. Was not an issue as we were both there for the same reason, so why be embarrassed. Actually made it so much easier to tell her that I had fancied her at school

Yes, we did have some fun as well, for those wondering

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’re all on here for the one thing sex and social side so your choice weather you talk with them.

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By *ida8780Couple
over a year ago

any town

We often wonder if anyone we know is on fab and also wonder does anyone we know, know us on here but has never mentioned it to us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is this one lady in work, and she just looks at me filthy, like she wants to fuck me in the canteen in front of everyone, i imagine lots of the faceless bodies on here are her....

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham

"There is this one lady in work, and she just looks at me filthy, like she wants to fuck me in the canteen in front of everyone, i imagine lots of the faceless bodies on here are her.... "

Maybe go and have a chat with her.....

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By *lmondhammerMan
over a year ago

nunyaaa

Yes an old work colleague

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Should I meet anyone on here or in a club then I would be OK as both are involved for the same reason. I probably wouldn’t play as it would breech the friend relationship in real life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There is this one lady in work, and she just looks at me filthy, like she wants to fuck me in the canteen in front of everyone, i imagine lots of the faceless bodies on here are her.... "

You probably had food on your face or something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seven years ago we went to a private house party for several bi-sexual couples some 25 miles or so from home. When we arrived at the house and our hosts for the evening introduced everyone attending the party it also included our neighbours who we talk to from across the road.

We just agreed not to play together and where possible stay in different rooms at this party and not to mention the subject in conversation in the real world.

We still talk to our neighbours across the road and our swinging escapades have never entered the conversations.

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham

"Seven years ago we went to a private house party for several bi-sexual couples some 25 miles or so from home. When we arrived at the house and our hosts for the evening introduced everyone attending the party it also included our neighbours who we talk to from across the road.

We just agreed not to play together and where possible stay in different rooms at this party and not to mention the subject in conversation in the real world.

We still talk to our neighbours across the road and our swinging escapades have never entered the conversations.

swinging done properly ^^^^

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By *ldestswingerintownMan
over a year ago

Lancaster

This incident occurred at a party I organised some years ago - there was a drop-dead-gorgeous woman attending who had confided to me that she was hoping to have sex with a number of men because her husband was incapable. One of the men at the party (a police officer) took her upstairs but came back down just a few minutes later -it had turned out that the woman was the wife of his immediate superior at work. He said that it had put him right off his stroke.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am open about what we do..so wouldn't bother me if someone said hi.

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By *OXO2018Couple
over a year ago

Norfolk

We like to keep vanilla and fab lives separate.

At the end of the day we are all here for the same reason so as long as there discreet and respectful we are happy.

We once had the subject was brought up in front of a child it wasn’t a good move.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

If I see someone I know from the site in public, I just walk on.

I have been approached a few times by people in public who have recognised me and even had three different people speak to me while I was with my kids.

I really don't feel that is ok at all.

One of them even started shouting across Sainsbury's while I was shopping with my daughter, I ended up pretending that I didn't know them and that they had me confused with someone else.

It was awkward to the max and they really should have known better.

There has been occasions where I've seen someone I know from outside the scene in a club, on those occasions, I've said hello as I would to everybody there and and moved on to chat to other people.

If they approached me and wanted to talk about knowing me from somewhere else, I wouldn't mind that as long as it was in a lifestyle venue and they were appropriate to the surroundings.

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By *K herts mMan
over a year ago

Fleetwood

I don't mind people seeing me that know me as we are all here to chat and or meet. Even if nothing happens sexually with them it gives you someone to chat to about experiences old and new.

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By *iceButtSlimMan
over a year ago

somewhere

I think it also depends on how or where it is done, if we're out with the family, shopping, on the school run then a definitive no. But if we're on a night out and a someone came over and started chatting and then dropped it in to conversation that might be a little bit more acceptable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seen an ex’s aunt on here she was married but obviously wasn’t giving her what she needed. Messaged her a few times she was horny as hell. It all needed up in is going to some clubs so sometimes you can touch lucky but sometimes I guess you can’t.

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By *oobaaMan
over a year ago

South Shields

Saw my ex boss in a club with her husband.

She said hello and we had a chat for a couple of mins.

Not a problem

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By *ihimbiherCouple
over a year ago

lightwater

Our secret is also there secret too

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

If you want to reduce the chances of being recognised from here then just hide your face pics and be careful who you send them to.

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By *aulW321Man
over a year ago

wAKEFIELD

Imet my neighbour at a swingers club,we both have partners,and we both dont want to rock the boat.So we both agreed,we had never seen each other.He has spoken to me since and we are both seeing a woman together,we both like sloppy seconds,and we meet up regularly,when the clubs open we are all going swinging again.I trust him,and he trusts me.

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By *iking SoftiesCouple
over a year ago

Chesterfield

When we were on Fab previously we were getting along very well with a couple via massages and then we sent them our face pictures. About a week went by and we didn't hear anything back from them so we just thought that we didn't look like what they were after.

When we did get a message it was a bit of a surprise. It turns out that they were very interested in meeting us but when they saw the photos they realised they knew us both through work. They had been debating what to do and decide the best thing would be for us not to meet and also that they wouldn't reveal who they were to us as that make things awkward in the future but they would be very discrete about it.

We understood but it led to a frustrating time looking at their body photos and trying to work out who they were. We dont know to this day and since having a break have lost track of their profile now.

We haven't talked about what we would have done had they sent their photos first

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By *orobigballsMan
over a year ago

boro ish

I’m happy too let people we know see wife’s pics as it’s a thing that nobody talks about, I have a couple o male and female friends who are on here and it’s an unwritten rule you don’t say anything, but the kink is you know that they know when you see them in the street

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is easy... same piece of advice for any circumstances you are unsure of...

If in doubt... send a cock pic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Avoid, unlikely they’ll out you.

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By *Marvel-Man
over a year ago

In The Gym

Seen a few in the gym. I chat to some of them and others I don't.

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By *ostonJoeMan
over a year ago

Boston

If I saw a fab couple I knew, say outside the school or somewhere like that, I would shout over to them. I would wave my arms frantically to draw their, and other people's attention. I would loudly enquire if they enjoyed the dick pic I sent them and whether or not the ten man gang bang they organised at the weekend went down smoothly. I might even enquire as to why I were not invited when Sandra's husband, Big Bob the plumber, clearly got to go in her twice. My caring side would shine through when I sympathise about how sore her cunt must be after all that dick and ask if that is why she is walking funny today. I would sign off with a smile, a happy fabbing and give them two thumbs up. It's good to talk and connect with your fab friends when you can and they will appreciate you all the more for it.

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