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By *opsy Rogers OP   Woman
over a year ago

London

I'm considering going to Libertys tonight as a single gal.

I've been to clubs as part of a couple but never on my own so I'm asking what is it like? For those of you ladies that have done it, does it feel like you are being stalked?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i go to clubs on my own all the time, being single and all lol

If your the sort of person who is strong minded you'll be fine

A firm piss off works for me every time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to go on my own but I'm too nervous about being in there on my own!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I love going to clubs alone.

You'll certainly get a lot of attention but just chat and make your own mind up. Don't let others pressure you into doing anything you don't want to do.

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By *opsy Rogers OP   Woman
over a year ago

London

Thanks girls. I'm quite a bolshy and gregarious woman normally, but for some reason being a single, complete stranger is making me a little nervous.

I shall no doubt bite the bullet and then I won't be able to stay away!

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By *onestbabeWoman
over a year ago

canvey

Never gone alone don't think I'm brave enuff but it is a fantasy of mine

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Thanks girls. I'm quite a bolshy and gregarious woman normally, but for some reason being a single, complete stranger is making me a little nervous.

I shall no doubt bite the bullet and then I won't be able to stay away!"

I was nervous as hell the first time I went to my local club, but people were so friendly I had a ball.

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By *opsy Rogers OP   Woman
over a year ago

London

I know it sounds weird, but I'm glad you admit to being nervous too. I feel a bit daft for it though!

I've just called them so I shall go and expect nothing more than to sit in the bar with a drink and get to know the locals.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't take any bullshit. Men and their various appendages will just arrive, unbidden and unannounced - if you don't want that particular man or that particular appendage wherever he/it has appeared, then say so. Loudly!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I've just called them so I shall go and expect nothing more than to sit in the bar with a drink and get to know the locals.

"

That's the attitude I always go with. If you expect nothing, you'll have fun. Let us know how it goes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have been to Clubs quite a few times over the years, however, I am not brave enough to go by myself. Although I am sure nothing dreadful would happen. Let me know how you get on. Have fun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think i must have that fuck off and leave me alone look cause i dont get any problems with guys at clubs really lol

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"i think i must have that fuck off and leave me alone look cause i dont get any problems with guys at clubs really lol"

You scared the crap out of me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i think i must have that fuck off and leave me alone look cause i dont get any problems with guys at clubs really lol

You scared the crap out of me! "

bugger off

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"i think i must have that fuck off and leave me alone look cause i dont get any problems with guys at clubs really lol

You scared the crap out of me!

bugger off "

Hehehe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does it still count as going by yourself if you team up with a single guy just to physically walk in with and have at least one friendly face looking out for you?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Does it still count as going by yourself if you team up with a single guy just to physically walk in with and have at least one friendly face looking out for you? "

No, cos you'd get charged as a couple. But good try!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does it still count as going by yourself if you team up with a single guy just to physically walk in with and have at least one friendly face looking out for you? "

how are you looking out for a woman if your just walking in with her?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you might even find a mug to pay for you lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

naughty, just thought it might be reassuring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you might even find a mug to pay for you lol "

most clubs are fee for single woman, at most they a fiver

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"naughty, just thought it might be reassuring"

not really, if a guy uses me to get him in a club and walks off soon as hes in, if i get into trouble hes no help to me if hes locked in a room fucking somewhere is he? by the time he gets out it'll be all over lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see, in that case I take it all back, and will leave you all to your discussions! Wish i was a single female in a club, try being a single male in a club, it must be the worst!

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By *opsy Rogers OP   Woman
over a year ago

London

If I go to a club as a couple, we stay together unless we agree to play apart. I expect to be 'looked after' and the man expects to 'look after' me. We don't even discuss it as it is simply good manners.

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By *opsy Rogers OP   Woman
over a year ago

London

Well! I have to say Libertys is just wonderful! It was an incredibly quiet night with a handful of couples but Louise, the barmaid, was a star. Showed me around and chatted to me. I also chatted to some of the couples and enjoyed relaxing in the Jaccuzi.

I'm now a member and plan on going back as often as I can. Go for it girls, pick a good club and just get into conversation.

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