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Strapon without the harness

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi Girls&Guys

So me and my fwb want to try using a strapon without the harness. So are these any good? Does it make a difference? Any advice would be much appreciated

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By *atexbisexTV/TS
over a year ago

Central London

A harness without a fixed dildo will allow you to add dildos of different sizes. You may find over time that you can take a larger one or just want to start off a session with a smaller size, then switch up as things hot up

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By *amantha TSWoman
over a year ago

Swindon

If you're talking about the strapless strapons they can be hard work for the lady as she has to grip her end of the strap on quite tight. Hope she's got good pelvic muscles...!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you're talking about the strapless strapons they can be hard work for the lady as she has to grip her end of the strap on quite tight. Hope she's got good pelvic muscles...!"

Thanks Nettie

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

I have tried strapless strap on before, hoping it would be less hassle than the ones with the harness. However, I don't know if it's because of my built or just the way that strapless strap on was, I only had a very short (less than 4 inches) "working" part of the strap on available.

I do agree with one of the previous comments- a harness allows you more flexibility with using different dildos, unless you get the one that has the dildo attached permanently.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have tried strapless strap on before, hoping it would be less hassle than the ones with the harness. However, I don't know if it's because of my built or just the way that strapless strap on was, I only had a very short (less than 4 inches) "working" part of the strap on available.

Thanks Angel. My fwb is larger lady so the actual harness doesn't fit. Wish they would make a larger size as sure there would be s market for it

I do agree with one of the previous comments- a harness allows you more flexibility with using different dildos, unless you get the one that has the dildo attached permanently. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We use a few in our play..my better half wanted to feel more so to speak so we found a wonderful purple flexible to any angle rechargable one which makes us both slightly insane its so good.. for normal strapon play we favour a Doc Johnson with a few different sizes.. Good luck OP.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We use a few in our play..my better half wanted to feel more so to speak so we found a wonderful purple flexible to any angle rechargable one which makes us both slightly insane its so good.. for normal strapon play we favour a Doc Johnson with a few different sizes.. Good luck OP.

Thanks Trinity will have a look"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forget the exact name of it but its the one you can adjust to suit whatever angle is comfortable.. well worth it for both of you..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have used a wide variety of dildos in play.

The strapless ones just didn’t work for us. If the female gets very wet then it doesn’t matter how strong your pelvic muscles are, it will slip and it spoils play.

We have got a couple of double enders which can be used with a harness or rodeo pants. They’ve got built in vibrators and are really good!

V

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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago

'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks

In my experience the strapless ones are rubbish, probs down to my own body shape.

I would definitely recommended the Sportsheets brand harnesses which are functional and really pretty almost like a lingerie look...and they also do a plus size corsett version which is the one I have x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In my experience the strapless ones are rubbish, probs down to my own body shape.

I would definitely recommended the Sportsheets brand harnesses which are functional and really pretty almost like a lingerie look...and they also do a plus size corsett version which is the one I have x

Many thanks for that. Seems the strapless 1s are not the way "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We have used a wide variety of dildos in play.

The strapless ones just didn’t work for us. If the female gets very wet then it doesn’t matter how strong your pelvic muscles are, it will slip and it spoils play.

We have got a couple of double enders which can be used with a harness or rodeo pants. They’ve got built in vibrators and are really good!

V"

Thank V

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By *eldomVanillaMan
over a year ago

London

The briefs without straps are better as there less faff .. strapless ones do have a tendency to slip out and ones with loads of straps kinda get in the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I highly recommend this...

Best of every world

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/strap-ons/double-strap-ons/p/fetish-fantasy-double-delight-strap-on-double-dildo-set/a14015g14724.html

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By *he_virgin_maryWoman
over a year ago

Here, there and everywhere!

I once tried a feeldoe and the moment I got a bit wet down there it kept trying to slip out.

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By *AM2214Man
over a year ago

Manchester Area


"I have tried strapless strap on before, hoping it would be less hassle than the ones with the harness. However, I don't know if it's because of my built or just the way that strapless strap on was, I only had a very short (less than 4 inches) "working" part of the strap on available.

I do agree with one of the previous comments- a harness allows you more flexibility with using different dildos, unless you get the one that has the dildo attached permanently. "
... Nice to hear a practical view...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The briefs without straps are better as there less faff .. strapless ones do have a tendency to slip out and ones with loads of straps kinda get in the way "

I love it when I pull the straps tight and the dildo springs into position. The sound of the straps pulling tight is a great moment.

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