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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What is best way to make it pain free

Anything more than 6 inches I find to be agony

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By *AM2214Man
over a year ago

Manchester Area

Lube... Patience and practice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lube practice, patience took me a while now I can take a thick 9 inches. U have to be in the mood and for me thats a lots of sucking both ways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lube lube and more lube.

take it slowly, listen to your body. if it's painful, there's a reason for it. don't force it or you'll end up damaged.

there are some decent training toys that you could practise with too.

Enjoy! Px

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do it right it can make your day. Do it wrong and it can make your hole weak.

Taxi for Mr Tree

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks folks

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

You need to relax.

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Lube and try it on your back. Not doggy style

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Lube and try it on your back. Not doggy style "

I'll give that a go xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You need to relax."

There's a song about that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try a small butt plug prior and get aroused and anal should be no problem after darling.

If you think there is enough lube then lube again and good luck x x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Try a small butt plug prior and get aroused and anal should be no problem after darling.

If you think there is enough lube then lube again and good luck x x "

Can't wait to try xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lube and try it on your back. Not doggy style "

Spoons also works well xx

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

Lube and experiment with positions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lube and try it on your back. Not doggy style

Spoons also works well xx"

I love a Spoons cant beat a burger and a pint lol

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By *orestguy28Man
over a year ago

Glos

Back door line specific for this. It’s great stuff and as a relaxant in it. Whether it’s all in the mind or not it seems to work well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lube lube and more lube.

take it slowly, listen to your body. if it's painful, there's a reason for it. don't force it or you'll end up damaged.

there are some decent training toys that you could practise with too.

Enjoy! Px "

I agree with this comment..Iv done a little research and iv ordered a love honey anal beginners kit and a few different lubes to try....they arrive tomorrow supposedly so wish me luck hahaha

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By *he-ProfessorMan
over a year ago

cheltenham


"Lube and try it on your back. Not doggy style

Spoons also works well xx"

Definitely, keeps all the muscles relaxed where lots of other positions require the same muscle groups to be tense just to support themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lube and try it on your back. Not doggy style

Spoons also works well xx"

i adore spooning anal Px

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Do it right it can make your day. Do it wrong and it can make your hole weak.

Taxi for Mr Tree "

Oh lordy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's that painful why bother? Plenty of other ways to get both rocks off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lube and try it on your back. Not doggy style

Spoons also works well xx

i adore spooning anal Px "

Yeah, lovely way to fall asleep all cuddled cozy up with his cock and cum in there xx

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By *ocknockerMan
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Lube and try it on your back. Not doggy style

Spoons also works well xx

i adore spooning anal Px "

We have a WINNER for the best quote of the week x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The best way is dont force it, its hard, #ahem, not to be too aggressive as the fuck motion is in a way aggressive, but if the recipient backs onto the penis (especially in spoon mode) it tends to be smooth, once lubed up, a good massage and some rimming also helps.

Then i love rolling on to my back and using a toy on the lady laying on top

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lube and try it on your back. Not doggy style

Spoons also works well xx

i adore spooning anal Px

Yeah, lovely way to fall asleep all cuddled cozy up with his cock and cum in there xx"

Weyy aye i love the final thrusts as he shoots his load in there.. and that delicious dripping feeling afterward. Ughhhhh is it bedtime yet Px

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lube and try it on your back. Not doggy style

Spoons also works well xx

i adore spooning anal Px

Yeah, lovely way to fall asleep all cuddled cozy up with his cock and cum in there xx

Weyy aye i love the final thrusts as he shoots his load in there.. and that delicious dripping feeling afterward. Ughhhhh is it bedtime yet Px "

Yep!!

I can't wait for some meets haha xx

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By *allyCD123TV/TS
over a year ago

Wexford

All good advise here especially lube but make sure it is specifically anal lube and I have one that is also desensitising so do some research as not all lube is the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lube and try it on your back. Not doggy style

Spoons also works well xx"

Said Bobby and whitney

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By *olex99Man
over a year ago

Hull


"Lube and try it on your back. Not doggy style

Spoons also works well xx

i adore spooning anal Px

Yeah, lovely way to fall asleep all cuddled cozy up with his cock and cum in there xx

Weyy aye i love the final thrusts as he shoots his load in there.. and that delicious dripping feeling afterward. Ughhhhh is it bedtime yet Px "

Mmmm my ideal woman

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By *ave1976XXXMan
over a year ago

newmarket


"What is best way to make it pain free

Anything more than 6 inches I find to be agony"

Practice, get a few different sized toys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lube and "room deodoriser" ?? ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads of lube and take it slowly

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Lots of water-based lube and plenty of gentleness

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By *omerset tvTV/TS
over a year ago

Weston-super-Mare

I use an old calpol syringe to inject lube nice and small enough to get lube far in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just relaxing and enjoy!

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By *achel SmythTV/TS
over a year ago

Farnborough


"I use an old calpol syringe to inject lube nice and small enough to get lube far in "

You can buy syringes that are made for the job, not expensive ... just look on eBay - I use them xx

R xx

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By *ary8insMan
over a year ago

St Neots, UK

I have a set of three different sized butt plugs to get you used to it. I'm just working on the smallest one at the moment. Anal beads are fine, just having a few problems with bigger toys!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really relax loads of lube.

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By *undayTarkaMan
over a year ago

South West and North West


"I use an old calpol syringe to inject lube nice and small enough to get lube far in "

boke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If there's a lot of pain, the person fucking your ass is probably doing something wrong

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Really relax loads of lube."

Sometimes I do not use lube.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Room odourisers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lube lube and more lube.

take it slowly, listen to your body. if it's painful, there's a reason for it. don't force it or you'll end up damaged.

there are some decent training toys that you could practise with too.

Enjoy! Px

I agree with this comment..Iv done a little research and iv ordered a love honey anal beginners kit and a few different lubes to try....they arrive tomorrow supposedly so wish me luck hahaha"

Most important is to prep before and douche well.

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By *amdochTV/TS
over a year ago

DERRY CITY.

Lie on your back with legs up in the air and slightly bent at knees.

Plenty of LUBE..and P.PPERS also help to RELAX ANAL MUSCLES.

Problem for ME...It SHRIVELS MY SMALLISH COCK..LOL.

But then get WELL POUNDED..

And SIZE does NOT MATTER.

MONA XX. a BOTTOM SLUT.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"What is best way to make it pain free

Anything more than 6 inches I find to be agony"

Pain is just weakness leaving the body

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of lube and gently to start

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By *iddle ManMan
over a year ago

Walsall

Just bite down harder on a gag

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