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By *unguy500 OP   Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Always been into the swinging scene from the mid 1990s As I have got older, ED has started to creep in. I am happy to admit to it and love giving pleasure orally and happy to use a penis extender type device/hollow dildo. Would this put people off?

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By *elkieWoman
over a year ago

Durham

Depends on the person? Had various partners with this issue, some respond well to medication, some don’t. It’s not a big deal for me, just means play doesn’t involve penetration. I’d rather focus on fingers and tongue than a cock extender, but that’s just me.

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By *scottMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

Only advice I can give is be open and honest about the situation. Some people are only looking for soft play anyway. Me and my partner have encountered others with your issue at parties and clubs, it may limit activities, but it doesn't necessarily limit enjoyment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Appreciate this thread op. Nice to read supportive posts to be honest.

I'm waiting for some tests to be done next week. Could be low testosterone or diabetes developed from covid hospitalisation. Got the drive and the interest, just not the wood, so glad to hear that my playing days aren't over, before they've actually begun!

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Always been into the swinging scene from the mid 1990s As I have got older, ED has started to creep in. I am happy to admit to it and love giving pleasure orally and happy to use a penis extender type device/hollow dildo. Would this put people off?"

Perhaps substitute ‘Soft swing’ for ‘Safe sex’ on your profile interests list? Many people are only looking for soft play

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By *hrissycox66TV/TS
over a year ago

watford


"Depends on the person? Had various partners with this issue, some respond well to medication, some don’t. It’s not a big deal for me, just means play doesn’t involve penetration. I’d rather focus on fingers and tongue than a cock extender, but that’s just me. "

What a very considerate lady you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am in a similar situation myself. I am up front about it on my profile and it obviously limits my choices but i have had a few good meets on here.

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