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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am seeing a married lover who her husband is there sometimes to watch but lately she started to show feelings towards me

Should I stop seeing her without telling him the reason?

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ps : sorry for the typo in the thread, couldn't fix it

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

It could get complicated

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It could get complicated "

He is a good lad and don't want to put him in that situation

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"It could get complicated

He is a good lad and don't want to put him in that situation "

So end it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It could get complicated

He is a good lad and don't want to put him in that situation

So end it"

I am intending to but what if he asked?

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"It could get complicated

He is a good lad and don't want to put him in that situation

So end it

I am intending to but what if he asked? "

Well just remove your self from the situation no need to tell him why hurt him

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It could get complicated

He is a good lad and don't want to put him in that situation

So end it

I am intending to but what if he asked?

Well just remove your self from the situation no need to tell him why hurt him"

Thanks

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"It could get complicated

He is a good lad and don't want to put him in that situation

So end it

I am intending to but what if he asked?

Well just remove your self from the situation no need to tell him why hurt him

Thanks "

Welcome xx

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I am seeing a married lover who her husband is there sometimes to watch but lately she started to show feelings towards me

Should I stop seeing her without telling him the reason? "

Leave it to her to tell whatever she thinks needs to be told.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Back off now, it'll only bring pain.

Just state you've began seeing someone and therefore not playing anymore.

Or similar excuse

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am seeing a married lover who her husband is there sometimes to watch but lately she started to show feelings towards me

Should I stop seeing her without telling him the reason?

Leave it to her to tell whatever she thinks needs to be told. "

I agree

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Back off now, it'll only bring pain.

Just state you've began seeing someone and therefore not playing anymore.

Or similar excuse"

Loved this one and done! It was good thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Back off now, it'll only bring pain.

Just state you've began seeing someone and therefore not playing anymore.

Or similar excuse

Loved this one and done! It was good thanks "

Brilliant.

May the coming weeks bring you some fun to look forward to

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Back off now, it'll only bring pain.

Just state you've began seeing someone and therefore not playing anymore.

Or similar excuse

Loved this one and done! It was good thanks

Brilliant.

May the coming weeks bring you some fun to look forward to "

Same to you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i had this before guys getting emotional i just stop the meets and never meet again .. im here for fun nothing else

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i had this before guys getting emotional i just stop the meets and never meet again .. im here for fun nothing else"

Nothing better than being on the same page from the start

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I don't feel it's down to you to tell him the reason, if you feel like it's not as it should be, then I would just very nicely explain to her, that you feel the fun has run its course, your situation has changed and you don't want to see her again and you wish her (and her partner) all the best.

Some relationships are different though, and I'm presuming that it was intended to be light-hearted and without emotional attachments. Some hot wives and their partners have no issue with emotional attachments to other parties, so in that situation unless it makes you uncomfortable, it wouldn't necessarily be an issue.

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By *rabianknightMan
over a year ago

Guernesey

Why is it bad to have feelings?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am seeing a married lover who her husband is there sometimes to watch but lately she started to show feelings towards me

Should I stop seeing her without telling him the reason? "

yep

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By *he FAB Social - MCRCouple (FF)
over a year ago

manchester

You have the power and less emotion. It would only be kind for you to be the one to end it and soon.

No need to say the real reason, that’d be awkward all round

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i had this before guys getting emotional i just stop the meets and never meet again .. im here for fun nothing else

Nothing better than being on the same page from the start "

As Oscar Wilde one said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't feel it's down to you to tell him the reason, if you feel like it's not as it should be, then I would just very nicely explain to her, that you feel the fun has run its course, your situation has changed and you don't want to see her again and you wish her (and her partner) all the best.

Some relationships are different though, and I'm presuming that it was intended to be light-hearted and without emotional attachments. Some hot wives and their partners have no issue with emotional attachments to other parties, so in that situation unless it makes you uncomfortable, it wouldn't necessarily be an issue."

Yes, horse for courses etc

Not everyone thinks the same and occasionally it works very well all round

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By *ancelot1633Man
over a year ago

Bournmouth


"I am seeing a married lover who her husband is there sometimes to watch but lately she started to show feelings towards me

Should I stop seeing her without telling him the reason?

Leave it to her to tell whatever she thinks needs to be told. "

This x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m curious OP nobody has asked are these feelings she has shown and im guessing probably told you, are they reciprocated?? Do you have feelings for her?

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By *ouplemeet39Couple
over a year ago

kent

Showing mine

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

have one more session with her, then run like fuck

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By *ornyOAPMan
over a year ago

Fethiye


"have one more session with her, then run like fuck"

The answer is simple . Tell the husband that you are starting to have feelings for his wife and that you think it would be better for everyone if you stopped seeing her

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By *ittle MonkeysCouple
over a year ago

Kimberley

Walk away. Make a simple excuse like you have met a girl and you want to be exclusive. No need to say anything that could destroy a marriage, leave that to them.

Walk away , there’s only trouble ahead otherwise

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By *rmrseptemberCouple
32 weeks ago

Tonbridge

Just be truthful. Explain to her that although very flattering you feel a bit uncomfortable when she expresses her deeper feelings for you as you definitely don’t want to upset her husband and damage their relationship together. The ball is in her court then and she can then make the choice to continue, break it off or let her husband know what’s occurring…

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By *r and Mrs Double spiceCouple
32 weeks ago

somewhere around midlands

I believe you have to be honest to both of them. We are all adults and in this kind of situations you have to be prepared to deal with the risks. If she can't be honest with her partner (in my opinion ) she shouldn't be in this "lifestyle"

Communication, Honesty are golden rules!

Mrs .

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By *r and Mrs Double spiceCouple
32 weeks ago

somewhere around midlands


"Just be truthful. Explain to her that although very flattering you feel a bit uncomfortable when she expresses her deeper feelings for you as you definitely don’t want to upset her husband and damage their relationship together. The ball is in her court then and she can then make the choice to continue, break it off or let her husband know what’s occurring… "

I've just noticed that the op made this post over a year ago! Lol

And now I'm curious about the outcome!

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