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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Going to put this out there...our biggest pet hate:

Guys addressing us although we are a single female, starting messages with 'hi hun' or 'you look hot' etc etc etc

Please stop it!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ok babe..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly you'll get that most men will be interested in her not both of you and will address her only. I know it sucks but don't let it bother you or you'll go insane

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ok babe.."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sadly you'll get that most men will be interested in her not both of you and will address her only. I know it sucks but don't let it bother you or you'll go insane "

let it continue that way, you then know the good guys from the bad guys to stay away from.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It doesnt bother me as I normally have a laugh with it and say 'you are not my type Thanks Mr M' but I am trying to give genuine advice to the guys on here as I bet it goes on all over!

It annoys D far more than me and she always gets the last say on anything we do so...

PS use of the words babe or hun will not get anybody anywhere with anyone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think replies should also be obvious that they are coming from both members of a couple so that the genuine single guys know it's not just a guy with a fake couples profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We both use the site but if D sends a message back she always puts her initial and some kisses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not a man posing as a couple are you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"not a man posing as a couple are you?"

Yes of course I am a man posing as a couple, how did you find out?

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By *exualhealer30Man
over a year ago

some what closer to you, in southeast

cheers babe...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not a man posing as a couple are you?

Yes of course I am a man posing as a couple, how did you find out?"

logic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as wifey often says "Don't Call me Babe"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think replies should also be obvious that they are coming from both members of a couple so that the genuine single guys know it's not just a guy with a fake couples profile."

How would you propose that would work? Two seperate message boxes one for each partner?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"not a man posing as a couple are you?

Yes of course I am a man posing as a couple, how did you find out?

logic"

Well don't tell anyone that we are just a man with an imaginary woman even though we have met lots of people who have verified us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think replies should also be obvious that they are coming from both members of a couple so that the genuine single guys know it's not just a guy with a fake couples profile."

You haven't really thought that through have you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It annoys us too, but it's really not worth letting anyone get to you over.

The chances are they have only looked at your pictures and sent a message without it registering that there is a male half also.

In our experience it's usually best to ignore someone who ignores 50% of you

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