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Do women ever ask for profile advice?

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By *icentious OP   Couple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Would be interesting what the responses would be...

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't recall seeing a woman ask. I've seen couples ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think most single women are trying to limit/filter the amount of msgs they get to be that

concerned.

Maybe we’re missing out on great potential connections because of that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would assume they are more busy filtering out all the crap messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've asked before, when I was relatively new. I did get some good constructive criticism.

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By *icentious OP   Couple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"I would assume they are more busy filtering out all the crap messages."

Or advising others on their crap profiles.

It would be a rather entertaining dare, ladies?

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Can't see the point.

Men will be saying more boob pics!

Women will sharpen their claws.

Oh, I'm so cynical

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South

When I first joined I didn’t put any photos on for a few weeks. I was still getting more than 50 messages a day .... not sure the profile content is of great importance to many.

I do wonder if women miss good people as the dross just clogs up the inbox.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would be interesting what the responses would be..."

Some do,many don't.

Can't get much more interesting than that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I asked once but nobody gave a damn, so I assume that privilege it's only available for men

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Yes I’ve seen threads from women asking for profile advice.

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth


"I asked once but nobody gave a damn, so I assume that privilege it's only available for men

"

It's a lovely profile ...perfect ...I mean it ...well written, brief, gives a sense of who you are, what you like ...

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By *entlemanrogueMan
over a year ago

Motherwell


"Would be interesting what the responses would be..."

No need, women get inundated regardless.

I have noticed some things women, have on their profile such as a word people who message must put in your message title is a good idea.

Also clearly stated oreferences of types they would consider meeting also when women are very clear on age range.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have. Not so much about my profile bio but certainly about photos. I sometimes ask people when they message me if my profile bio is too long or a bit mardy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe I should ask for advice... What ya think...

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Women know everything lol it's worrying when she's thinking isn't it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I first joined I didn’t put any photos on for a few weeks. I was still getting more than 50 messages a day .... not sure the profile content is of great importance to many.

I do wonder if women miss good people as the dross just clogs up the inbox. "

I have a fair few friends say exactly this . It's a shame as sometimes they miss the nice messages without having to filter out the dross as you say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I asked once but nobody gave a damn, so I assume that privilege it's only available for men

It's a lovely profile ...perfect ...I mean it ...well written, brief, gives a sense of who you are, what you like ...

"

Thank you I appreciate that

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By *icentious OP   Couple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Would be awful if there was hypocrites about comments on others, yet not putting themselves forward for reciprocity, don’t you think?

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South


"When I first joined I didn’t put any photos on for a few weeks. I was still getting more than 50 messages a day .... not sure the profile content is of great importance to many.

I do wonder if women miss good people as the dross just clogs up the inbox.

I have a fair few friends say exactly this . It's a shame as sometimes they miss the nice messages without having to filter out the dross as you say "

I’ve missed loads!!! Luckily and unluckily men seem to get this and send more than one. What usually happens to me is I search a profile out and when I message I see they’ve messaged me before

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading


"Would be awful if there was hypocrites about comments on others, yet not putting themselves forward for reciprocity, don’t you think?"

Not so. The OP is asking for advice not those giving advice.

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham

Women seem to put a million times more effort into their profile, and particularly their photos, than the average man asking for advice.

Hence there's not gonna be many genuinely constructive replies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A woman could have a blank profile with no pictures, and she would still get inundated with messages from all the horndogs trying their luck.

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham

I'd say the majority of men on here scatter gun generic mail to as many profiles as possible, regardless of how the woman looks or what she's written. I've recently had a speight of unsolicited messages from such profiles.... Usually 2 or 3 words..... Yaaaawn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funnily enough, today someone messaged me to say my profile was very vague and now I’m wondering if it’s vague?? I thought it was pretty specific. Maybe I do need some profile advice

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham


"Funnily enough, today someone messaged me to say my profile was very vague and now I’m wondering if it’s vague?? I thought it was pretty specific. Maybe I do need some profile advice "

I would suspect he says that to everyone as a subtle way of suggesting he's read it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Funnily enough, today someone messaged me to say my profile was very vague and now I’m wondering if it’s vague?? I thought it was pretty specific. Maybe I do need some profile advice

I would suspect he says that to everyone as a subtle way of suggesting he's read it... "

I suspect as much as well

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth


"Funnily enough, today someone messaged me to say my profile was very vague and now I’m wondering if it’s vague?? I thought it was pretty specific. Maybe I do need some profile advice

I would suspect he says that to everyone as a subtle way of suggesting he's read it...

I suspect as much as well "

No Tories ...that's clear anyway

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