FabSwingers.com forum: Profile advice

By *superfuse663 OP Man
over a year ago

manchester

Coming to end of my current site supporters and not sure about renewing. Thinking I might need a new profile as I've been here a reasonable time without being verified and think it might put people of when meeting can take place.

Keen to hear people's views and also just a general review of my profile.

Thanks all

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

How would a new profile help?

Considering people are only jusr starting to come round to the fact that we can look forward to meeting after a very long year.

Go to some socials when they happen, change around your current profile.

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

"Coming to end of my current site supporters and not sure about renewing. Thinking I might need a new profile as I've been here a reasonable time without being verified and think it might put people of when meeting can take place.

Keen to hear people's views and also just a general review of my profile.

Thanks all

I’d be more put off if you had loads of veris and meets during lockdown

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By *oxy lady40Woman
over a year ago

bridgwater

Don’t think setting up a new profile will change thing , as for not being verified yet you did join eight months ago , no one is meeting due to the COVID

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By *superfuse663 OP Man
over a year ago

manchester

"How would a new profile help?

Considering people are only jusr starting to come round to the fact that we can look forward to meeting after a very long year.

Go to some socials when they happen, change around your current profile."

Seen things on forum's and profiles ect along the lines of if you have been on for x amount of months and not got a veri or even a cam Veri your probably a time waster. Things along them lines

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And site only allows webcam veris

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a 'life' style, so you're in it for life!

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By *superfuse663 OP Man
over a year ago

manchester

"Don’t think setting up a new profile will change thing , as for not being verified yet you did join eight months ago , no one is meeting due to the COVID "

That's the thing lots of people won't get that or won't understand why not at least a cam verification

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By *oxy lady40Woman
over a year ago

bridgwater

"Don’t think setting up a new profile will change thing , as for not being verified yet you did join eight months ago , no one is meeting due to the COVID

That's the thing lots of people won't get that or won't understand why not at least a cam verification"
some will and some won’t personally I would be put off by anyone that had meets through this

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

This lifestyle attracts all sorts of people, but very few truly want to put in the effort to be successful on here.

A good profile is only a small part, but it’s the only way online to sell yourself to others on here.

So add more pictures hoping one or two will be attractive to those women or couples you’re looking to meet. Profile text that clearly tells them what you’ll bring to a meeting with them. That’s a start.

But also spend time on the forums or chat rooms to create visibility and finally get the verifications at clubs and socials (obviously when they reopen).

Currently you’re just one of many looking to meet the few on here, with in my view, a profile that doesn’t really stand out too much.

Good luck Op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I wouldn’t delete to make a new profile if you are deleting because you don’t have a verification making a new one won’t change it? Just keep this and hold off until clubs and socials start up again...

Good luck you could always get a cam veri if you went in the cam rooms

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I don't think there's any point in starting a new profile.

I'm only photo verified, obviously no one can meet to verify in real life right now, but you can still prove yourself to be genuine with a live pic on Kik for example, or a video call.

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

It doesn't make sense to start afresh if you have already made connections with people. As for the verification question, you shouldn't have been meeting people for the vast majority of the time you've been on the site, and people will realise that.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I think your pics are good. I think you might be better off not mentioning you have been here before as a couple, as it makes me wonder why noone you met as a couple has reverified you.

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham

You’ve asked for profile advice - well it’s short and confusing. “Very much straight” and then you say bi curious. Pick one.

8.5 inches is an impressive claim so a photo that hints at that would probably help rather than the pic you’ve got.

Also check your spelling.

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By *luebellRacerCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire

Leaving now won't help your chances. Join in the forums, build a rapport. Photos aren't terrible, but I wouldn't make claims about 8.5 length, it sounds childish.

Also... are you confused about sexuality? That's ok, but don't says "very straight"... then curious... mixed messages and a big put off.

Be clear what you want.

Once meets are allowed again, get to socials.

No one is having any meets atm, it's site wide, not just you.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

The first photo could be better but the other two are ok.

Say what you can offer people. It’s not just about what you want.

Check your spelling.

Lose the bit about been here before.

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By *iner69erMan
over a year ago

inverness

Doesn't matter what you put in your profile, as a man, your chances of a meet are very slim.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You’ve asked for profile advice - well it’s short and confusing. “Very much straight” and then you say bi curious. Pick one.

8.5 inches is an impressive claim so a photo that hints at that would probably help rather than the pic you’ve got.

Also check your spelling.

All of the above

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s confusing what you’re saying you either are or are not bi curious and kinky, do change that bit. Two black and white photos ok, you do need more pics. Good luck ????

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By *oneymitchMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Just patience bro, you signed up during a pandemic so not many are meeting. I have been meeting but only with women I built a rapport with prior to lockdown. A few profile amendments and your good to go, a new profile wont change anything

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Perhaps you could sort out your sexual orientation or at least say your confused

Straight male or bi-curious male?

Or explain why you think you are both..

All the best, the next 6 months will move things on.

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