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By *dReadyGo OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I m trying to contact some couples and putting some effort to write the meagre and keep it clean and interesting.

Crucially I leave the photo out, but I state that I'm more than happy to share if I get a reply back as sign of interest. Done it with couple who didn't write 'pic or blocked' in the profile

Am I too naive?

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By *ornyhappyCouple
over a year ago

perth

I think it's perfectly reasonable to leave the face pic off, if they are interested in finding out more they can reply to you & ask.

K (fem)

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle


"I m trying to contact some couples and putting some effort to write the meagre and keep it clean and interesting.

Crucially I leave the photo out, but I state that I'm more than happy to share if I get a reply back as sign of interest. Done it with couple who didn't write 'pic or blocked' in the profile

Am I too naive? "

I don’t reply to anyone who doesn’t attach a face pick.. don’t matter how good your message is if theres no attraction whats the point? I don’t want to waste mine or the senders time by messaging the getting to see the person later on and there not to my liking!

This works both ways also

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

Can you not attached the face pick and tick the box which removes it after the read the message.

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By *dReadyGo OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Can you not attached the face pick and tick the box which removes it after the read the message."

What sorcery is that? Ah yes, I'm not a site supporter

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By *winkleFairyCouple
over a year ago

UK

I think as long as you have some body pictures in your public gallery there’s no issues in that approach at all.

When it’s a gallery full of dick pictures there’s no way to know if you would be interested enough to want to see more.

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By *dReadyGo OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Thank you all. It seems the response tends to be 50/50.

I guess it's more a norm in here to surrender the photo first (even if there's no face pic of the couple)...

My gallery is not that dick free, but also not that full either.

Eh... The mysteries

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


"I m trying to contact some couples and putting some effort to write the meagre and keep it clean and interesting.

Crucially I leave the photo out, but I state that I'm more than happy to share if I get a reply back as sign of interest. Done it with couple who didn't write 'pic or blocked' in the profile

Am I too naive?

I don’t reply to anyone who doesn’t attach a face pick.. don’t matter how good your message is if theres no attraction whats the point? I don’t want to waste mine or the senders time by messaging the getting to see the person later on and there not to my liking!

This works both ways also "

This.

I won't ask for a face pic if one is not sent, as it's embarrassing to then say no, I don't fancy you. X

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By *winkleFairyCouple
over a year ago

UK


"Thank you all. It seems the response tends to be 50/50.

I guess it's more a norm in here to surrender the photo first (even if there's no face pic of the couple)...

My gallery is not that dick free, but also not that full either.

Eh... The mysteries "

In my opinion whoever initiates contact should send a face picture first - if there’s attraction I personally send one back (it’s only fair!) or I give a polite no thank you.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Always send a face pic with the first msg.

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Amsterdam

I had a "couple" this morning, who were asking me to tell them what I'd do to her but had no photos or veris. I pointed this out and "they" called me fake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its nice to see who is chatting.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Experiment with your various options, including profile and photos, to see what works for you. Some will have their own preferences for message contents, others not.

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West


"I m trying to contact some couples and putting some effort to write the meagre and keep it clean and interesting.

Crucially I leave the photo out, but I state that I'm more than happy to share if I get a reply back as sign of interest. Done it with couple who didn't write 'pic or blocked' in the profile

Am I too naive? "

I don’t reply with no face pic attached. Likewise I wouldn’t send a first message without attaching one.

What’s the point. How can I say I’m interested without the pic....

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