FabSwingers.com forum: Ideal type of message to receive

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all

So I’m just wondering what your ideal type of message would be to receive,

Now I’m a respectable person so when I message somebody I tend to be polite,

Is this the best way to be on fab

What type of message as an example would you be most likely to respond to and would gauge your interest, if received from a single male ?

Many thanks

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By *elloWoman
over a year ago

alpha centauri

Everyone is so unique and different that people will look for different things in messages.

Basically be polite and find something interesting in their profile to mention in the message

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By *heonixRaven 777Woman
over a year ago

Guildford

Ask them politely about any ink that you can see in pictures or if they just have listed on profile ask questions about them.

For me as I have previously said I enjoy hearing the story behind a tattoo and can tell you a lot about a person as well.

I don’t know any one that got tattoos that doesn’t enjoy a conversation about tattoos.

Something fun and quirky I tend to enjoy , something that shows me about who you are.

Use the person name and _ello is always a fantastic start to the message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be yourself. Keep it simple ,be polite and respectful. Maybe mention something that you mutually like or are into. A couple recent clear face pics is always nice so they can see who they are chatting with. Keep the cock pics to yourself unless they ask. It's worked for me 300 odd meets. I must be doing something right. Good luck

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Something that piques my interest or make me laugh.

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By *astesLikeMagicWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

My ideal massage is a sports massage.

I'm not looking for massages on fab

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well it’s a good job I wasn’t asking for advice on massages then! Lol

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

We like polite messages which show the sender has read our profile, understood our likes/limitations and made a decent attempt to explain how they fit into all that. We don't want cock shots or tales of their sexual prowess.

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

"Well it’s a good job I wasn’t asking for advice on massages then! Lol

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I had to re-read the post twice because of this.

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By *iss pleasuringWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

Don't put let's chat , then after ask what do you want to chat about ..

Pet hate .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just be yourself. Keep it simple ,be polite and respectful. Maybe mention something that you mutually like or are into. A couple recent clear face pics is always nice so they can see who they are chatting with. Keep the cock pics to yourself unless they ask. It's worked for me 300 odd meets. I must be doing something right. Good luck

OP "

Proof is in the pudding. Look at this guys success and follow his advice!

Understand the difference between a single male who embraces and joins the swinging lifestyle and all its facets (post covid), social events, swinging clubs etc. Gain a positive reputation over time and then the private party invites will follow. Remember Fab is just one small tool in the swingers toolbox.

Accept your just a single male looking for no string sex / a quick fix and lower your expectations of this site. Sign up to Tinder because you much more likely to find success there in this situation.

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham

"Hi all

So I’m just wondering what your ideal type of message would be to receive,

Now I’m a respectable person so when I message somebody I tend to be polite,

Is this the best way to be on fab

What type of message as an example would you be most likely to respond to and would gauge your interest, if received from a single male ?

Many thanks

Polite is good but above all relevant to the person's profile. There's no Holy Grail as everyone is different

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By *wingsnroundabouts82Couple
over a year ago

Fucksville

Something to make us laugh x we love banter! BUT there is a fine line between banter and filth, which we don't mind hut not in the first few messages, I don't want to hear about how you're the best oral giver in the world and how you're vwe I wanna know how you'll fit in with a couple scenario, don't address messages to just me there are 2 of us!

Not too long but enough to get your vibe, what you're into and what you're looking for x we do love a clear face pic as if there's no attraction then all of us are wasting our time x also no stupid snap chat filters... Ears, tongues, hearts etc... No thank you!!! X

Good luck op x just be you x

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By *iberty RedWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I prefer someone who matches what I'm looking for so have read my profile but I also quite like funny, observational messages, sometimes its just nice to talk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone IS different and every person messaging IS different ... one size doesn't fit all.

I've met wonderful friends from a simple "hi" message and actually the advice from the forums of tailor your message to their profile etc bores the hell out of me!

One piece of advice most will agree with is make your profile as attractive as possible and show yourself/individuality there.

Also if you're going to ask for a photo ... send yours first! Otherwise it's just rude!

But most of all, humour and individuality works best for me ...

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By *ostonJoeMan
over a year ago

Boston

I find a big photoshopped pic of my fella while I am sat on the toilet in my work wear is a must. Tha ladeez love that. Put it with a message that you can just copy and paste detailing how proficient you are at the sex. Make sure they understand you are so good that sexual organs may get ruined. Throw a couple of #'S outlining some of your weirdest kinks always works well. Don't forget to make sure you let them know this is a limited time offer or they might miss out. Spam and repeat if they unfortunately miss your message and delete it by mistake.

Or just be yourself. Unless that is you. If that is the case, be someone else.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Haha this is brilliant!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ones that start with a greeting of some sort definitely helps, which I assume you do based on how you’ve worded your question.

Agree with a lot of what has already been said, everyone is different! Something funny/interesting always piques my interest.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thankyou everyone for your input so far!

Every bit of advice is duely noted and appreciated!

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