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"Not sure it's its a Coincidence but I had a ex who loved anal but always had a dicky tummy if I came inside " This happened when I had anal with my ex. Always use condoms on fab so been fine over the last few years. | |||
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"I’ve had the same op. I put it down to air being pumped back up so to speak. I suffered wind the next day too. " Thank god it’s not just me I’ve had anal a fair few times but this has by far been the worst experience - two days and I’ve just been bent over (lol) in pain. | |||
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"Not sure it's its a Coincidence but I had a ex who loved anal but always had a dicky tummy if I came inside This happened when I had anal with my ex. Always use condoms on fab so been fine over the last few years." Yer I'd always use condoms with a new partner but maybe arses just don't like cum | |||
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"Hi all,it will be trapped wind pushed up there, it seems strange how that happens but it will be that, and yes it can feel unpleasant, but a relax in a warm bath and a walk should release it, hope this helps" Thanks! It’s felt like a bit of constipation as well. Yikes!!!!! | |||
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"I’ve had the same op. I put it down to air being pumped back up so to speak. I suffered wind the next day too. Thank god it’s not just me I’ve had anal a fair few times but this has by far been the worst experience - two days and I’ve just been bent over (lol) in pain. " It’s bound to do all sorts to your bowel especially if they cum inside you. It’s supposed to be an exit not an entrance so your body will have a reaction, hope the pain passes xx | |||
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"Hi all,it will be trapped wind pushed up there, it seems strange how that happens but it will be that, and yes it can feel unpleasant, but a relax in a warm bath and a walk should release it, hope this helps Thanks! It’s felt like a bit of constipation as well. Yikes!!!!! " A hot drink mint tea is good I've had trapped wind while in hospital and that's what they give you | |||
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"Are you sure you mean 'stomach' and not 'abdomen'? Most people's stomach is several well endowed penis lengths away from their rectum." We knew what she meant. | |||
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"After anal sex usually in pain for days after , so no longer want anal " Yeah it’s really not worth it!!!! | |||
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"Are you sure you mean 'stomach' and not 'abdomen'? Most people's stomach is several well endowed penis lengths away from their rectum. We knew what she meant. " So did I! | |||
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"I think positions can influence it, so experiment a bit. I think the air is part of it but also the contortio/compression, combined with the effects of body parts being slammed, which don't typically have the types of nerve endings we have on our external body areas. " Right now I never want to do it again been doubled up for two days now | |||
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"Are you sure you mean 'stomach' and not 'abdomen'? Most people's stomach is several well endowed penis lengths away from their rectum. We knew what she meant. So did I!" Stop being a pedant then | |||
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"After anal sex usually in pain for days after , so no longer want anal Yeah it’s really not worth it!!!!" In some ways a dumb-arsed way to treat one's body!!! | |||
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"After anal sex usually in pain for days after , so no longer want anal Yeah it’s really not worth it!!!!" definitely not worth it , | |||
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"Hi - random one, I don’t often do anal but when I do I occasionally feel a bit rough for a few days after. I recently had it and I’ve had stomach cramping from morning to night. I’ve spoke to a few people who said they’ve had this too - anyone else experience this? It’s really agony. And no, I’ve not perforated my colon - symptoms aren’t that severe I had a look online to check. Any remedies would be massively welcomed too!!! " I've only had a little pain after I have douched too much and probably left some water inside. So now I try to limit how much water I use with douching and not had a problem. | |||
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"I get this. I just thought it was my IBS playing up." Yes, it’s like really bad IBS. | |||
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"I think positions can influence it, so experiment a bit. I think the air is part of it but also the contortio/compression, combined with the effects of body parts being slammed, which don't typically have the types of nerve endings we have on our external body areas. Right now I never want to do it again been doubled up for two days now " Ha ..... the previous prep the pain afterwards seriously .... it’s not a preference of mine purely for that! | |||
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"Ah good. Let's not put women off anal, that would be a really bad situation!!! " Yeah let’s just put up with pain so men get their jollies eh | |||
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"Hope you recover soon O.P. I don't get why people go for anal..... it's a poop chute and if you have to wash the shit out of it and use tons of lube and enter slowly and could end up with several different kinds of damage.. I never know why women think this could possible be fun.... I know some say they orgasm by it ..... n I don't care who fucks who up what with what ..... all I know is weighing everything up it's just NOT worth it...... not for me anyway. When the fun stops...... stop. I've read that somewhere before.... " I do orgasm from anal so I weigh up the very slight risk of infection and decided that it's worth it. The maincauses of infection come from switching from anal to vaginal penetration which can lead to kidney infection so don't switch back. | |||
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"Ah good. Let's not put women off anal, that would be a really bad situation!!! Yeah let’s just put up with pain so men get their jollies eh " that’s all man think about is anal , I say there enough man on here , so get your anal there instead | |||
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" ... endometriosis in the pouch of Douglas (a small peritoneal sac that sits above the perineal body i.e. between the vaginal and rectum can be a significant cause of pelvic pain after intercourse. " I love the 'Pouch of Douglas' bit. I will add that to my knowledge database of female anatomy. Also copied to the pedantry file! | |||
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"Hope you recover soon O.P. I don't get why people go for anal..... it's a poop chute and if you have to wash the shit out of it and use tons of lube and enter slowly and could end up with several different kinds of damage.. I never know why women think this could possible be fun.... I know some say they orgasm by it ..... n I don't care who fucks who up what with what ..... all I know is weighing everything up it's just NOT worth it...... not for me anyway. When the fun stops...... stop. I've read that somewhere before.... I do orgasm from anal so I weigh up the very slight risk of infection and decided that it's worth it. The maincauses of infection come from switching from anal to vaginal penetration which can lead to kidney infection so don't switch back. " That's another thing ! I'd never go anal to vag .... or worse...... bleurgh .... Mind you there's prob more bacteria in a mouth than I should be french kissin'..... bleurgh ..... Think I'll just give up sex altogether or do it in plastic gloves and a hazmat........ | |||
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"Whyyyy did I open this thread!! " Well I can see that you have made sure nothing gets near your pouch of Douglas !! | |||
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"You’re tonsils would be hurting if I pumped your ass OP " Bet they wouldn’t .... | |||
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"You’re tonsils would be hurting if I pumped your ass OP Bet they wouldn’t .... " Ask my wife. In fact don’t cause I shouldn’t be here | |||
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"Try some peppermint tea " I’ve been swearing by that, I actually had some red wine tonight as sometimes it gets things moving. The weird thing is I’ve had anal quite a lot and although had a little bit of blockage pain never quite this severe so god knows what I did!!!! | |||
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"Are you doing ass to mouth? That can cause a dicky tummy for obvious reasons " Nah I wondered if it was like shigella or poisoning of some sort but we didn’t do any ass to mouth or back to vag stuff. I think I just got myself backed up. Ooops! | |||
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"So what your saying is... You've had a meet during lockdown Up the dirtbox as well " I never said it was a new meet, I have a bubble. | |||
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"Hi - random one, I don’t often do anal but when I do I occasionally feel a bit rough for a few days after. I recently had it and I’ve had stomach cramping from morning to night. I’ve spoke to a few people who said they’ve had this too - anyone else experience this? It’s really agony. And no, I’ve not perforated my colon - symptoms aren’t that severe I had a look online to check. Any remedies would be massively welcomed too!!! Natural yoghurt might help and I swear by peppermint tea for any IBS symptoms. Hope you feel better soon lovely xx" | |||
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"So what your saying is... You've had a meet during lockdown Up the dirtbox as well I never said it was a new meet, I have a bubble. " it wasn't anything to do with the ever given was it ? | |||
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"I’ve had the same op. I put it down to air being pumped back up so to speak. I suffered wind the next day too. Thank god it’s not just me I’ve had anal a fair few times but this has by far been the worst experience - two days and I’ve just been bent over (lol) in pain. It’s bound to do all sorts to your bowel especially if they cum inside you. It’s supposed to be an exit not an entrance so your body will have a reaction, hope the pain passes xx " I heard someone said that to me before as it is supposed to be exit not an entrance xx I think it might see cum as foreign option so react it in an unpleasant way? Xx I haven’t had anal for years (just hasn’t happen, not purposely avoid it nor usually ask for it xx) take some pain killer/relax Bath to see if it helps? Xx | |||
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"So what your saying is... You've had a meet during lockdown Up the dirtbox as well I never said it was a new meet, I have a bubble. " That's what it is then, you have a trapped bubble. | |||
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"Hi - random one, I don’t often do anal but when I do I occasionally feel a bit rough for a few days after. I recently had it and I’ve had stomach cramping from morning to night. I’ve spoke to a few people who said they’ve had this too - anyone else experience this? It’s really agony. And no, I’ve not perforated my colon - symptoms aren’t that severe I had a look online to check. Any remedies would be massively welcomed too!!! " It can just happen sometimes, especially if you go at it rough. Take 1-2 Buscopan and 2 Paracetamol after having anal and you should feel absolutely fine the next day. | |||
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"Hi - random one, I don’t often do anal but when I do I occasionally feel a bit rough for a few days after. I recently had it and I’ve had stomach cramping from morning to night. I’ve spoke to a few people who said they’ve had this too - anyone else experience this? It’s really agony. And no, I’ve not perforated my colon - symptoms aren’t that severe I had a look online to check. Any remedies would be massively welcomed too!!! It can just happen sometimes, especially if you go at it rough. Take 1-2 Buscopan and 2 Paracetamol after having anal and you should feel absolutely fine the next day." What should the 'giver' take ? | |||
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"I had anal last night and have had some pain and cramps today, which is unusual. He did cum very deep, maybe that's the issue. But you said he didn't finish inside didn't you OP? Are you any better now? Xx" I’m all better now thank god!! Think I’ll avoid anymore anal for a bit | |||
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"I had anal last night and have had some pain and cramps today, which is unusual. He did cum very deep, maybe that's the issue. But you said he didn't finish inside didn't you OP? Are you any better now? Xx I’m all better now thank god!! Think I’ll avoid anymore anal for a bit " Pleased to hear that. Hope future anal is fine for you xx | |||
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"Ah good. Let's not put women off anal, that would be a really bad situation!!! Yeah let’s just put up with pain so men get their jollies eh that’s all man think about is anal , I say there enough man on here , so get your anal there instead " personaly as the male half, i dont get the big thing about anal, a vagina is a far nicer place to be inside of, and alot less hassle | |||
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"Ah good. Let's not put women off anal, that would be a really bad situation!!! Yeah let’s just put up with pain so men get their jollies eh that’s all man think about is anal , I say there enough man on here , so get your anal there instead " personaly as the male half, i dont get the big thing about anal, a vagina is a far nicer place to be inside of, and alot less hassle | |||
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"Ah good. Let's not put women off anal, that would be a really bad situation!!! Yeah let’s just put up with pain so men get their jollies eh that’s all man think about is anal , I say there enough man on here , so get your anal there instead " Hear hear! Ahem. | |||
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"Hi - random one, I don’t often do anal but when I do I occasionally feel a bit rough for a few days after. I recently had it and I’ve had stomach cramping from morning to night. I’ve spoke to a few people who said they’ve had this too - anyone else experience this? It’s really agony. And no, I’ve not perforated my colon - symptoms aren’t that severe I had a look online to check. Any remedies would be massively welcomed too!!! It can just happen sometimes, especially if you go at it rough. Take 1-2 Buscopan and 2 Paracetamol after having anal and you should feel absolutely fine the next day. What should the 'giver' take ? " Definitely not advice from Granny Crumpet | |||
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"There should be more information on this online - I googled it and there is nothing on it at all, it all comes up with IBS or “Risks of anal” with only like major life threatening stuff. Not - sometimes when you do anal you get an infection or filled with air and it’s sore for days. " Life threatening anal?! Ahhh I've really found a love for anal sex, but now I feel like I should Google it...! I hope you manage to figure what it is OP and get it sorted out xxher | |||
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"I have had anal with a few ladies and once did it without condom and came deep in her ass and she did say she had stomach acre for a while must be a reaction somewhere " I don't always get that but I do on occasion if they cum inside xx | |||
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"So what your saying is... You've had a meet during lockdown Up the dirtbox as well I never said it was a new meet, I have a bubble. " Brown bubble! | |||
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"Best bet is not to cum in her ass" Cumming deep in her ass is the best bit | |||
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"Hi - random one, I don’t often do anal but when I do I occasionally feel a bit rough for a few days after. I recently had it and I’ve had stomach cramping from morning to night. I’ve spoke to a few people who said they’ve had this too - anyone else experience this? It’s really agony. And no, I’ve not perforated my colon - symptoms aren’t that severe I had a look online to check. Any remedies would be massively welcomed too!!! It can just happen sometimes, especially if you go at it rough. Take 1-2 Buscopan and 2 Paracetamol after having anal and you should feel absolutely fine the next day. What should the 'giver' take ? Definitely not advice from Granny Crumpet " Indeed....Where's the fun in that | |||
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"Generalised abdominal cramps after anal intercourse may be due to irritation of the peritoneal ligaments which attach to the viscera (i.e. the organs and structures in your abdomen) - see Herxheimer / runner's stomach for more information. Having a cock bash repeatedly against the colon and, potentially, the ovaries can precipitate pain. Likewise, you may get (usually) transient pain due to air insufflation of the rectum and descending colon. Finally, endometriosis in the pouch of Douglas (a small peritoneal sac that sits above the perineal body i.e. between the vaginal and rectum can be a significant cause of pelvic pain after intercourse. " Username checks out | |||
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