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Difference between a bull and a guy that wants to fuck your wife

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By *aurad OP   Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

So let’s try and educate the masses of single guys.

What is the difference between a bull and someone that just wants to fuck your wife?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So let’s try and educate the masses of single guys.

What is the difference between a bull and someone that just wants to fuck your wife?"

I can applaud this but why educate the idiots?? We have enough lunatics running the asylum!

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By *aurad OP   Couple
over a year ago

glasgow


"So let’s try and educate the masses of single guys.

What is the difference between a bull and someone that just wants to fuck your wife?

I can applaud this but why educate the idiots?? We have enough lunatics running the asylum! "

I like your thinking but how can we adjust our message filters to stop the idiots?

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By *2coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

A bull will have humiliation so his game.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"So let’s try and educate the masses of single guys.

What is the difference between a bull and someone that just wants to fuck your wife?"

All this will do.is.enable someone who just wants to fuck.your wife to fake being a bull.

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By *aurad OP   Couple
over a year ago

glasgow


"So let’s try and educate the masses of single guys.

What is the difference between a bull and someone that just wants to fuck your wife?

All this will do.is.enable someone who just wants to fuck.your wife to fake being a bull."

I had hoped that this could have been a PSA and widened the pool of true bulls rather than being a crib sheet for fakes.

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By *awtymarkyMan
over a year ago

chester


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All this will do.is.enable someone who just wants to fuck.your wife to fake being a bull."

I agree with this completely.

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By *ooking for SubmissivesMan
over a year ago

Close by

From my perspective a Good bull will take the time to build a rapport with both members of the relationship understanding both parties individual wants and needs, whilst respecting their boundaries and limits.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"So let’s try and educate the masses of single guys.

What is the difference between a bull and someone that just wants to fuck your wife?"

With this being a PSA or chance to educate the masses, why are you then expecting others to provide the answers?

If you truly wanted to help others appreciate the nuances, this doesn’t feel like a good way to go about it.

But then, maybe I am just someone looking for a crib sheet of answers.....

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

I'm not into bulls at all. Just extra cock

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire


"So let’s try and educate the masses of single guys.

What is the difference between a bull and someone that just wants to fuck your wife?"

The wife OP !!! Is she Hot Wife or Vixen or married to a cuck? Depending on that will answer your question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is there really a difference?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes the main difference being a bull as 4 legs and someone wanting to fuck your wife as 2

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By *aturing bullMan
over a year ago

TOOTING


"From my perspective a Good bull will take the time to build a rapport with both members of the relationship understanding both parties individual wants and needs, whilst respecting their boundaries and limits.

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To which I would add once you understand their needs and wants, deciding honestly whether you can fulfil them and have a good time yourself too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bull controls cows in a field and shags them.

A man who wants to shag the wife comes round for tea First

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

Would it be accurate to say men seem more interested in the distinction than women ?

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By *ermite12ukMan
over a year ago

Solihull and Brentwood

I think it's more the 'bull' actively working to fit into the lifestyle and dynamics of the couples way of life. (Not always humiliation.) So that each party, feels wanted, and has an active role to fulfil in not only the hum drum of daily life. But also the sexual side of life.

The guy trying to shag someones wife, only has one thing on his mind....and that probably isn't to look after the 'needs' of the wife. imho.

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By *omis.69Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

A bull adds another agreed dimension to an existing relationship...the importance being agreed and communicated

Not a one off fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Semantics

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By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds


"So let’s try and educate the masses of single guys.

What is the difference between a bull and someone that just wants to fuck your wife?"

A bull takes hubby’s last cold can from the fridge after fucking his wife

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By *portyndNaughtyMan
over a year ago

Nearby Hinckley

Bull, adult male of the species Bos Taurus. More muscular than cows, thicker bones, very muscular neck, large bony head and protective ridges over the eyes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bull realises that the dynamic is that of the couple. That THEY set the ground rules and that it is NOT about him but about THEM and THEIR relationship. This can take time and understanding. Too many wannabes do not and will not realise this and can be easily ed out.

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By *kyblue1878Couple
over a year ago

Southport

Not remotely interested in anyone with bull, cuckold or hotwife in their profile. Each to their own but it's a massive turn off for us.

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By *renzMan
over a year ago

Between Chichester and Havant

I've always thought someone who calls themselves a bull, probably isn't.

It doesn't have to be a specific, it's individual to the couple and extra male, sometimes being organic.

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By *inky_CarpenterMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Sometimes I'm called her boyfriend, for others I'm a special friend, or just her lover.

I've been called sir and boss. Usualy it's just my name though...

I'm called different things because my role is never the same. Every couple is different as every relationship dynamic is different and unique, depending on the individuals involved, their tastes and situations.... But yes I am sometimes a Bull.

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"So let’s try and educate the masses of single guys.

What is the difference between a bull and someone that just wants to fuck your wife?"

I guess one size doesn't fit all. In my own case I've had encounters with men who superficially aren't bulls (nor did I expect them to be), yet they've captured my/our imagination and things developed that way at their instigation. Personally I don't enjoy encounters where someone's (obviously) following a script or only seeking the fulfillment of their own objectives.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

All this Bull stuff bores me! I would hate someone giving out orders during sex! Erm that’s the door, close it on your way out lol.

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By *erry bull1Man
over a year ago

doncaster

As a bull , I find it’s important to build a relationship with a couple and also find out their needs , like and dislikes ,

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By *unnyPairCouple
over a year ago

Seminole

In our opinion a “bull” would be someone who takes the place of a less competent man/husband when the wife desires it. Along with this dynamic, the husband is aroused by his wife being pleasured by someone else and equally aroused by the fact she keeps him from experiencing his own sexual pleasure. The key here is the “bull” is the dominant one in that bedroom.

A vixen and stag relationship invites select males into the bedroom when they both desire it, and the vixen gets whatever she wants! She is the dominant one in that bedroom as if it’s not what she wants, it’s not happening.

For us, we struggle to find playmates who can understand that we’re not climbing the walls so eagerly awaiting this meetup. As the vixen and stag relationship is our game, we could take it or leave it, and if we’re going to share such intimate time with someone, they better be able to be patient knowing the prize is worth the wait.

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

I his like. Fucking someone's wife no bull.

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

I just like fucking other people's wife's.

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By *roticusCouple
over a year ago

Porthmadog

For us, it's not about a replacement husband and the cuck thing as Ross is already Lucy's dominant master, and cucks other couples. For us, it is a guy who is equally dominant, knows what he wants and takes it, has a reliable large and hard erection so Lucy gets a good fucking, also can deliver a high volume of good quality cum at the end into Lucy. After all, we know why farmers keep bulls, don't we?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"From my perspective a Good bull will take the time to build a rapport with both members of the relationship understanding both parties individual wants and needs, whilst respecting their boundaries and limits.

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This is the fundamental foundation for most relationships involving a an extra (male or female). Very much often forgotten.

Every bull has his differences as its all about his personality. That can never be duplicated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why so arrogant and disparaging, educate the idiots??

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"So let’s try and educate the masses of single guys.

What is the difference between a bull and someone that just wants to fuck your wife?"

Ones got horns.

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