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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

that got your attention didn't it, actually its true, i'm hosting a party in celebration of my birthday, and wondered if anybody could advise me on, on what to serve, games to play,, or just let people get on with it, most of the people on the list so far i've already met/played with, so what do you think?

what are your experiences of partys?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

theres tonnes of party games...but they involve needing other people heheheheehehehehehehe

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

yeah, I hear ya, no fun playing by yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yeah, I hear ya, no fun playing by yourself

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I dunno, most 13 year old boys might disagree.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Central

Just think you need to provide the space, welcoming environment and gather the right mix of people - they can develop activity ideas. It can be stressful enough organising as it is, without loading too much pressure onto yourself.

Light nibbles, preferably stuff that won't go off quickly, no health risks to consume. You can add some soft drinks or booze, as well as let people bring their own.

Remember, not everyone who says they'll show will likely come, so bear that in mind, and test reliability beforehand, if possible, such as asking people to send confirmations etc.

Good luck and have fun!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks, for that feedback, I'll take it on board, wasn't sure whether to provide alcohiol drinks or not, could run expensive.

cheers all

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By *kmale421Man
over a year ago

wirral

Drinks - Provide a few mixers but make it a BYOB party

People - You have already covered as you know and have met whom your inviting

Play Areas - Make sure you have them, and your valuables put away to avoid accidental breakages

Party Games - 1) Leave the majority to do what they wish, 2) Have a Monopoly Board out for the boring ones, 3) Have Twister for tye adventurous, 4) Have a webcam room for the daring and so thos of us not invited can watch...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't try and get everyone involved in party games cos not everyone will want to play or do anything ie just even kiss someone else at the party. Good music but not too loud. Labels for peoples fab names is good cos people might recognise each other by it. Plastic cups and soft drinks only provided. Be prepared for last minute let downs so have a number un your head of maximum people and possibly a waiting list. Make sure u let people know of expectations ie considerate to neighbors and an absolute cut of for arrivals so yr not answering door at stupid o'clock or some guest answers in their knickers or less! Poss 10.30 at the latest. Also tell them to bring a towel if they want to shower after or ull have a lot of washing to do! Have fun xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

All fantastic info thanks (i'm writing this down)

did think of strip twister,but as you say not everyone will be interested.

name badges, great idea,, and one that didn't occur to me.

cheers fabbsters

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Make sure you have one less chair than the number of guests. Otherwise musical chairs will flop big style

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

not sure I have got enough chairs actually....

perhaps people can sit on each others laps...lol

i'm kidding, i'm kidding...

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By *exualhealer30Man
over a year ago

some what closer to you, in southeast

Some of the 30s may do even ,, but I certainly won't agree. Jenni is right . playing by yourself all good,, then why this forum...lol ..suggest spin the bottle.strip poker.. pantyless pool-squash..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

how exactly do you play pantyless pool squash?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Make sure you have one less chair than the number of guests. Otherwise musical chairs will flop big style"

You can tell the kinda parties Ryan is used to!

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By *unloversCouple
over a year ago

rotherham

We have been to a few house parties and none of them had games as when we arrived there was good music on and nibbles in the kitchen....a lot chatted to get to know each other then slowly drifted off to their desired place for fun

Not a lot of people want to play games at parties but then again we havent tried it yet but doubt it would interest us

Good luck with the party

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thamks, again for all your ideas/comments, I hope it goes well.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

hi all, party didn'.t go exactly as planned, but thanks for all your help, you lovely fabbers.

pm me if want know what went wrong.

plan on trying again soon.

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

bradford

I would ask, because I am considering a similar event and would like to avoid the problems but i cant message you.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

I did warn you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I did warn you "

Too many chairs and not enough donuts?

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