FabSwingers.com forum: How to attract genuine profiles

By *uscle88 OP Man
over a year ago

Potters Bar

I’m consistently attracting spoof accounts on here and nothing with any genuine women and couples. Do I need to change my profile or is it just like this?

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By *angbangFantasyWoman
over a year ago

London

Well, we're in the middle of a pandemic, the site is advising to remain within government guidelines and to protect the NHS, so not a lot of people meeting.

Your profile is very generic and brief, nothing too interesting.

Also, there are a lot more single men on this site than women or couples. You have to stand out.

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By *uscle88 OP Man
over a year ago

Potters Bar

"Well, we're in the middle of a pandemic, the site is advising to remain within government guidelines and to protect the NHS, so not a lot of people meeting.

Your profile is very generic and brief, nothing too interesting.

What would you suggest adding, I’m a former European champion boxer, but thought that would be too much.

I know the pandemic limits things but surely I should get some conversation of some interest.

Also, there are a lot more single men on this site than women or couples. You have to stand out. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m consistently attracting spoof accounts on here and nothing with any genuine women and couples. Do I need to change my profile or is it just like this?"

Imho your profile looks like it could reflect your personality so I’d leave it as is.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I agree with the poster above it's your profile of you think it reflects you then leave it as it is.I don't really see any point in changing a profile to something you are not just in the hope of attracting new people.

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By *evilandTheBeastCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough and Bedford

The number of photos in your account seems rather excessive, are you sure you're not treating this site as Instagram? On one hand, it's great to see more than one picture of a man, but on the other, some may think you are very vain and in love of yourself. Or maybe you're an exhibitionist?

If it was us, we'd choose a few most varied photos, but it's your profile. If it shows your true personality, leave it as it is. No point attracting people you'd have nothing in common with just for the sake of it.

Good luck.

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

If I were a single man on here I would be very wary of those making the initial contact with me.

Make the first contact yourself, and only contact those that are photo and/or meet verified. Use a bit of sense and intuition, you'll be fine.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I’m consistently attracting spoof accounts on here and nothing with any genuine women and couples. Do I need to change my profile or is it just like this?"

You are competing with thousands of men for the attention of just a few women so your profile needs to be interesting and stand out to attract these women. Sadly if you are not receiving the attention you want then look at your profile.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Loves himself and not a very impressive cock tbh

Not a particularly constructive comment. Perhaps you might want to reflect on your own visually non-existent profile, before stamping on someone else's. "

She didn’t ask for profile advice!

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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"Loves himself and not a very impressive cock tbh

Not a particularly constructive comment. Perhaps you might want to reflect on your own visually non-existent profile, before stamping on someone else's.

She didn’t ask for profile advice! "

The OP didn't ask for nasty comments either.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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Ok , if people can't be civil or just want to try and humiliate people then please don't use the forum. Also the OP has asked for profile advice so it is fine to discuss, other peoples profiles shouldn't be discussed, no matter what the provocation. Report posts instead please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like others have said, unfortunately men waaaayy out number anyone else on here. And the pandemic has only made that worse.

My advice is to be patient. It doesn't take long to work out if a profile is genuine or not.

The genuine people that I have found, befriended and met with etc have more than made up for the 'wasted time' I have out in to attempting to make a connection with fake/non genuine profiles.

I can imagine it's 10 times harder for TV/TS/CD, 100 times harder for Couples and a 1000 times harder for women trying to out the fake/non genuine profiles from the real and genuine ones!

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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To the OP, your profile seems a bit short, maybe add what you are looking for etc

Good luck

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

OP another way is to regularly change your profile. If you don’t think it is working then make it an ongoing project and look at and change it regularly. It’s difficult for single males as there are so many on fab.

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By *angbangFantasyWoman
over a year ago

London

"Well, we're in the middle of a pandemic, the site is advising to remain within government guidelines and to protect the NHS, so not a lot of people meeting.

Your profile is very generic and brief, nothing too interesting.

What would you suggest adding, I’m a former European champion boxer, but thought that would be too much.

I know the pandemic limits things but surely I should get some conversation of some interest.

Also, there are a lot more single men on this site than women or couples. You have to stand out. "

I think if that's something you want to mention that's totally up to you, some people may be into that.

I think expanding on what you like and what you seek, some experiences you'd like to try and explore can peak the interest of those seeking similar

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By *yGirl4LifeCouple
over a year ago

grimsby

We're new to this site and had our first friend request which we accepted from a single female.

Only afterwards did i do a reverse image search and realise the photos on the account were all taken from a revenge porn site originally uploaded in 2014.

My guess is that these fake sites are simply harvesting photos to upload to other revenge sites. So my warning to the OP is that he needs to be careful his photos aren't going the same way.

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham

There's a lot of pics, which is good, but they are all really, really, similar. Choose your best 10%, delete the rest and take some new ones with a bit more variety

A lot more profile text required

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Too many similar photos, cut them down to a variety of different ones, I like the contrast of work gear/smart dress. But too many of the same pose/facial expression. I didn't get past the first page.

And add a bit more to your bio.

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