FabSwingers.com forum: Profile help

By *allboi OP Man
over a year ago

Scarborough

I genuinely can’t work out how to improve my profile. Are there any tips/guides for me? I’m happy to chat via dms but would prefer feedback from women or couples as that’s who I’m looking for.

May also need help with introductory messages, I’m just very socially awkward and can’t quite grasp some things. Any help appreciated x

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Pictures - only cock pics usually a no from most women. Your profile is very generic. What makes you different?

Try to add some humour to your intro messages - you may laugh someone into bed.

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By *allboi OP Man
over a year ago

Scarborough

"Pictures - only cock pics usually a no from most women. Your profile is very generic. What makes you different?

Try to add some humour to your intro messages - you may laugh someone into bed. "

Thanks I’ll try and find a decent non-face picture.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"I genuinely can’t work out how to improve my profile. Are there any tips/guides for me? I’m happy to chat via dms but would prefer feedback from women or couples as that’s who I’m looking for.

May also need help with introductory messages, I’m just very socially awkward and can’t quite grasp some things. Any help appreciated x "

your profile lacks sexual imagination especially 3 cock pics doesn't really entice me to want to chat to you

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

May also need help with introductory messages, I’m just very socially awkward and can’t quite grasp some things. Any help appreciated x "

your profile lacks sexual imagination especially 3 cock pics doesn't really entice me to want to chat to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We now know what a cock looks like so thank you and change nothing!!!!!

Pictures and scrub the bit saying you always try to be nice!!!!

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

We'd probably delete any message you sent us without even reading it, purely because of your profile pic. Sorry.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

"We'd probably delete any message you sent us without even reading it, purely because of your profile pic. Sorry."

This from me too

You have to sell yourself on here op, as so many men

Why should someone meet you, add some non cock pics and join in on forums

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By *allboi OP Man
over a year ago

Scarborough

Thanks for the feedback. I’m going to try and find a decent picture and probably blur my face out.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Thanks for the feedback. I’m going to try and find a decent picture and probably blur my face out. "

Couldn't you take a photo of your body without your face in it, rather than blurring it out ?

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By *moothGrooveWoman
over a year ago

Durham

Instead of asking yourself why why your profile doesn't stand out, try asking yourself why it does.

There's nothing interesting, nothing of note, nothing that tells the reader anything about you.

I hate the line "just ask me anything, I'm happy to answer." If you have the 50 messages in your inbox you are going through you don't have time to individually ask each person if they are looking for the same things as you. Just put it all in your profile. To me it screams lazy.

There's nothing wrong with 1 dick pic, or maybe more than one if they are quite artistic. Generally women aren't fussed about seeing a close-up of a cock (3 times in this case), especially not as a profile pic.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"can’t quite grasp some things. "

In all your pics you are grasping your penis !

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By *ed velvet thornWoman
over a year ago

over the rainbow

Remove the cock pics leave a bit to our imagination as a surprise Im a lover of eyes and legs ohhhh and if you've got ink you move up a notch on my list x

I know my profile is blank at the moment but thats due to a sicko who has used my pics to send to my boss and family as he knew me and I said no ....... it will be up and running again soon though x

Hope this helps you happy fabbing x

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By *agikMan
over a year ago

MagikCity

This is some awsome feedback... can i get a profile "review"

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By *konCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

"Instead of asking yourself why why your profile doesn't stand out, try asking yourself why it does.

There's nothing interesting, nothing of note, nothing that tells the reader anything about you.

May we just say that the heart shaped photo of your inner thighs and labia is erotic art personified. Our compliments

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

May also need help with introductory messages, I’m just very socially awkward and can’t quite grasp some things. Any help appreciated x "

As what has been previously stated maybe flesh your bio out a bit. Change your profile picture maybe a teasing picture of a buttoned down shirt.

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

"This is some awsome feedback... can i get a profile "review"

Lose the status asking for a meet - we're in lockdown still. There's a few tiny but niggly errors in your text ("alot" isn't a word, neither is "im"). Lose the last paragraph....it's worthless and reminds us of 70 year old internet users that believe all the hoaxes.

Your pics are good, but we'd suggest including one decent nude or cock pic....nothing with you grabbing it in a first, or measured against anything, but it is good to see one pic of it.

Other than that - expand on your text about what you have to offer.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

Op would you honestly be interested in meeting a 99 year old? I think choosing an age range for meets may look like you have put a bit more effort into thinking what you actually want.

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By *luebellRacerCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire

Join the forum photo challenges to get some photos that show off your personality...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

generally speaking people wont message you to ask questions

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By *ohnnyGentMan
over a year ago

london

All I can say is perhaps a better profile pic...

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