FabSwingers.com forum: What would you do?

By *K Driver OP Man
over a year ago

Weston super Mare

If your partner went away for the weekend with thier friends so you decided to visit a friend of yours but it turns out that thier partner is there, so you all drink and have a laugh, you get up go out of the room say to go to toilet or something walk back in the room and see your mate and their partner getting down to sex..

Do you?

1 Make you excuse's and walk back out the room.

2 Sit down and enjoy the show..

3 If invited join in..

Then when you see your own partner tell them?

I know but its nearly out of lockdown

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to say 2 or potentially 3, but the truth is that if it was as sudden as the post makes it sound, I'd probably freak out and leave.

I just don't feel comfortable having situations sprung on me.

By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

If I had a partner I wouldn't do anything without their involvement and certainly not behind their back.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd think they were now weird friends and probably distance myself from them

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Go home. That's just strange. I'd tell my partner and we'd laugh about it

By *urrey Dave 69Man
over a year ago

Epsom, Surrey

"If I had a partner I wouldn't do anything without their involvement and certainly not behind their back."

Correct answer if that was the arrangement between yourself and your partner. If however if you were swingers and in a swingingf relationship the you would have likely have had the conversation about exclusivity. If the argreement was it was an open reltionship then options 2 or 3 are valid, if not then it has to be 1 or 2 with number 2 being a watch only option.