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By *alsa58 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Greater London, Herts

If you have gone out to meet with a guy, you drive to place, he drives to place and he gets parking ticket but you don't, what would you do or what should he do?

Ask to pay half or offer to pay half?

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By *ig9incherforuMan
over a year ago

Welwyn

Why would you pay half?

Chance you both take isn't it?

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

I wouldn't expect anyone to pay for my parking charges. I would think thats a bit of an odd thing to expect

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Just ignore it and it will eventually go away

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

If I got a parking ticket, and have a couple of times, it's my problem not anybody elses, regrdless of the reason I was parking.

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By *alsa58 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Greater London, Herts


"Just ignore it and it will eventually go away "

Thank you speaking like true gent

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By *alsa58 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Greater London, Herts


"Why would you pay half?

Chance you both take isn't it? "

Thank you, wish many men think like that xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you have gone out to meet with a guy, you drive to place, he drives to place and he gets parking ticket but you don't, what would you do or what should he do?

Ask to pay half or offer to pay half? "

He chose to park where he did, you didn’t. It’s his responsibility

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Am I assuming that he asked you to pay half his fine?

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By *alsa58 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Greater London, Herts


"If you have gone out to meet with a guy, you drive to place, he drives to place and he gets parking ticket but you don't, what would you do or what should he do?

Ask to pay half or offer to pay half?

He chose to park where he did, you didn’t. It’s his responsibility "

Thank you...

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By *alsa58 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Greater London, Herts


"Why would you pay half?

Chance you both take isn't it? "

Thank you, my thought exactly

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

What if he picked up a speeding fine on the way should you chip in and pay half for that as well?

Certainly not and he's got a flipping cheek even suggesting it.

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By *moothGrooveWoman
over a year ago

Durham

His car, in his name, he took the chance, his responsibility.

I wouldn't be paying half, and I definitely wouldn't be meeting him again if he suggested I should

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By *alsa58 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Greater London, Herts


"Am I assuming that he asked you to pay half his fine?"

Yes, how sad is that

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By *renzMan
over a year ago

Between Chichester and Havant

His fault.

His fine.

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By *alsa58 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Greater London, Herts


"What if he picked up a speeding fine on the way should you chip in and pay half for that as well?

Certainly not and he's got a flipping cheek even suggesting it."

Thank you for your support, I was flabergasted when I got message and it was first meet

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By *alsa58 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Greater London, Herts


"His fault.

His fine."

Thank you

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By *alsa58 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Greater London, Herts


"I wouldn't expect anyone to pay for my parking charges. I would think thats a bit of an odd thing to expect "

Thank you, there are some decent guys out there

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By *ig9incherforuMan
over a year ago

Welwyn


"Why would you pay half?

Chance you both take isn't it?

Thank you, my thought exactly "

Amazing he actually asked you!

Lucky enough to meet you

Hope you not meeting him again....

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

That's ;ike getting a parking ticket while fetching fish and chips and expecting the chip shop to pay half. LMAO

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By *layfulserfMan
over a year ago

Northolt

I might mention it to see if you had one too but would never even think that somebody else should contribute.

Think his well out of order

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By *alsa58 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Greater London, Herts


"Why would you pay half?

Chance you both take isn't it?

Thank you, my thought exactly

Amazing he actually asked you!

Lucky enough to meet you

Hope you not meeting him again.... "

Nope xx

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By *ev_1Couple
over a year ago

Bickliegh

Easy answer really don't get parking ticket in the first place lol

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By *alsa58 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Greater London, Herts


"I might mention it to see if you had one too but would never even think that somebody else should contribute.

Think his well out of order"

No I didn't get one as was less time there, but still bit of a cheek

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By *ig9incherforuMan
over a year ago

Welwyn

Very cheeky

Hope the meet was at least good for you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is that for real he expected you to pay half ?????? wow how tight can you be

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"If you have gone out to meet with a guy, you drive to place, he drives to place and he gets parking ticket but you don't, what would you do or what should he do?

Ask to pay half or offer to pay half? "

That's his fault, not yours.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

People are funny. A guy bought a car from us once, he got a speeding ticket driving it home and his wife called us to complain

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"If you have gone out to meet with a guy, you drive to place, he drives to place and he gets parking ticket but you don't, what would you do or what should he do?

Ask to pay half or offer to pay half? "

I seriously hope you told him ‘to do one’???

Guys like him do not deserve meets!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if he’s asked you to pay half he’s a tight/ weird one ? X

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By *opilotMan
over a year ago

Heathrow

He parked in the wrong place, so it's his responsibility. What an arse asking you to pay half

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

Even if you came in the same car, isn't it the responsibility of the driver/car owner to make sure they are parking legally? And, therefore, isn't it their responsibility if they chose to park where they did, took the chance, and then got fined for it to pay the fine themselves? They should not expect you to pay half, you didn't make them park where they parked.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Did he show you the ticket?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How cheeky of him to even ask I wouldn't reply and block him straight away

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By *haz and CatCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

laugh at him for getting the ticket..lol

if he has a sense of humour he'll laugh too but remind you that your first round at the bar..lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's his own fault, not yours, tell him to sling his hook.

If it was the other way around, you would not have even thought of asking I would imagine.

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By *astesLikeMagicWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Am I assuming that he asked you to pay half his fine?

Yes, how sad is that"

OMG that's laughable (him not you)

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"Just ignore it and it will eventually go away "
they really don't anymore.

Never ignore a parking ticket. They are quite quick to end up with bailiffs at the door.

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By *ez1987Man
over a year ago

Great Harwood, Blackburn

His ticket, his problem.

If I got a ticket whilst out in a meet, I wound not expect or ask for the other party to pay half.

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By *alsa58 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Greater London, Herts


"Easy answer really don't get parking ticket in the first place lol "

He did, I didn't

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By *alsa58 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Greater London, Herts


"His ticket, his problem.

If I got a ticket whilst out in a meet, I wound not expect or ask for the other party to pay half. "

That's nice and I think that's how it should be xx

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By *alsa58 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Greater London, Herts


"Just ignore it and it will eventually go away they really don't anymore.

Never ignore a parking ticket. They are quite quick to end up with bailiffs at the door. "

Thank you, not my ticket and not for my car, it's up to him to deal with it

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By *alsa58 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Greater London, Herts


"It's his own fault, not yours, tell him to sling his hook.

If it was the other way around, you would not have even thought of asking I would imagine. "

You are absolutely right, I would never dream of asking x

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By *alsa58 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Greater London, Herts


"laugh at him for getting the ticket..lol

if he has a sense of humour he'll laugh too but remind you that your first round at the bar..lol"

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By *alsa58 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Greater London, Herts


"How cheeky of him to even ask I wouldn't reply and block him straight away "

Yes as he was really nice and we got on well, fool me

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

He chose to park his car where he parked it, it's his responsibility.

He shouldn't even consider asking you for half, it has nothing to do with you

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By *alsa58 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Greater London, Herts


"Did he show you the ticket?"

No, even if he does I'm not paying, he should check parking signs as was there before me and had time to do so x

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By *alsa58 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Greater London, Herts


"Even if you came in the same car, isn't it the responsibility of the driver/car owner to make sure they are parking legally? And, therefore, isn't it their responsibility if they chose to park where they did, took the chance, and then got fined for it to pay the fine themselves? They should not expect you to pay half, you didn't make them park where they parked. "

Unfortunately there are people who don't see it that way

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"Just ignore it and it will eventually go away they really don't anymore.

Never ignore a parking ticket. They are quite quick to end up with bailiffs at the door.

Thank you, not my ticket and not for my car, it's up to him to deal with it "
I wasnt meaning for you.. sorry... I meant people advising others to ignore them...

In your case.. I've been there. I told the guy not really my problem x

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By *alsa58 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Greater London, Herts


" if he’s asked you to pay half he’s a tight/ weird one ? X"

My thought exactly...block delete xx

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By *alsa58 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Greater London, Herts

Many thanks to all of you that have commented. I was surprised at his cheek and am glad that you all think like me...waste of space and time, block delete and get rid, not kind of person I need around me.

Thank you peeps and happy fabbing till June then the fun begins xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did he show you the ticket?

No, even if he does I'm not paying, he should check parking signs as was there before me and had time to do so x"

I have my doubts he even got a ticket seeing as you didn’t, or you pay to park and he didn’t?

Either way; it’s not your problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I assuming that he asked you to pay half his fine?

Yes, how sad is that"

Really ?!!!! How rude of him .

But if you do , can you please pay half of mine from 2016. I completely forgot about the time when Christmas shopping one year . I did say please x

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By *rednwilma1Couple
over a year ago

york

Tell him you got one also and will he go half's with you

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By *an hjCouple
over a year ago

Stowmarket


"Is that for real he expected you to pay half ?????? wow how tight can you be "
did he ask for half the fuel cost as well?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And some men wonder why they don't get repeat meets

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

Tell him you have a flat tyre and need a new one cause you picked up a slow puncture on your way to meet him.....

Half of that will outshine half a parking fine

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By *umblefunMan
over a year ago

London/ South East


"What if he picked up a speeding fine on the way should you chip in and pay half for that as well?

Certainly not and he's got a flipping cheek even suggesting it.

Thank you for your support, I was flabergasted when I got message and it was first meet "

And last meet I’d hope!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you have gone out to meet with a guy, you drive to place, he drives to place and he gets parking ticket but you don't, what would you do or what should he do?

Ask to pay half or offer to pay half? "

The only thing I’d expect to pay is more attention to where I park next time very odd request to ask someone else to pay, as an adult with a driving licence it would be my responsibility.

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By *inglenfreeMan
over a year ago

london


"Many thanks to all of you that have commented. I was surprised at his cheek and am glad that you all think like me...waste of space and time, block delete and get rid, not kind of person I need around me.

Thank you peeps and happy fabbing till June then the fun begins xxx"

What an idiot expecting you to pay for his mistake.

If I was lucky enough to meet you wouldn't even tell you I got a ticket just be happy we met.

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By *azkinsWoman
over a year ago

leeds

Its his car and he chose to park there. His fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why on earth would anyone think you should pay half, he or she chose to park illegally the onus is on them

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By *aving_bonkersMan
over a year ago

Bugle

As this happened on the first date, I sincerely hope there is not going to be a second!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you have gone out to meet with a guy, you drive to place, he drives to place and he gets parking ticket but you don't, what would you do or what should he do?

Ask to pay half or offer to pay half? "

Im laughing, sorry. The brass neck of him! Hope you told him to sod off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So, this tight arse retard can get meets but decent guys like myself are struggling to even get noticed on here?

How can anyone think that it’s a reasonable request to ask for someone else to pick up your own parking fine?

I’m sorry but this bloke sounds like a total idiot and possibly a massive piece of shit!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What if he picked up a speeding fine on the way should you chip in and pay half for that as well?

Certainly not and he's got a flipping cheek even suggesting it.

Thank you for your support, I was flabergasted when I got message and it was first meet "

Last as well.... and Block and move one

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

OP did you find him on Fab?

If so, it’s just one more reason not to meet guys from Fab!

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

OP I would have mentioned that I got a parking ticket and I would have asked you where you parked so that if we were to meet again in the same area I would know where to park without getting a ticket.I certainly wouldn’t ask or expect you to pay anything towards it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't believe you didn't jump at the chance to pay half, how rude of you not to offer OP!

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By *ermite12ukMan
over a year ago

Solihull and Brentwood

The mishaps of dogging, I suppose?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"His car, in his name, he took the chance, his responsibility.

I wouldn't be paying half, and I definitely wouldn't be meeting him again if he suggested I should "

Exactly this. I wouldn't expect anyone to pay mine

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By *oItForYorkshireCouple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

A whole thread where nobody has kicked off re:a corona meet!

Funnily when I first met Mr DIFY I got a speeding ticket and he offered to pay half but I told him not to be daft! He didn’t have his foot on the pedals.

I also know of a lady (no longer uses site) who had a fab meet and when the fella turned up he told her he didn’t fancy her and could he have half for the hotel room cos ‘it was a waste now he couldn’t have sex and how long was her walk home’ - the absolute poor cow. That really IS insult to injury!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't expect anyone to pay for my parking charges. I would think thats a bit of an odd thing to expect "

Agreed

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"A whole thread where nobody has kicked off re:a corona meet!

Funnily when I first met Mr DIFY I got a speeding ticket and he offered to pay half but I told him not to be daft! He didn’t have his foot on the pedals.

I also know of a lady (no longer uses site) who had a fab meet and when the fella turned up he told her he didn’t fancy her and could he have half for the hotel room cos ‘it was a waste now he couldn’t have sex and how long was her walk home’ - the absolute poor cow. That really IS insult to injury!! "

Reading all these comments it’s making me very happy I’m only here for the forums. A lot of men on Fab do not treat people properly and it’s wrong. Did OP say the meet happened in lockdown?

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By *ussex-steveMan
over a year ago

brighton


"That's ;ike getting a parking ticket while fetching fish and chips and expecting the chip shop to pay half. LMAO"

You'd get battered...

I'll get my coat...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you have gone out to meet with a guy, you drive to place, he drives to place and he gets parking ticket but you don't, what would you do or what should he do?

Ask to pay half or offer to pay half? "

No way!

I think it's a blummin cheek..

Plus where is the evidence of said ticket.. Sounds like a chancer to me.. And definitely not a gentleman.

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By *heekyredsoloWoman
over a year ago

bromborough


"What if he picked up a speeding fine on the way should you chip in and pay half for that as well?

Certainly not and he's got a flipping cheek even suggesting it.

Thank you for your support, I was flabergasted when I got message and it was first meet "

I’m guessing it will be their last too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would just laugh tbh and have done lots of times. I prob get around 7-10 parking fines a year always from my own stupidity or lazyness at either stopping somewhere I shouldn’t / over running ticket duration

So I don’t have any feel bad for someone else that got a ticket for similar action.

Take it on the chin is what I would tell them . Now if I was in a shared car I would just give them half though Incase I was the distraction that causes the penalty

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By *ensualpleasures69Man
over a year ago

leeds


"What if he picked up a speeding fine on the way should you chip in and pay half for that as well?

Certainly not and he's got a flipping cheek even suggesting it.

Thank you for your support, I was flabergasted when I got message and it was first meet "

Tell him you got a flat tyre on the way home and......££

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How cheeky of him to even ask I wouldn't reply and block him straight away "

This 100 %

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I bet the undesirable had you paying for the drinks too? I’ve had this with some guys on Fab pre lockdown, got them a couple of drinks but their hands were too short for their pockets to return the favour it seems....

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By *DW1983Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen, Leeds, Sheffield

I don't even get why anyone would suggest it. If he's parked his car and either decided to chance it or not paid for the car park, it's no one's fault but his own!

Ok, maybe if you'd said 'hey, park on this street, it's free after 6pm' and he believed you, but it turned out to be after 7pm, then maybe, - maybe - there might be an argument that you should offer to go halves, though even then, he's the driver, the safety and legality of his car and driving is his responsibility.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's ;ike getting a parking ticket while fetching fish and chips and expecting the chip shop to pay half. LMAO

You'd get battered...

I'll get my coat..."

Don't go, nice of you to chip in!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

his problem his fault not yours

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By *ussex-steveMan
over a year ago

brighton


"That's ;ike getting a parking ticket while fetching fish and chips and expecting the chip shop to pay half. LMAO

You'd get battered...

I'll get my coat...

Don't go, nice of you to chip in! "

Go large sir? you're a bit salty!!..lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't even believe he asked you to pay half. What a bloody joke.

So if his car was due a mot that day would he ask you to pay after of that because he drove it to meet you.

Tell him to fuck right off

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

local, but not too local

He parked badly, it’s his problem.

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By *obsrocketMan
over a year ago

Loughborough


"If you have gone out to meet with a guy, you drive to place, he drives to place and he gets parking ticket but you don't, what would you do or what should he do?

Ask to pay half or offer to pay half? "

Several years ago I was staying in a Hotel overnight whilst visiting a club. A friend stayed with me I got an incorrect parking invoice. My friend didn't, only difference we left the hotel to go to the club in my car. I never dreamt of asking her to pay half. Also when I contested the invoice and showed evidence I was staying at the hotel it was cancelled.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

We're each individually responsible for how we use our cars, keep them roadworthy, insured, taxed etc and any repurcussions arising from what we choose to do or do wrong, we carry that burden.

If someone I knew faced what to them is a debt that would break them and their wellbeing, I'd consider some help. For a no strings meet, before lockdown, so a long time ago, I'd assume someone would have saved up as best they could to pay a fine notified within a couple of weeks. If they'd been without income for a year, they would be better to seek support elsewhere, I think.

If they are aggressively demanding money, it is wrong. I'd have no problem getting the police involved whatsoever. His circumstances may be awful but imposing obligations where none exist, isn't a healthy or reasonable choice. It's different only where his behaviour was influenced by being advised that someone would help to foot the bill, should anything happen

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Basically the guy is an idiot. So ill mannered too!

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By *ickJMan
over a year ago

Hemel Hempstead

Did he expect you to pay half of his petrol bill too?

Parking fines are the driver's responsibility - he chose to park there, he chose not to pay for a long enough stay, he gets to pay the parking fine.

As for having the audacity to ask you to contribute? I wouldn't be keen to meet someone again if they had hat much brass neck!

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By *wan90Man
over a year ago

Northumberland

Both take that chance and why would you offer to pay half that's the gamble he parked there and took the risk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you have gone out to meet with a guy, you drive to place, he drives to place and he gets parking ticket but you don't, what would you do or what should he do?

Ask to pay half or offer to pay half? "

His car his responsibility, happened to me she offered half, but it was my car so I woundnt even dream of taking half

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you have gone out to meet with a guy, you drive to place, he drives to place and he gets parking ticket but you don't, what would you do or what should he do?

Ask to pay half or offer to pay half? "

He's the man he should pay for his parking ticket, and if you take both cars, he should pay for both.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

He is responsible for his own parking fine.

You did not drive his car or leave it for longer than it should have been left or park it incorrectly etc etc ...

His car his fine.

Tell me---- if he ate a meal on the way down would you feel you had to pay for half of that ?

It's his fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you have gone out to meet with a guy, you drive to place, he drives to place and he gets parking ticket but you don't, what would you do or what should he do?

Ask to pay half or offer to pay half?

He's the man he should pay for his parking ticket, and if you take both cars, he should pay for both.

"

Why should he pay for both?!!!

My car, I pay my own way.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

I think the answer to that question may lay in proformance beforehand.

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

Why not dress up as a traffic warden, then he can pay you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you have gone out to meet with a guy, you drive to place, he drives to place and he gets parking ticket but you don't, what would you do or what should he do?

Ask to pay half or offer to pay half?

He's the man he should pay for his parking ticket, and if you take both cars, he should pay for both.

Why should he pay for both?!!!

My car, I pay my own way."

To be a gentleman, just because you may only be meeting to sleep with eachother, it doesn't mean you should not show her the same respect you would a girlfriend or close friend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He sounds like an absolute delight

Noooo, his parking ticket is most certainly not your problem x

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"If you have gone out to meet with a guy, you drive to place, he drives to place and he gets parking ticket but you don't, what would you do or what should he do?

Ask to pay half or offer to pay half?

He's the man he should pay for his parking ticket, and if you take both cars, he should pay for both.

Why should he pay for both?!!!

My car, I pay my own way.

To be a gentleman, just because you may only be meeting to sleep with eachother, it doesn't mean you should not show her the same respect you would a girlfriend or close friend.

"

Very profound deep thinking! Treat a one off sex meet like a girlfriend!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you have gone out to meet with a guy, you drive to place, he drives to place and he gets parking ticket but you don't, what would you do or what should he do?

Ask to pay half or offer to pay half?

He's the man he should pay for his parking ticket, and if you take both cars, he should pay for both.

Why should he pay for both?!!!

My car, I pay my own way.

To be a gentleman, just because you may only be meeting to sleep with eachother, it doesn't mean you should not show her the same respect you would a girlfriend or close friend.

Very profound deep thinking! Treat a one off sex meet like a girlfriend! "

I'm not saying you pay her rent, car payments, gas and electricity, but what's wrong with being a gentleman?

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"If you have gone out to meet with a guy, you drive to place, he drives to place and he gets parking ticket but you don't, what would you do or what should he do?

Ask to pay half or offer to pay half?

He's the man he should pay for his parking ticket, and if you take both cars, he should pay for both.

Why should he pay for both?!!!

My car, I pay my own way.

To be a gentleman, just because you may only be meeting to sleep with eachother, it doesn't mean you should not show her the same respect you would a girlfriend or close friend.

Very profound deep thinking! Treat a one off sex meet like a girlfriend!

I'm not saying you pay her rent, car payments, gas and electricity, but what's wrong with being a gentleman? "

Nothing wrong with being a gentleman in the true sense of the word but if it’s her parking fine she should pay it just like the undesirable this thread is about.

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By *alsa58 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Greater London, Herts


"He parked in the wrong place, so it's his responsibility. What an arse asking you to pay half "

Doesn't know what I'm like obviously...how are you, we spoke some time ago....

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By *alsa58 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Greater London, Herts


"Just ignore it and it will eventually go away they really don't anymore.

Never ignore a parking ticket. They are quite quick to end up with bailiffs at the door.

Thank you, not my ticket and not for my car, it's up to him to deal with it I wasnt meaning for you.. sorry... I meant people advising others to ignore them...

In your case.. I've been there. I told the guy not really my problem x "

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By *alsa58 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Greater London, Herts


"Am I assuming that he asked you to pay half his fine?

Yes, how sad is that

Really ?!!!! How rude of him .

But if you do , can you please pay half of mine from 2016. I completely forgot about the time when Christmas shopping one year . I did say please x"

Only if I get nice box of chocks from you

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By *alsa58 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Greater London, Herts


"If you have gone out to meet with a guy, you drive to place, he drives to place and he gets parking ticket but you don't, what would you do or what should he do?

Ask to pay half or offer to pay half?

The only thing I’d expect to pay is more attention to where I park next time very odd request to ask someone else to pay, as an adult with a driving licence it would be my responsibility. "

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By *alsa58 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Greater London, Herts


"Why on earth would anyone think you should pay half, he or she chose to park illegally the onus is on them "

Was in parking lot so he should've checked, yep it's his thing to deal with....

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By *alsa58 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Greater London, Herts


"So, this tight arse retard can get meets but decent guys like myself are struggling to even get noticed on here?

How can anyone think that it’s a reasonable request to ask for someone else to pick up your own parking fine?

I’m sorry but this bloke sounds like a total idiot and possibly a massive piece of shit! "

Thank you, he is well and truly blocked and deleted, without half fine paid ha ha ha

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By *alsa58 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Greater London, Herts


"OP did you find him on Fab?

If so, it’s just one more reason not to meet guys from Fab! "

Unfortunately yes, did meet some nice people, but this one took the biscuit...block and delete

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By *alsa58 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Greater London, Herts


"I can't believe you didn't jump at the chance to pay half, how rude of you not to offer OP! "

No I guess he might've expected me to pay the whole fine

Not in the wildest dreams

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By *alsa58 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Greater London, Herts


"If you have gone out to meet with a guy, you drive to place, he drives to place and he gets parking ticket but you don't, what would you do or what should he do?

Ask to pay half or offer to pay half?

No way!

I think it's a blummin cheek..

Plus where is the evidence of said ticket.. Sounds like a chancer to me.. And definitely not a gentleman. "

No not a kind man that presented himself to be...block and delete

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By *alsa58 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Greater London, Herts


"I bet the undesirable had you paying for the drinks too? I’ve had this with some guys on Fab pre lockdown, got them a couple of drinks but their hands were too short for their pockets to return the favour it seems.... "

Yes seems to happen frequently, so I order water and when he offers to get next round thinking I'm going to have water again, I order glass of champagne

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By *alsa58 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Greater London, Herts


"Can't even believe he asked you to pay half. What a bloody joke.

So if his car was due a mot that day would he ask you to pay after of that because he drove it to meet you.

Tell him to fuck right off "

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By *alsa58 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Greater London, Herts


"Did he expect you to pay half of his petrol bill too?

Parking fines are the driver's responsibility - he chose to park there, he chose not to pay for a long enough stay, he gets to pay the parking fine.

As for having the audacity to ask you to contribute? I wouldn't be keen to meet someone again if they had hat much brass neck!

"

Neither have I...got blocked and deleted

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By *alsa58 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Greater London, Herts


"If you have gone out to meet with a guy, you drive to place, he drives to place and he gets parking ticket but you don't, what would you do or what should he do?

Ask to pay half or offer to pay half?

He's the man he should pay for his parking ticket, and if you take both cars, he should pay for both.

"

Looks like that lesson has passed him by...

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By *alsa58 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Greater London, Herts


"He sounds like an absolute delight

Noooo, his parking ticket is most certainly not your problem x"

That he wasn't

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By *rsPricklePantsWoman
over a year ago

Room 237 at The Overlook Hotel, Suffolk

I went on a social and got a parking ticket as I was there for too long as I got there early and didn't check the paring restrictions, never even told the guy I met about it as it was my fault not his wouldn't dream of asking him to pay it even half of it he didn't tell me to park there and be early

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit of an insulting to expect you to pay half, maybe you should have asked him for half the cost of the fuel you used to get there plus road tax, insurance costs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How rude ...did he ask for half the fuel costs too ? Bloody cheeky ..his car ..his fine !

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"If you have gone out to meet with a guy, you drive to place, he drives to place and he gets parking ticket but you don't, what would you do or what should he do?

Ask to pay half or offer to pay half? "

If I met a woman for a social and we got on so well that she accidentally over stayed on the parking she had paid for I'd offer to pay.

I don't think your situation is remotely similar though.

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By *estofbothCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Lucky his mortgage payment and bills didn’t go out that day too, you’d have had a real invoice on your hands!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

His car his name, his fine. Simple

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By *umalotagainMan
over a year ago

a town called malice

Hopefully he is reading this thread and realising what a complete cockwomble he has been, not only has the entire community called him out but he has lost any chance of a second meet with you

More fool him

Some people really shouldn’t be allowed out

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham

What a bloody cheapskate bellend.

His car

His parking

His fine

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By *illmotMan
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

Wouldn't mind getting a parking ticket, that's easy, it's getting the meet in the first place

So no, tell him where to go, and pay the correct rate in future or find a spot with no time limit, just in case it's a really good meet

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By *rzinthehouseMan
over a year ago

Edmonton

It’s not your issue at the end of the day he’s responsible for how and where he parks if he got a ticket then he has to pay end of.

Not your fault not like you called the warden to ticket him.

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By *alsa58 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Greater London, Herts


"If you have gone out to meet with a guy, you drive to place, he drives to place and he gets parking ticket but you don't, what would you do or what should he do?

Ask to pay half or offer to pay half?

His car his responsibility, happened to me she offered half, but it was my car so I woundnt even dream of taking half "

That is nice, thank you

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By *alsa58 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Greater London, Herts


"Hopefully he is reading this thread and realising what a complete cockwomble he has been, not only has the entire community called him out but he has lost any chance of a second meet with you

More fool him

Some people really shouldn’t be allowed out "

Thank you

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By *jgittes_ukMan
over a year ago

leighton buzzard

He parked somewhere he shouldn’t and gets a ticket, so he pays for it.

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