FabSwingers.com forum: Profile Help

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Heya, I am looking to overhaul my profile. Can anyone give me any tips for better photos to take/ Better bio/ anything.

Thanks

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

Personally I think the mentioning of exceptional more than once could be pretty off putting for quite a few people.

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham

You sound very demanding

And your pics are just a blurry mess tbh

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I’d expect someone of my age, not to be able to take a good selfie or work out how to use a timer on a mobile phone

Seriously improve your pictures.

To me the profile text is fine as you’re clearly stating who you’re looking for on the site. Whether or not you’ll get any interest that’s another thing, exceptional and good looking people don’t search as they get plenty of interest on this site and a deluge of messages.

So my advice if you consider yourself in that category, more pictures that are of a better quality.

Good luck Op

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

HI OP,

Like others have said, your pictures are letting you down. They are basically the same picture, with the addition of a towel. Neither of them do you much justice as they are far to dark and out of focus, in one of them you even appear to have lost an arm!

Good luck

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

You look to have a great body so you should be proud to show it off in your pics.

I would be put off by a profile which asks me to send clear face and body pics with a first message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your whole profile is generic and bland, I've already forgotten what it says. Everyone is here for sex and a good time so you don't need to say this. Show don't tell.

You have a good body it's just hidden with those poor photos. Add some normal clothed photos in good light.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your pictures are really poor and your profile text is really demanding. You’re also very young so for a lot of people that will be unappealing. With that in mind I think your approach needs to be less geared towards exceptional women seeking you out and meeting your criteria, and more you selling yourself, coming off as friendly and hoping that someone gives you a chance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reads like a lot of stereotypically narcissistic guys who think that women will just fall at a guys feet, especially if they have abs.

Put some effort into pictures, and probably don’t use the term ‘exceptional’ as most genuine people on here probably would choose not to respond to that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I echo the sentiments of all of the above.

Personally I'd prefer at least one fully clothed picture. There's alot to be said for a guy in a smart suit and shoes.

And I'd rethink the request of a face pic with initial message if you aren't going to have one on your profile.

Just my two pennies worth.

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

Agree with what has been said above. Your profile wording & demand for a clear face & body pic with a first message suggests that you place more importance on looks than anything else. Your pictures really aren't great.

The 'exceptional' women you seek will be inundated with offers on here, so if you are expecting them to message you then you could be heading for disappointment.

As a happily unexceptional woman, I wouldn't even consider contacting you because your profile comes across as demanding and a bit arrogant/entitled.

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By *redwilma666Couple
over a year ago

Kilbirnie

If you are not verified or cannot verify yourself here on Fab messages, we can’t talk.

Don't see your varifications, so nobody can talk to you either.

Pictures are a waste of space, so why would any woman bother?

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

"If you are not verified or cannot verify yourself here on Fab messages, we can’t talk.

Don't see your varifications, so nobody can talk to you either.

Pictures are a waste of space, so why would any woman bother?"

Not sure what you mean by this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you are not verified or cannot verify yourself here on Fab messages, we can’t talk.

Don't see your varifications, so nobody can talk to you either.

Pictures are a waste of space, so why would any woman bother?

Not sure what you mean by this. "

The OP isn't verified himself so bit cheeky to demand others are verified before he talks to them

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By *mma_EvansTV/TS
over a year ago

Colchester

"The OP isn't verified himself so bit cheeky to demand others are verified before he talks to them"

The OP is verified xx

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Pics are poorer due to the flash and the mirror. Get a good variety of poses and styles, show your body fully but you don't have to show your cock.

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

As many have said, your pics are really poor and to be honest your profile isn't good. Very demanding and seems like a sense of entitlement. Maybe a little more humble?

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

"If you are not verified or cannot verify yourself here on Fab messages, we can’t talk.

Don't see your varifications, so nobody can talk to you either.

Pictures are a waste of space, so why would any woman bother?

Not sure what you mean by this.

The OP isn't verified himself so bit cheeky to demand others are verified before he talks to them"

The OP is verified, but even if he wasn't that wouldn't prevent him messaging people, unless they have their filters set to prevent unverified profiles from messaging.

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