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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all, first time posting and ive read some similar posts and hoping i can get some advice !!!

To start with my wife and I have a good sex life... exciting times with each other and almost all the time we discuss threesomes or more!!!

My wife would be the shy type and i would say embarrassed to take pics or vids etc.. i would love to see her being pleasured and shes the same thoughts for me.

Anyway shes really wanting a threesome but afraid to go online !!! Any advice or guidance would be greatly appreciated.

Shes sexy, not afraid to tell me what she wants and also sexually very adventrous between us !!

All advice very welcome

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

This is not meant as a dig but does she know you have a profile on here?

What is it about going on line that she's afraid of?

If you two communicate well why not just show her the site, tell her she doesn't need to post videos or pictures and that she does not have to do anything she doesn't want to. If she genuinely wants a threesome what's stopping her?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes she does know im on here.

We do discuss this a lot, but as a shy person outside the bedroom she doesnt want to put a profile up,as shes aware she would be asked for pics if arranging a meet...

I know she contradictes herself, but she wants a threesome but afraid to pursue

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Yes she does know im on here.

We do discuss this a lot, but as a shy person outside the bedroom she doesnt want to put a profile up,as shes aware she would be asked for pics if arranging a meet...

I know she contradictes herself, but she wants a threesome but afraid to pursue "

Then you have your answer. She likes the fantasy but the reality is a step too far.

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By *ornyhappyCouple
over a year ago

perth

Does she genuinely want a threesome or does she just enjoy the fantasy of it? There's a very big difference between the two. If she's too shy to share pics with potential meets then how would she cope with them being in the same room?

Am sure a lot of people fantasise about, & get turned on by, all sorts of things that they wouldn't necessarily want to make a reality.

You could maybe suggest a trip to a club once things open up again, but strictly on the basis that she doesn't have to do anything if she doesn't 100% want to.

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By *ornyhappyCouple
over a year ago

perth

You say she knows you are on here but your profile doesn't really suggest that is the case

K

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"I know she contradictes herself, but she wants a threesome but afraid to pursue "

Sounds like it's more of a fantasy for her, and that it is you that wants it to be a reality.

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By *mmixtapeCouple
over a year ago

middle earth

Yeah.. show her fab, see what she things. There's not much you can so if she's not wanting a threesome though.

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By *erman8Man
over a year ago

plymouth

I have to say, having looked at your profile, I do wonder what your wife made of it.

One could read into it that you're looking for couples, men & women for the two of you to meet, but then again...!

And, if she's a bit shy about a threesome or taking a few fun photos, what did she think of your list of interests? I don't think you missed any out!

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By *erman8Man
over a year ago

plymouth

Sorry. You did miss one - Soft swing!

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

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