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"Ok thanks" I cannot accommodate so I let people know why,saves them asking | |||
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"Hi all just after some advice on what I should chang about my profile Your feedback would be appreciated" Your profile states that you'd meet people agged 18-99. If that's true (which I doubt) it doesn't give the impression that you're very choosy. If it isn't true, why not change it? Likewise, you might want to review your list of interests. People who bother to read your profile will form a judgement based on its contents so the more accurate the representation of you and what you really want, the better. Yes there will be those who couldn't care less about what you've written but if you were satisfied with the response from them so far you wouldn't have posted asking for feedback on your profile. | |||
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"Do women look at that much detail when looking at a profile?" I do. I would find it odd that the same photo was posted a year apart. I would then wonder if the dates on the others were accurate. I would think if someone couldn't be bothered to check if half their pics were duplicated, would they make much effort if I met them. | |||
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"And still you can't accommodate? For what ever reason it will be a red flag to people " I have now put the reason up it's due to my teen kids live with me but I'm apprehensive about putting that information up | |||
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"Do women look at that much detail when looking at a profile? I do. I would find it odd that the same photo was posted a year apart. I would then wonder if the dates on the others were accurate. I would think if someone couldn't be bothered to check if half their pics were duplicated, would they make much effort if I met them. " That's understandable | |||
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"And still you can't accommodate? For what ever reason it will be a red flag to people I have now put the reason up it's due to my teen kids live with me but I'm apprehensive about putting that information up " Just put single parent like i have done | |||
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"Still 3 cock pics up. The one with the smarties on will make women think you are juvenile. If you think showing your cock all over your profile attracts women, it doesn’t. We know what a cock looks like. You don’t need to say you have grown up kids, just that you have family commitments which it is in that category. " I have removed a lot from ther but I am leaving 1 dick pic up lol | |||
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"And still you can't accommodate? For what ever reason it will be a red flag to people I have now put the reason up it's due to my teen kids live with me but I'm apprehensive about putting that information up " I would say single parent as family commitments still screams married. And yes I carefully read profiles. | |||
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"Do women look at that much detail when looking at a profile?" yes woman do , I look at profiles , pictures and veris in great details | |||
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"Still 3 cock pics up. The one with the smarties on will make women think you are juvenile. If you think showing your cock all over your profile attracts women, it doesn’t. We know what a cock looks like. You don’t need to say you have grown up kids, just that you have family commitments which it is in that category. I have removed a lot from ther but I am leaving 1 dick pic up lol" You ask for advice, you don’t take it. Majority of women on Fab are not keen on cock pics on profiles. | |||
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"And still you can't accommodate? For what ever reason it will be a red flag to people I have now put the reason up it's due to my teen kids live with me but I'm apprehensive about putting that information up I would say single parent as family commitments still screams married. And yes I carefully read profiles." Wow....some of us single dads didn't get to choose that family commitment.... | |||
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"And still you can't accommodate? For what ever reason it will be a red flag to people I have now put the reason up it's due to my teen kids live with me but I'm apprehensive about putting that information up I would say single parent as family commitments still screams married. And yes I carefully read profiles. Wow....some of us single dads didn't get to choose that family commitment...." Family commitments would be fine as it covers all aspects. Some guys live with an elderly parent for example but why would they have to state it on a profile? | |||
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"This has definitely been an eye-opener I had no Idea that women look at profiles in that way Although I do have a look at the pics on profiles first I do like to read their profile but I guess I don't put as much thaught in to it as I should" We scrutinise men’s profiles and 9/10 times men get the profile so wrong..... | |||
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"22 Sept and 3rd Sept are same pose different dates. " 17 September and 27 November are identical too | |||
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"And still you can't accommodate? For what ever reason it will be a red flag to people I have now put the reason up it's due to my teen kids live with me but I'm apprehensive about putting that information up I would say single parent as family commitments still screams married. And yes I carefully read profiles. Wow....some of us single dads didn't get to choose that family commitment.... Family commitments would be fine as it covers all aspects. Some guys live with an elderly parent for example but why would they have to state it on a profile? " Thats the point I was trying to make....family commitments is great...I personally chose to say im a single parent | |||
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"Thank you all for taking the time out of your day to advise me. I really respect all your feedback" Don't forget, it's not only women who will view your profile, it could be their partners too. The best way to be here is honest and open. Keep your privacy but be open about what you want and don't want. Good luck. | |||
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"I’m being real picky now but the 14 December pic makes you look like you have 2” feet. Why can’t guys see how their pics will look to a woman? " Yes I think that is picky lol | |||
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"I’m being real picky now but the 14 December pic makes you look like you have 2” feet. Why can’t guys see how their pics will look to a woman? Yes I think that is picky lol" I'd lose the second pic in. Dicks hanging over the top of trousers and pants is not a good look. | |||
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"I’m being real picky now but the 14 December pic makes you look like you have 2” feet. Why can’t guys see how their pics will look to a woman? Yes I think that is picky lol" You did ask for advice and I have given it. I’m a woman, a picky woman but there are pickier on here. I once helped a chap on here with his profile and he got what he called ‘success’ from my advice, whatever that means. If you don’t like the answers then don’t ask for help!!!!!!!!! | |||
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