FabSwingers.com forum: Winkers

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ladies what are your views on winks?

I tend to think that women on here get a barrage of messages from guys. So I leave off.

I think that if I wink, they’ll get back to me if they like what they read and see.

Should I bother winking or get on with the messages?

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

Based on previous threads I'd say some pay attention to winks & others don't.

I very rarely even look at winks, I find dealing with messages is time consuming enough. I don't really send winks either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I quite like winks, it saves weighing down my inbox. If I get a wink then I'll check out the profile and go from there. I'll wink profiles I like too for the same reason, no wasted messages if the other party isn't interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I don't check them anymore. I used to, but I found they were sent by men that didn't meet my criteria, so of no interest to me

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

"Ladies what are your views on winks?

I tend to think that women on here get a barrage of messages from guys. So I leave off.

I think that if I wink, they’ll get back to me if they like what they read and see.

Should I bother winking or get on with the messages?"

We never respond to winks. Our profile states that we don't want them so the guys who do so every day either haven't bothered to read it or just ignored it. Either way, they're not owed a response.

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork

Most winkers on here seem to be either lazy or indecisive. We’ve received winks to which we’ve reciprocated the wink and then the interaction ended!

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

I don't wink or reply to winks unless they're from "friends" and I'll respond with a message .

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

"I quite like winks, it saves weighing down my inbox. If I get a wink then I'll check out the profile and go from there. I'll wink profiles I like too for the same reason, no wasted messages if the other party isn't interested. "
This is exactly how I see wink working.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id rather get a message than a wink. A wink doesn't really mean that much to me. It seems lazy in some repects. Id rather written words. And I don't mean a copy and paste message either!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ladies what are your views on winks?

I tend to think that women on here get a barrage of messages from guys. So I leave off.

I think that if I wink, they’ll get back to me if they like what they read and see.

Should I bother winking or get on with the messages?"

We don't like them and say though, but guys still wink us.

Still can't figure out what they think the outcome will be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't mind winks when we're looking to meet but most people that send them normally have no pics or no write up so we just ignore them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please just message me, don't wink xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So winking etiquette as far as I do it.

I have a lot of messaged to reply to. and I want to also see who’s around myself too.

So.. I’ll usually send a wink. If they don’t wink back, I’ll just assume they’re not interested. If they do wink back, I’ll drop them a message.

Essentially.. using winks like tinder wipes.

Sometimes I send a message right away. Sometimes they messaged us back instead for winking.

If I’ve winked twice already? I’ll drop a message. If that message is deleted/read/ignored.. I’ll block them to save the time of both of us.

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