FabSwingers.com forum: No female interest but males do

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Been on for a long time and I get plenty of male interest but no female interest at all... Is my profile showing up on the female search for men

I'm good looking and nice and it's a bit of a mystery to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would suggest the chatrooms as I wouldn't expect anyone to be meeting now.

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

"Been on for a long time and I get plenty of male interest but no female interest at all... Is my profile showing up on the female search for men

I'm good looking and nice and it's a bit of a mystery to me"

Of all the females/couples here, only a proportion will be interested in bi guys. All bi guys will be interested in bi guys.

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

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By *amanthadsTV/TS
over a year ago

St Helens

erm bi guys like men and women if they didn't like women they would say gay

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts

If u don't want men to message you go to filters on your profile and block single men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been on for a long time and I get plenty of male interest but no female interest at all... Is my profile showing up on the female search for men

I'm good looking and nice and it's a bit of a mystery to me"

Maybe you are good looking to men not women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

amazes me that some think a good profile and ticking of the same boxes is enough .. there has to be a sexual attraction at the very least then come all the preference's of likes and dislikes then if looking for bi or str8 or trans - tv and even then after you've ticked all the boxes most go on to ruin it by what they say or more to the point what they dont say .... no such thing as a easy meet people know what they want

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Been on for a long time and I get plenty of male interest but no female interest at all... Is my profile showing up on the female search for men

I'm good looking and nice and it's a bit of a mystery to me"

If you don’t like men messaging you then block men from contacting you.

There are lots of men on here so you have competition.

Women will message if they like you.

You need to be patient and not entitled, it’s not insta shag!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile states your new yet above says been in a long time....

Perhaps.. re write profile

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By *atBottomGirlsWoman
over a year ago

St Austell-ish

"Been on for a long time and I get plenty of male interest but no female interest at all... Is my profile showing up on the female search for men

I'm good looking and nice and it's a bit of a mystery to me"

Not sure if it has a different meaning to you, but your first line (to me) implies you want to beat me....black and blue it.

I'm most likely wrong, (??) but I can't be the only one. I'd not feel safe.

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By *onochrome2Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Been on for a long time and I get plenty of male interest but no female interest at all... Is my profile showing up on the female search for men

I'm good looking and nice and it's a bit of a mystery to me

Not sure if it has a different meaning to you, but your first line (to me) implies you want to beat me....black and blue it.

I'm most likely wrong, (??) but I can't be the only one. I'd not feel safe."

I also thought the same

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

According to a large number of female forumite's posts, they use "stealth mode" to browse people's profiles.

Possibly because some men see reading the profile = a guarantee of a meet.

And other reasons to view your profile might be

You posted in the forum.

You show up on "near me" search.

You might be someone they suspect they know in the real world.

You have verified a lady they are interested in.

You have written a great profile, and people are using it as an example (not my profile, it's far too long and detailed)

A profile view is not always about sex

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By *konCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

You’re profile would put us off , plus we read into it that you’ve now changed it from bi to straight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Website working as intended

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been on for a long time and I get plenty of male interest but no female interest at all... Is my profile showing up on the female search for men

I'm good looking and nice and it's a bit of a mystery to me"

Just a thought.

We would never consider people that say they are good looking.

If you have a photo up, why would you feel the need to say it??

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Been on for a long time and I get plenty of male interest but no female interest at all... Is my profile showing up on the female search for men

I'm good looking and nice and it's a bit of a mystery to me"

Blokes look at other blokes’ profiles for clues to get better success in here, the majority of single females and couples view in stalker mode so won’t show as having viewed you, hence, it appears that more men view you.

As a bit of friendly advice, your profile isn’t doing you any favours, give it a spring clean