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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I really want to show my gf fab to maybe start a couples profile, the interest in threesomes is there however we’ve never spoke about how we would go around it.

I want to introduce fab to her but in a way where she thinks i don’t know much about it if that makes sense, if anyones got any ideas that could be helpful let me know

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

start with the truth and you can never be caught out. Don't try and falsely represent your intentions to someone.

Tell her that you are interested and have been looking. Good luck

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By *wosmilersCouple
over a year ago

Heathrowish

Honesty....and ask her what she wants. You should then do what you both want to do.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honesty is the best policy my dude. You don't need to tell her your whole history of being on Fab. Focus on telling her about your kinks in a transparent manner. Fab is just a vehicle for whatever that kink is.

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

Start with the truth and tell her you already have a single profile

Her reaction will gauge if you can continue the convo or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is she really interested or do you want your cake and eat it? Have you nearly been caught?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree with all comments. I’d probably delete single profile and start again. Incase you open a can of worms with your account activity. I’d say you used to have a profile. Honest chat for definite though

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By *Xtriple7Couple
over a year ago

N Peterborough.

Honesty is the best way to go, no chance of being caught out that way.

You could try talking dirty while having sex, mentioning how much you'd love to see her with another guy for instance.

Or try watching orgy or threesome porn and get a conversation going about whether she'd like to try something similar.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah we have spoke about trying new things etc such as threesome or another couple and have watched porn but weve never really mentioned the next step so i just wanted to find a way to kind of mention it and put it out there to see how she feels because then atleast if she’s comfortable we will progress and if she’s uncomfortable about it then theres no harm done and we just carry on with how we are

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

I just pointed out to the girlfriend my wife was thinking about joining, very odd reaction.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Yeah we have spoke about trying new things etc such as threesome or another couple and have watched porn but weve never really mentioned the next step so i just wanted to find a way to kind of mention it and put it out there to see how she feels because then atleast if she’s comfortable we will progress and if she’s uncomfortable about it then theres no harm done and we just carry on with how we are"

next time you speak about trying a threesome suggest ways of achieving it. If you're already discussing trying it then its a natural next step to talk about how to go about it.

Be brave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mate just be truthful at all times it's the only way

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yeah we have spoke about trying new things etc such as threesome or another couple and have watched porn but weve never really mentioned the next step so i just wanted to find a way to kind of mention it and put it out there to see how she feels because then atleast if she’s comfortable we will progress and if she’s uncomfortable about it then theres no harm done and we just carry on with how we are

next time you speak about trying a threesome suggest ways of achieving it. If you're already discussing trying it then its a natural next step to talk about how to go about it.

Be brave"

Just trying to mention fabswingers for example is the bit where i feel like im struggling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just pointed out to the girlfriend my wife was thinking about joining, very odd reaction.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Yeah we have spoke about trying new things etc such as threesome or another couple and have watched porn but weve never really mentioned the next step so i just wanted to find a way to kind of mention it and put it out there to see how she feels because then atleast if she’s comfortable we will progress and if she’s uncomfortable about it then theres no harm done and we just carry on with how we are

next time you speak about trying a threesome suggest ways of achieving it. If you're already discussing trying it then its a natural next step to talk about how to go about it.

Be brave

Just trying to mention fabswingers for example is the bit where i feel like im struggling"

ok. Next time you talk about a threesome say "shall we see if we can find a hook up site on google?" then look together. I'd delete your account first if I was you.

Bear in mind that nothing can happen until covid clears off though

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yeah we have spoke about trying new things etc such as threesome or another couple and have watched porn but weve never really mentioned the next step so i just wanted to find a way to kind of mention it and put it out there to see how she feels because then atleast if she’s comfortable we will progress and if she’s uncomfortable about it then theres no harm done and we just carry on with how we are

next time you speak about trying a threesome suggest ways of achieving it. If you're already discussing trying it then its a natural next step to talk about how to go about it.

Be brave

Just trying to mention fabswingers for example is the bit where i feel like im struggling

ok. Next time you talk about a threesome say "shall we see if we can find a hook up site on google?" then look together. I'd delete your account first if I was you.

Bear in mind that nothing can happen until covid clears off though"

Yeah i guess thats i good idea, atleast then it will get the ball rolling for when this all clears up

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Yeah we have spoke about trying new things etc such as threesome or another couple and have watched porn but weve never really mentioned the next step so i just wanted to find a way to kind of mention it and put it out there to see how she feels because then atleast if she’s comfortable we will progress and if she’s uncomfortable about it then theres no harm done and we just carry on with how we are

next time you speak about trying a threesome suggest ways of achieving it. If you're already discussing trying it then its a natural next step to talk about how to go about it.

Be brave

Just trying to mention fabswingers for example is the bit where i feel like im struggling

ok. Next time you talk about a threesome say "shall we see if we can find a hook up site on google?" then look together. I'd delete your account first if I was you.

Bear in mind that nothing can happen until covid clears off though

Yeah i guess thats i good idea, atleast then it will get the ball rolling for when this all clears up"

yep!

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Talking about something and actually doing it are entirely different things.

If she seems reluctant when you ask her, don't press her.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

How about watching the swingers documentary together and see how she feels about it.

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By *ornytoad1362Couple
over a year ago

St. Austell

if the interest in threesomes is there then show her the site and see how she feels, chat to couples and maybe get some socials sorted and see how things go !!

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By *hapters3-4Man
over a year ago

ipswich

Hmmm

Well you’re kinda screwed !!!

You should have spoke to her about it before having a account for 9 weeks on here lol

If I was you I wouldn’t !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmmm

Well you’re kinda screwed !!!

You should have spoke to her about it before having a account for 9 weeks on here lol

If I was you I wouldn’t !!!"

If she sees you have been on here 9 weeks...she will assume your cheating on her...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmmm

Well you’re kinda screwed !!!

You should have spoke to her about it before having a account for 9 weeks on here lol

If I was you I wouldn’t !!!"

Personally I would be pissed that you hadn't mentioned at the start of your relationship and furthermore, been on here for weeks, not good, I would kick your ass out.

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By *am4CamWoman
over a year ago

Fairy Land

How well do you feel you really know her OP?

This is the second thread since joining where you’ve asked a bunch of complete strangers advice about her and how you should introduce things to her.

I’d advocate talking and openly listening to her on a range of subjects.

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By *shantyWoman
over a year ago

Folkestone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well some guys seem to think it’s ok to just put them up without telling them. So that’s an option.

/sarcasm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Should be asking your gf...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Should be asking your gf..."

You’d think huh?

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

How does that work?!

Be honest, but don't tell her you've gone behind her back

The male logic

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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago

Dorset

Delete your single account, talk to her about checking out fab as recommended by a friend, so you can join as a couple, then give her time to delete her single account so you can both pretend you have never used it before.... (will be a shame that she has to lose all those verifications though)

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