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MMF for my wife - Genuine question

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi,

A little background. I have a a strong desire to have a MMF with my wife and another hung guy. Nothing out of the ordinary there lol.

My wife and I play a lot with dildos and she loves dp with my cock and a dildo in all her holes which is great. Recently she told me she dreamt about me being behind her while she sucked down on a new 8 inch dildo we have bought. That night she told me she wanted fucking hard and she used her biggest dildo while sucking my cock. As she did I asked if she loved being fucked by two cocks, she moaned yes and came soooo hard.

So genuine question and genuine replies please. I am not posting here just to get a kick from writing about my kinks.

From peoples experience, do you think she likes the role play of having two cocks and nothing more or if she is now thinking about / wanting a MMF scenario? If so, what is the best way to progress the situation? She knows how hard it makes me seeing her want two cocks and I have admitted my desire for a MMF all but from actually saying it. I have held off in case I have misread the signs.

Thanks

DJ

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By *himp_KittenCouple
over a year ago

Preston

A very boring response we appreciate but simply ask her.. relationships are about openness and honesty. Have a glass of wine and simply pose the question.. "it's something we play about with in the bedroom, is it something you'd like to try for real".

And not ones to judge but on the subject of openness and honesty does she know about your fab side of life..

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

I would suggest when you are playing next to tell her how good she would look with two actual cocks. When you are just finished playing ask her If she would've it for real. If she says no way, you can say it's the high from the sex talking, if she say yes, we'll you know where my profile is!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As others have said, just ask her when the mood is right - you are best placed to gauge when that is. Not to discourage you, but we had been discussing and flirting with the idea for 9 years before Ella felt ready - and very eager - to take the plunge. Unfortunately that moment has come in the middle of a pandemic, but hey...

Best of luck, and don’t push it!

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By *iveralandssklpMan
over a year ago

Turkey

Really sensible replies for a change.

Totally agree. Talk and take it slowly. You will know if no is a definite no or a maybe no

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By *east88Couple
over a year ago

darlington

That's exactly how we started, role playing our fantasy, then playing with each other in public places,

Iike late night bars where I'd make her cum or on trains where she'd give me a blowjob in the toilet, we ended up fucking in quite a few public places and that turned us both on. We'd fuck in the house and I'd while fucking her, speak to her like it was another mans thick cock and shed cum so hard and quickly.

So we ended up visiting a club and playing just on our own , we just talked to the people there and we quickly learnt there just like us, we then started to play soft swing with other guys, gropes of her boobs, guys fingering her , then guys making her cum with their fingers or tongue.

All the while talking through how it felt, would I be jealous watching her, reassuring us both, because it's ok to say you'd be good with it but to actually watch a guy really fuck your wife is another thing, I am really secure in my self, I absolutely know there are men with much bigger cocks, that can fuck longer and harder than me better bodies and I think she just wanted to assured that I was.

The first time I watched her fuck a guy, he was extremely athletic massive cock and the noises she made while he fucked her were amazing and he came inside her( condom) very intimate.

On the way home I was really quiet, I was just trying to process what I had seen. When we got back, we ended up fucking so much and over the next few days.

I know am so 100% ok with it and she absolutely loves it when we do it. It's not the be all and end all though, we often go to,clubs and have as good a time on our own. And to be honest if your going to let someone fuck your wife, why would you not let them be sexier, bigger cock than you. Give her the best you can.

Xx

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By *assionatepoetsCouple
over a year ago

Highbridge


"As others have said, just ask her when the mood is right - you are best placed to gauge when that is. Not to discourage you, but we had been discussing and flirting with the idea for 9 years before Ella felt ready - and very eager - to take the plunge. Unfortunately that moment has come in the middle of a pandemic, but hey...

Best of luck, and don’t push it!"

So sorry for you after All that time and massive respect for your supportive caring approach

Hope it happens for you soon

Abigail

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Hi,

A little background. I have a a strong desire to have a MMF with my wife and another hung guy. Nothing out of the ordinary there lol.

My wife and I play a lot with dildos and she loves dp with my cock and a dildo in all her holes which is great. Recently she told me she dreamt about me being behind her while she sucked down on a new 8 inch dildo we have bought. That night she told me she wanted fucking hard and she used her biggest dildo while sucking my cock. As she did I asked if she loved being fucked by two cocks, she moaned yes and came soooo hard.

So genuine question and genuine replies please. I am not posting here just to get a kick from writing about my kinks.

From peoples experience, do you think she likes the role play of having two cocks and nothing more or if she is now thinking about / wanting a MMF scenario? If so, what is the best way to progress the situation? She knows how hard it makes me seeing her want two cocks and I have admitted my desire for a MMF all but from actually saying it. I have held off in case I have misread the signs.

Thanks

DJ"

I don't mean this harshly.

If you can't read the signs when you're actually in the same room how do you expect us to? Please talk to your wife openly, to have any chance of doing this successfully for real you will both need to be able to talk about what you want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say there's a world of difference between a dildo and actually having another naked guy in the room with you

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By *en.....emMan
over a year ago

West mids

wife luvs mmf

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I'd say there's a world of difference between a dildo and actually having another naked guy in the room with you"

Yep, for all three parties. There's also a world of difference between fantasy and reality. I suspect that for every fantasy expressed during sex that is translated successfully to reality there are hundreds or even thousands that aren't.

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By *xplorer13Man
over a year ago

glenrothes

I dont get it i read your profile, says your single so is this just fantasy? A large portion just goes on about human rites which stand for nothing. No mention or pics of your wife.

If you cant be honest with her, i doubt she will believe anything you say to her.

I would say if she does exist then just leave it with toys and dreams.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why don't you just ask her?

"Hey, you seem to love it when we play with multiple toys - I was wondering how would you feel about inviting another man to join us for a threesome?"

Keep in mind that just because someone fantasises about something doesn't mean they really want to act it out. And things that are really hot in fantasy often aren't in reality.

But what's the harm in asking her directly? If she says No, she says No.

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By *iscoStarMan
over a year ago

Somewhere

Just ask.

Quick note of clarification: “MMF” usually implies Man on Man play, while “MFM” is all about two men on one woman. If you are open to hetero-flexibility, then go for the first (invite me!), otherwise, go for the second one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd say there's a world of difference between a dildo and actually having another naked guy in the room with you

Yep, for all three parties. There's also a world of difference between fantasy and reality. I suspect that for every fantasy expressed during sex that is translated successfully to reality there are hundreds or even thousands that aren't."

I'm inclined to agree

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I dont get it i read your profile, says your single so is this just fantasy? A large portion just goes on about human rites which stand for nothing. No mention or pics of your wife.

If you cant be honest with her, i doubt she will believe anything you say to her.

I would say if she does exist then just leave it with toys and dreams."

This.

Toys and people are completely different.

A bunch of people on Fab don’t know your wife so how can we advise you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I see the reason for the suspicion due to my profiles description and this is feedback I have had following my post. So, I do appreciate it.

My account on here has been a means by which to explore and meet people who could help lead to a MFM involving my wife.

So,I have rewritten my profile now accordingly and once I have spoken to her the intention will be to setup a new couples account and delete this one. In terms of being I tweeted in TS, we both enjoy pegging and so is am dynamic we may wish to explore too.

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Please see my latest post and I appreciate your scepticism

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I see the reason for the suspicion due to my profiles description and this is feedback I have had following my post. So, I do appreciate it.

My account on here has been a means by which to explore and meet people who could help lead to a MFM involving my wife.

So,I have rewritten my profile now accordingly and once I have spoken to her the intention will be to setup a new couples account and delete this one. In terms of being I tweeted in TS, we both enjoy pegging and so is am dynamic we may wish to explore too.

Thanks "

What is TS tweeting? Never heard of it.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Nothing says she has considered sex with more than 1 guy. You'll need to be fully open and communicate

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

Talk to her, ask her directly if she would like to have a threesome. Communication is absolutely key to successful swinging as a couple, being able to talk 100% openly about sex is pretty vital.

Also worth remembering that whilst we all have lots of fantasies we don't necessarily want to make all of those a reality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a girlfriend who in similar circumstances did admit to me shed always wanted to try two cocks but was afraid to tell previous partners because she was afraid of a backlash. I explained that I loved her so much that i wanted her to get the maximum sexual pleasure she could and I'd be happy to help her fulfil her desire. We went on to arrange a number of MMF threesomes via contact magazine's at the time.

So I would certainly encourage you to take the same line.. Ie make it as your wish to help her fulfil her desires not asking her to do it because you fantasise about it yourself.

I must say that the MMF we did were very thrilling and it was a turn on to see her being fucked and sucking two cocks etc. I wish you well

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By *asmartsCouple
over a year ago

sheffield


"Hi,

A little background. I have a a strong desire to have a MMF with my wife and another hung guy. Nothing out of the ordinary there lol.

My wife and I play a lot with dildos and she loves dp with my cock and a dildo in all her holes which is great. Recently she told me she dreamt about me being behind her while she sucked down on a new 8 inch dildo we have bought. That night she told me she wanted fucking hard and she used her biggest dildo while sucking my cock. As she did I asked if she loved being fucked by two cocks, she moaned yes and came soooo hard.

So genuine question and genuine replies please. I am not posting here just to get a kick from writing about my kinks.

From peoples experience, do you think she likes the role play of having two cocks and nothing more or if she is now thinking about / wanting a MMF scenario? If so, what is the best way to progress the situation? She knows how hard it makes me seeing her want two cocks and I have admitted my desire for a MMF all but from actually saying it. I have held off in case I have misread the signs.

Thanks

DJ"

This is pretty much how we started, I just asked her afterwards and the rest is history! MFM all the way!

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Most women that have fantasies keep them as just fantasies. That seems to be a big difference between men and women.

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By *ervousnewCouple
over a year ago

leicester

I’d say you haven’t misread the signs at all.

This is something we have talked about and when we have sex the thought of it is a huge turn on and makes us very horny.

The thought of someone taking E from behind as she rides N makes us cum very quickly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see the reason for the suspicion due to my profiles description and this is feedback I have had following my post. So, I do appreciate it.

My account on here has been a means by which to explore and meet people who could help lead to a MFM involving my wife.

So,I have rewritten my profile now accordingly and once I have spoken to her the intention will be to setup a new couples account and delete this one. In terms of being I tweeted in TS, we both enjoy pegging and so is am dynamic we may wish to explore too.

Thanks "

You set up a profile to find a guy to fuck your wife but you haven't even asked her yet?

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"Just ask.

Quick note of clarification: “MMF” usually implies Man on Man play, while “MFM” is all about two men on one woman. If you are open to hetero-flexibility, then go for the first (invite me!), otherwise, go for the second one. "

Wrong.

But back to the op. She may enjoy the sensation of a cock and a toy and the idea of an MMF but she may never actually do it. You'll only find out by asking her.

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