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By *reedy_I_Scream OP   Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Unicorn Hunting:

The unicorn hunting question in the group admission questions has now been updated to reflect that members must show awareness that unicorn hunting is not an ethical practice.

Triads can be ethical, healthy and wonderful but they are typically naturally formed and must consist of multiple separate relationships.

This is ethical:

A + B are in a relationship

They meet C

A + C start dating

B + C start dating

A, B + C agree to also form a relationship together as three people.

This is NOT ethical:

A + B are in a relationship.

They seek a third person to join them as a couple.

They talk to C and start dating C as a couple.

A + B are the primary couple and their relationship comes first.

C has to agree to everything that A + B do as a couple, and must do everything with them together and does not spend private time with A or B separately.

This is also NOT ethical:

A + B are dating.

A wants to be polyamorous.

B is fine with that, but only if A dates other women.

A is not allowed to date men.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Pardon?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's algebra

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By *oxy lady40Woman
over a year ago

bridgwater

I am totally lost

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By *irtydevil666Man
over a year ago

bristol


"I am totally lost "

Me too thou may come in handy for home schooling use it for maths

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

the answer is 42

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought it was next Tuesday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wtf

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By *rindAndSlamWoman
over a year ago

Bury

I know where this is coming from. There are a lot of couples who want to bring in a bisexual woman for sex and companionship, but the power dynamic is not equal.

This doesn't apply to the one-off FMF meet. This is aimed at the couples who want to be find a woman for a permanent relationship.

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By *aceandHimCouple
over a year ago

Essex

C(A+B)= AC+BC

Is that what it all means?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know where this is coming from. There are a lot of couples who want to bring in a bisexual woman for sex and companionship, but the power dynamic is not equal.

This doesn't apply to the one-off FMF meet. This is aimed at the couples who want to be find a woman for a permanent relationship. "

And the op is trying to define what they consider to be the rules?

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I know where this is coming from. There are a lot of couples who want to bring in a bisexual woman for sex and companionship, but the power dynamic is not equal.

This doesn't apply to the one-off FMF meet. This is aimed at the couples who want to be find a woman for a permanent relationship.

And the op is trying to define what they consider to be the rules? "

It looks like they’ve copied it from somewhere, maybe the rules of a Facebook group.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know where this is coming from. There are a lot of couples who want to bring in a bisexual woman for sex and companionship, but the power dynamic is not equal.

This doesn't apply to the one-off FMF meet. This is aimed at the couples who want to be find a woman for a permanent relationship.

And the op is trying to define what they consider to be the rules?

It looks like they’ve copied it from somewhere, maybe the rules of a Facebook group."

Lol. I love the way it says what is and isn’t ‘ethical’.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"I know where this is coming from. There are a lot of couples who want to bring in a bisexual woman for sex and companionship, but the power dynamic is not equal.

This doesn't apply to the one-off FMF meet. This is aimed at the couples who want to be find a woman for a permanent relationship.

And the op is trying to define what they consider to be the rules?

It looks like they’ve copied it from somewhere, maybe the rules of a Facebook group.

Lol. I love the way it says what is and isn’t ‘ethical’. "

We’ve delved into the Poly world.

If you think Vegans are a bit sanctimonious, think again!

S

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

If c doesn't want to date a + b but wants to join them, as a couple, then it is ethical.

The problem with your definitions of ethical is that it is unethical of you to determine what is ethical to others.

Set your boundaries and look for a third to date you both, by all means.

Accept other couples or triads are different.

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

Looks like you have the whole alphabet in your 8th November pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's ethical I suppose depends on the rules discussed ahead and meamwhile a relationship.

I thibk that in human relationships nothing can be set in stone, especially when the relationship opens up to a third party

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unicorn Hunting:

The unicorn hunting question in the group admission questions has now been updated to reflect that members must show awareness that unicorn hunting is not an ethical practice.

Triads can be ethical, healthy and wonderful but they are typically naturally formed and must consist of multiple separate relationships.

This is ethical:

A + B are in a relationship

They meet C

A + C start dating

B + C start dating

A, B + C agree to also form a relationship together as three people.

This is NOT ethical:

A + B are in a relationship.

They seek a third person to join them as a couple.

They talk to C and start dating C as a couple.

A + B are the primary couple and their relationship comes first.

C has to agree to everything that A + B do as a couple, and must do everything with them together and does not spend private time with A or B separately.

This is also NOT ethical:

A + B are dating.

A wants to be polyamorous.

B is fine with that, but only if A dates other women.

A is not allowed to date men."

You need a female bi-sexual slave..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unicorn Hunting:

The unicorn hunting question in the group admission questions has now been updated to reflect that members must show awareness that unicorn hunting is not an ethical practice.

Triads can be ethical, healthy and wonderful but they are typically naturally formed and must consist of multiple separate relationships.

This is ethical:

A + B are in a relationship

They meet C

A + C start dating

B + C start dating

A, B + C agree to also form a relationship together as three people.

This is NOT ethical:

A + B are in a relationship.

They seek a third person to join them as a couple.

They talk to C and start dating C as a couple.

A + B are the primary couple and their relationship comes first.

C has to agree to everything that A + B do as a couple, and must do everything with them together and does not spend private time with A or B separately.

This is also NOT ethical:

A + B are dating.

A wants to be polyamorous.

B is fine with that, but only if A dates other women.

A is not allowed to date men."

I could be wrong, but surely its down to a b and c to decide what they want and how they want it. It's not down to others to decide what is and isn't ethical within the dynamic

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By *irtydevil666Man
over a year ago

bristol

Unicorn hunting......get yourself a large net to catch them in.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the rules are different for each triad.. quad etc... but must always be founded with respect

d

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There definitely is a difference in a single joining a couple as an equal partner to an addition to their couple(hood) but don't know anything about the ethics in it all ... as long as all three people are happy then life is good! I suppose it all depends on communication as to whether all are able to continue happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unicorn Hunting:

The unicorn hunting question in the group admission questions has now been updated to reflect that members must show awareness that unicorn hunting is not an ethical practice.

Triads can be ethical, healthy and wonderful but they are typically naturally formed and must consist of multiple separate relationships.

This is ethical:

A + B are in a relationship

They meet C

A + C start dating

B + C start dating

A, B + C agree to also form a relationship together as three people.

This is NOT ethical:

A + B are in a relationship.

They seek a third person to join them as a couple.

They talk to C and start dating C as a couple.

A + B are the primary couple and their relationship comes first.

C has to agree to everything that A + B do as a couple, and must do everything with them together and does not spend private time with A or B separately.

This is also NOT ethical:

A + B are dating.

A wants to be polyamorous.

B is fine with that, but only if A dates other women.

A is not allowed to date men."

I really don't think there was any need for all that.

Do you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But what about Q and Z? They are human to and have feelings and emotions yet no mention of them?

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch


"Unicorn Hunting:

This is also NOT ethical:

A + B are dating.

A wants to be polyamorous.

B is fine with that, but only if A dates other women.

A is not allowed to date men."

Is A male or female?

If A is a bi-sexual male, why shouldn't he date men.

If A is a straight male, no problems.

If A is a gay man, it's illogical.

If A is a lesbian (assuming B is a woman too) woman, it's fine dating women.

If A is a bi-sexual woman, it seems unfair to limit her choices.

If A is a straight woman, it's pointless 'giving her permission' to do something she doesn't want to do.

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Like most hypothetical ethical situations, utterly meaningless unless we know more details.

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

Nope. Not got a clue what that's about or what relevance it has. Feel the OP needs to give a bit more context.

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By *eep80Man
over a year ago

middlesbrough

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cant beat a bit of AC/DC...

Whoops not a music thread...lol

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Lost me at hunting.

Having a relationship with “pray”.... mmm odd projection.

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By *iveralandssklpMan
over a year ago

Turkey


"Lost me at hunting.

Having a relationship with “pray”.... mmm odd projection."

Love doing my ABC

I know its frivolous, but couldn't resist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unicorn Hunting:

The unicorn hunting question in the group admission questions has now been updated to reflect that members must show awareness that unicorn hunting is not an ethical practice.

Triads can be ethical, healthy and wonderful but they are typically naturally formed and must consist of multiple separate relationships.

This is ethical:

A + B are in a relationship

They meet C

A + C start dating

B + C start dating

A, B + C agree to also form a relationship together as three people.

This is NOT ethical:

A + B are in a relationship.

They seek a third person to join them as a couple.

They talk to C and start dating C as a couple.

A + B are the primary couple and their relationship comes first.

C has to agree to everything that A + B do as a couple, and must do everything with them together and does not spend private time with A or B separately.

This is also NOT ethical:

A + B are dating.

A wants to be polyamorous.

B is fine with that, but only if A dates other women.

A is not allowed to date men."

How about C meets A + B, has sex with them, dumps them, then moves on to the next A and B. There are plenty of A + B s out there to choose from.

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By *edantic SheilaWoman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Has anyone found the value of A,B & C in this equation? I hate Maths

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By *iveralandssklpMan
over a year ago

Turkey


"Has anyone found the value of A,B & C in this equation? I hate Maths "

If A+B=3 then 3 goes into C quite nicely. Assuming that A and B being male and C being female

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone found the value of A,B & C in this equation? I hate Maths

If A+B=3 then 3 goes into C quite nicely. Assuming that A and B being male and C being female "

If A,B and C are all male though then it’ll be fun to watch

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By *oItForYorkshireCouple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

B can watch....

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