FabSwingers.com forum: Hard on issues

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well not a thing us guys like to admit but me I find my partner so attractive smoking hot in my eyes. But I struggle to keep a hard on as much as I try it just won't stay. I've done the think about your fantasy as your fucking concentrate on the oops as you love them. But still I go soft even when wanking it happens. Now I feel inferior as a man and have to take viagra every time I have sex please help

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"Well not a thing us guys like to admit but me I find my partner so attractive smoking hot in my eyes. But I struggle to keep a hard on as much as I try it just won't stay. I've done the think about your fantasy as your fucking concentrate on the oops as you love them. But still I go soft even when wanking it happens. Now I feel inferior as a man and have to take viagra every time I have sex please help "

Does she know you're here? If not, could guilt play a part?

It may be a physical problem so best to get it checked out with a doctor.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Does she know you're here? If not, could guilt play a part?

It may be a physical problem so best to get it checked out with a doctor."

I been having this issue over a year now if not longer I joined this site to help me explain my fantasy and hope to speak to like minded people about introducing her to the idea as me im still a virgin to swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does she know you're here? If not, could guilt play a part?

It may be a physical problem so best to get it checked out with a doctor.

But you have "married guy looking for nsa fun" on your profile

so not really looking to speak to people with that on your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to your doctors and discuss it with them as at your age it could be down to many things!!

Stress

Diabetes

Prostate

Get help now as you’ve left it a year and trust me losing your best mate is no fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t feel bad about being on here. Your wife is so fed up of your floppy cock, so she will probably be on here too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi mate,

The above advice is good - talk to your doctor, or a counsellor, or of course your wife about this.

Yes your doctor's a good place to check for things like diabetes and blood pressure, but talking honestly about stuff might point you towards an area of your life that isn't serving you well, which is having this impact on your erections. It would do you many favours to work any issues out that are causing this, and needn't be scary to explore. After all, you can't change something if you're not aware of it, and talking about things will bring you more awareness to the issues in your life that are somehow connected to your erections.

Sorry if that sounds confusing or whatever, but I'm speaking from experience - I've had trouble staying hard many times in the past and it's always been down to me not feeling 'right' about some element in my life. i.e. I felt out of tune with my true self and it had a knock-on effect on my confidence (both in and out of bed).

So, yes, go to the doctor and get your physical health checked out but please also look after your mental health, this is super important for all of us at the moment anyway..

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