FabSwingers.com forum: advice needed

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi,

Sorry, may have came across like that which it didn't mean to. I can see where your coming from after reading back. When she said that she got cold feet I said fair enough and I'm not in any hurry to get that meet back up and running as I said to her it was probably a wrong move for me to go away and fuck someone where she had no control and didn't know what was going on. The only reason I was gutted was because it was the start of her opening up sexually and now she has closed off again. It was quite hard to get her to open up originally and now it feels as if we are back to square one which is why I am gutted. Sorry for the confusion. Things don't always come across as I mean them in my head lol.

But now she said she doesn't want to talk about any kind of sexual fantasy ever again, not even her bi side or anything. She has completely closed up. Obviously it might just take time but I'm not sure if she ever will want to try anything new sexually again, no matter what her fanatsies are.