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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If you had a meet that didn't go according to plan, (weeks of planning and messaging) would you want to know why or would you just let it go?

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By *lubPartyPeepsCouple
over a year ago

London

Life is too short.

Fortunately being spontaneous and mainly meeting in clubs, tends to avoid the 'weeks of planning' bit for us....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does it really take you weeks of planning for a meet ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Only beacause I was too busy to fit it in so had to plan ahead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends what the plan was, do you mean time's & date's or what actually went on between you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think to ask for a reason is a fair request although you shouldnt have to ask as I think it is just good manners to give a reason why the other person/couple couldn't meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It really depends on why it didn't go to plan and after weeks of work for it to go wrong seems odd ?

If one or both parties don't understand what the meet and boundaries etc entail after all the planning its kinda weird and if that's what went wrong then surely an explanation is in order .

If it was just down to no connection upon meeting then leave it - no explanation needed.

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

You would think, being adults in this would a simple request of "what went wrong" could be answered quite easily, however this would rarely be the case.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

It depends by what you mean didnt go to plan, sometimes we can put everything down and know what we want but some times its just not there

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"If you had a meet that didn't go according to plan, (weeks of planning and messaging) would you want to know why or would you just let it go?

Don't do weeks of planning. Arrange coffee from there decide whether I want a play meet. Sometimes I've been disappointed but put it down to not everyone being able to float your boat straight off...but I train em!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there has to be some spontaneity for me

i can chat to people for weeks if not months and not mention the possibility of sex - or at least possibility of sex between the two of us

and then click, summat happens that means we are both in the same position and of the same mindset and it happens.

i find if i start talking about it too early, the novelty wears off very quickly

if something happens somewhere along the line, great. if it doesn't, then great again

you don't have to shag (or even want to shag) everyone you chat with and get on with and i never start chatting with anyone with that as the sole intention

if i am horny and in a position to meet, i will post a 'meet now' and update my status accordingly

sometimes that approach shows results, other times it doesn't

the whole be at a set place at a set time and do a set number of things to me holds absolutely no attraction at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I'd be asking for answers, could be a genuine reason why it fell through ? or just another timewaster who's missed out on a great time

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