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By *illiganandher OP   Couple
over a year ago

Sheffield

A hypothetical question. My wife and I go out for a drive and park up in a secluded location and with the windows and doors locked start having sex.

A gentleman so happens to be walking past and looks in. The wife makes sure he can see as he wanks like fury. When he comes he goes on his way.

In today's climate is this legal as no social distancing etc are breached as far as I can work out? Could this be a way of getting a little excitement after 12 months out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A hypothetical question. My wife and I go out for a drive and park up in a secluded location and with the windows and doors locked start having sex.

A gentleman so happens to be walking past and looks in. The wife makes sure he can see as he wanks like fury. When he comes he goes on his way.

In today's climate is this legal as no social distancing etc are breached as far as I can work out? Could this be a way of getting a little excitement after 12 months out."

Depends whether you consider wanking to be exercise

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By *abel-AshCouple
over a year ago

Wrawby

Indecent exposure and sex in a public place .... No matter how secluded it's still in public if old bill rock up!!!!

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

And we are not supposed to be leaving our homes, only for essential reasons..

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

How far did you drive ?

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By *obertjMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Well wanking can cause eyesight issues, so all OK and legit

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By *stwoCouple
over a year ago

anywhere

See in public places was never legal.

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By *iratedave2Man
over a year ago

dartford

You may have a hard time convincing the Police that you were having exercise, but worth a try!

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By *lim and louiseCouple
over a year ago

dromore


"You may have a hard time convincing the Police that you were having exercise, but worth a try! "
might come under cardio excersze lol

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By *illiganandher OP   Couple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"How far did you drive ?"

Read again. Haven't driven anywhere.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I meant hypothetically how far would you drive ?

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By *illiganandher OP   Couple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"And we are not supposed to be leaving our homes, only for essential reasons.."

No ones left home. Still sat on sofa.

Hypothetical question.

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By *illiganandher OP   Couple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I meant hypothetically how far would you drive ?"

Hadn't thought that far ahead. Perhaps 2 mile.

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact

Fucking on webcam might be easier and less hassle. Won't need to clean the spunk off your car for a start.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to realise that the press love lurid stories of what will be portrayed in the scenario you describe as stupid people bucking the Covid regulations, supplied to them by the local bobbies. I'd say don't take the chance.

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley


"Fucking on webcam might be easier and less hassle. Won't need to clean the spunk off your car for a start. "

Pipped to the post. Was about to say that has happened to my paintwork. On private land, of course.

Meanwhile had a phone call and lost the opportunity to get my reply in quickly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex in public spaces is a stupid idea regardless of the pandemic.

What if it wasn't an old man walking past you?

Charged with indecent exposure and off to the register for you two.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aparently if hes wearing a mask and uses hand sanitizer on his todger then it's ok

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham


"Sex in public spaces is a stupid idea regardless of the pandemic.

What if it wasn't an old man walking past you?

Charged with indecent exposure and off to the register for you two."

Exactly this,,, what if it was some kids out walking a dog for example

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By *ustmee79xoxWoman
over a year ago

enfield


"Sex in public spaces is a stupid idea regardless of the pandemic.

What if it wasn't an old man walking past you?

Charged with indecent exposure and off to the register for you two."

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By *ll 4 herCouple
over a year ago

Bury/Bolton

As long as you go to Barnard Castle the drive part at least should be perfectly fine apparently.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

Ignoring all the sex outside comments ( as I've had sex outside many many times but always careful)

Anyway no it wouldnt matter about social distancing as to have sex outdoors is not part of the reason to leave home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perfectly legal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A hypothetical question. My wife and I go out for a drive and park up in a secluded location and with the windows and doors locked start having sex.

A gentleman so happens to be walking past and looks in. The wife makes sure he can see as he wanks like fury. When he comes he goes on his way.

In today's climate is this legal as no social distancing etc are breached as far as I can work out? Could this be a way of getting a little excitement after 12 months out."

No because you are only allowed to excerise locally.

So to drive somewhere in the manner you describe would be against the rules.

If loads of people are driving places, the places they are driving to are too crowded for people living nearer to them to use for excerise. Also more cars on roads=more breakdowns/accidents ect.

Don't be so selfish, you have each other to fuck, whilst a lot of single people like myself have not had sex since it all kicked off.

Also what makes you think an old man would come along and start wanking?

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

I can't for the life of me think why the rates aren't going down

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By *nly DickCouple (MM)
over a year ago

chichester


"Indecent exposure and sex in a public place .... No matter how secluded it's still in public if old bill rock up!!!!"

Think this sums it up

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By *lack UhuruMan
over a year ago

Leeds


"A hypothetical question. My wife and I go out for a drive and park up in a secluded location and with the windows and doors locked start having sex.

A gentleman so happens to be walking past and looks in. The wife makes sure he can see as he wanks like fury. When he comes he goes on his way.

In today's climate is this legal as no social distancing etc are breached as far as I can work out? Could this be a way of getting a little excitement after 12 months out."

In today's climate you'd get nicked. Dogging spots are being regularly patrolled by all police forces because it's a easy arrest for them and easy money fine wise.

As for sex outside pre/post pandemic, crack on and don't worry about people asking why you would have sex outside or getting nicked for indecent exposure. Most police forces will not prosecute you unless you decide to start shagging in your local shopping centre or on the high road. They tend to leave dogging spots alone because they know it's consensual.

So wait until after the pandemic.

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By *mmixtapeCouple
over a year ago

middle earth

Police are out in force at the moment doing stop and accounts constantly it feels like. I honestly wouldnt risk dogging right now, I know loads of wild swimmers have been threatened with fines because they have been too far from home (still within their local authority area) and swimming wasn't being seen as nessasary exercise, if the swimmers are getting fines the doggers aren't going to get far

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By *ancelot1633Man
over a year ago

weybridge


"As long as you go to Barnard Castle the drive part at least should be perfectly fine apparently. "

I believe it’s the wanker who has to drive there to be legal

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Wouldn’t work in Wales as you can’t drive to your place of ‘exercise’ - it is feasible to cycle though

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Inciting sexual behaviour would be classified as a criminal offence but similar to aiding and abetting

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By *arker secrets 321Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich

Dont leave spunk on ur cars paintwork .did this and ruined my bonnet took the laquar off .Best bit my spunk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mean... sat on your sofa wanking over this is fine?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’d be committing an offence under the sexual offences act, and the person watching and wanking would be committing an offence of voyuerism. COVID legislation would take second place to what are reportable offences

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Inciting sexual behaviour would be classified as a criminal offence but similar to aiding and abetting "

There is most certainly no offence of "inciting sexual behaviour", but all parties could be considered to be "outraging public decency" or "behaviour likely to cause harassment, alarm or distress" or exposure.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Inciting sexual behaviour would be classified as a criminal offence but similar to aiding and abetting

There is most certainly no offence of "inciting sexual behaviour", but all parties could be considered to be "outraging public decency" or "behaviour likely to cause harassment, alarm or distress" or exposure.

Cal"

There is an offence under the Sexual Offences Act 2003 of inciting sexual activity without consent - usually relates to sexual activity with people under 16 (or 13). It can relate to adults as well and the key element is consent or if the person inciting the activity to believe that the victim was not giving true consent.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Inciting sexual behaviour would be classified as a criminal offence but similar to aiding and abetting

There is most certainly no offence of "inciting sexual behaviour", but all parties could be considered to be "outraging public decency" or "behaviour likely to cause harassment, alarm or distress" or exposure.

Cal

There is an offence under the Sexual Offences Act 2003 of inciting sexual activity without consent - usually relates to sexual activity with people under 16 (or 13). It can relate to adults as well and the key element is consent or if the person inciting the activity to believe that the victim was not giving true consent. "

That makes more sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a lot of misinformation in this thread and although it is given in good faith quite a bit is incorrect. Hope the following gives you complete clarity...

Normally if you have sex in your car and another gentleman comes along and sees you then it is only a crime if he is offended and reports you to the police. Similarly if he instead chooses to wank over the impromptu 'show' then again it is only a crime if another person or persons see all three of you and are offended and make an official complaint to the police. Be VERY aware here. If children just happen to see you and they are part of, say, their parent's complaint against you then the implications could get very serious and possibly life-changing.

So hope that clears up the 'general' side of things up. As long as no one sees and reports you you're basically fine.

However, we find ourselves today in peculiar times of course and the very fact you have driven to a 'secluded' place could - given that the official advice is to 'stay local' for your once a day exercise - could be taken into account. Like others have mentioned whether you can convince an officer responding to a complaint that your 'exertions' were exercise is maybe subject to their professional discretion.

Anyway, hope that answers the question.

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