FabSwingers.com forum: Feels impossible here

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ive been on and off fab and seem to get nowhere. Im truly affectionate but seems ladies want fuck boiis who fill tallies not hearts ....if you're looking for a genuine affectionate loving male IM HERE lol thanks for reading

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know about other women but I don't like moaners.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is a fuck boil? Something infected and full of pus?

Are you looking for meets today?

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By *awk90Man
over a year ago

Amsterdam

To each their own, mate! I'm similar to you I suppose, but not all people are. Some like it one way, some another, some others a third. You're never gonna be a fit for everyone, no matter how you are!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love jammy dodgers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love jammy dodgers

Dodgy jammers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I assure you, that the women I know on here aren’t looking for that. The answers you seek lie within you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love jammy dodgers

I just had a Wagon Wheel.

Haven't had one in years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are all here for different reasons OP and I wish you luck in your quest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people want fuck and go, and that their choice and that’s ok. Some people want connection and regular meets, and that’s also ok.

Some people on here are looking for a relationship.

There are all sorts on here, but maybe you might feel more positive about it with a different thought process?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love jammy dodgers

I just had a Wagon Wheel.

Haven't had one in years"

Disappointingly smaller than you remember?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love jammy dodgers

I just had a Wagon Wheel.

Haven't had one in years"

Wagon wheel? Fuck yeah!

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

"I don't know about other women but I don't like moaners. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people want fuck and go, and that their choice and that’s ok. Some people want connection and regular meets, and that’s also ok.

Some people on here are looking for a relationship.

There are all sorts on here, but maybe you might feel more positive about it with a different thought process? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love jammy dodgers

I just had a Wagon Wheel.

Haven't had one in years

Disappointingly smaller than you remember? "

All treats from when we were kids seem smaller now. It only occured to me this morning that I'm way bigger than I was as a kid, so it might be that!

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

This might not be the right site for you then if you're looking for love. Yes it does happen but it's not the site's main purpose.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Jammy dodgers and waggon wheels (emphasise on the h) lol alot smaller but still so gooood lol thanks for replies everyone i,ll get on sorting my profile. I understand the quick meet no feelings etc.im not judging anyone's doings everyone to their own. I do see ot differently now its been said like that sorry i meant no offence. X

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By *ingerLad35Man
over a year ago

oxford

Chin up lad....I’m 5’7 and Ginger. I’ve had plenty of fun just hold out for the right ones not all are after 6ft gym gods *inserts thumbs up emoji*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Chin up lad....I’m 5’7 and Ginger. I’ve had plenty of fun just hold out for the right ones not all are after 6ft gym gods *inserts thumbs up emoji*"

Orange is the new black

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By *ingerLad35Man
over a year ago

oxford

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I had one too. Please do put it on here..

let's see how that goes down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This might not be the right site for you then if you're looking for love. Yes it does happen but it's not the site's main purpose. "

Totally disagree with that.

There are loads of people have found love on this site.

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By *konCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

You do realize iTa covid time ?

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

"Chin up lad....I’m 5’7 and Ginger. I’ve had plenty of fun just hold out for the right ones not all are after 6ft gym gods *inserts thumbs up emoji*

Orange is the new black

Sad I've watched all those now! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People are scared and extra cautious these days

Very, very few are meeting let alone looking to start new relationships

A lot of people are fed up and frustrated

Your luck will change in time

If not via here, then somewhere

Til then, do your best to stay well in body & mind

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham

"I love jammy dodgers

I just had a Wagon Wheel.

Haven't had one in years

Disappointingly smaller than you remember?

All treats from when we were kids seem smaller now. It only occured to me this morning that I'm way bigger than I was as a kid, so it might be that!

There is absolutely no way on earth that wagon wheels are the same size now as when I was younger.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

"I love jammy dodgers

I just had a Wagon Wheel.

Haven't had one in years

Disappointingly smaller than you remember?

All treats from when we were kids seem smaller now. It only occured to me this morning that I'm way bigger than I was as a kid, so it might be that!

There is absolutely no way on earth that wagon wheels are the same size now as when I was younger. "

It's because yr hands are now bigger!lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love jammy dodgers

I just had a Wagon Wheel.

Haven't had one in years

Disappointingly smaller than you remember?

All treats from when we were kids seem smaller now. It only occured to me this morning that I'm way bigger than I was as a kid, so it might be that!

they are smaller but just had a nice cream cake yum

There is absolutely no way on earth that wagon wheels are the same size now as when I was younger.

It's because yr hands are now bigger!lol

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By *lim and louiseCouple
over a year ago

dromore

"I love jammy dodgers

I just had a Wagon Wheel.

Haven't had one in years"
they aren't as big as they used to be unless it's because I've grown lol

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham

"I love jammy dodgers

I just had a Wagon Wheel.

Haven't had one in years

Disappointingly smaller than you remember?

All treats from when we were kids seem smaller now. It only occured to me this morning that I'm way bigger than I was as a kid, so it might be that!

There is absolutely no way on earth that wagon wheels are the same size now as when I was younger.

It's because yr hands are now bigger!lol

They were at least eight bites as a kid. I can shove the whole thing in my gob at one time now.

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By *irtylittletramp100TV/TS
over a year ago

Notts

well i could have given you a bj but youve blocked anyone like me, it is so unfair!lol

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

I think there are some ladies who on are here looking for love, but I’d say broadly people are on here for recreational sex. Sometimes things develop from there though. Your profile says you’re looking for long term NSA I think, and in this post you’ve mentioned hearts and loving. If you’re looking for a relationship maybe you’d be better on a dating site. Why are you here instead of somewhere more conventional? Long term NSA but with your heart involved can be tricky. Hearts tend to lead to strings.

It’s very difficult at the moment as we’re all in lockdown so people are less likely to be reaching out for new relationships. Meeting new people is far easier when you can actually meet them.

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By *moothGrooveWoman
over a year ago

Durham

"affectionate, loving, long term affection.... ' As a married woman these are words that would freak me out a bit and would put me off a profile.

Apart from a select few, I think most ladies on here are looking for recreational sex, men to work within they're sexual dynamic or fuck buddies.

Any hint of a guy who wanted more would send me running for the hills.

Maybe a dating site would be more suited to what you're looking for? Xx

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

Oh no this so isn’t going to go well OP

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By *ndecidedMan
over a year ago

London

Listen mate, just stick your cock out of the window when you're driving under the pussy willow tree and a woman will fall on your cock!

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

"I love jammy dodgers

I just had a Wagon Wheel.

Haven't had one in years

Disappointingly smaller than you remember?

All treats from when we were kids seem smaller now. It only occured to me this morning that I'm way bigger than I was as a kid, so it might be that!

There is absolutely no way on earth that wagon wheels are the same size now as when I was younger.

It's because yr hands are now bigger!lol

They were at least eight bites as a kid. I can shove the whole thing in my gob at one time now. "

Cos yr mouth bigger! Has everything got bigger? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive been on and off fab and seem to get nowhere. Im truly affectionate but seems ladies want fuck boiis who fill tallies not hearts ....if you're looking for a genuine affectionate loving male IM HERE lol thanks for reading "
. To be perfectly honest with any site like this the majority of people on here have no intention of meeting anyone even under normal circumstances. Lots of people just like the ego boost from the attention they get, plus the keyboard wanking. Was always so.

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Sounds like you might have joined the wrong site!

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

"This might not be the right site for you then if you're looking for love. Yes it does happen but it's not the site's main purpose.

Totally disagree with that.

There are loads of people have found love on this site."

How can you totally disagree with that when it literally says it does happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Chin up lad....I’m 5’7 and Ginger. I’ve had plenty of fun just hold out for the right ones not all are after 6ft gym gods *inserts thumbs up emoji*"

This has me absolutely buckled laughing. Gan oan son lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love jammy dodgers

I just had a Wagon Wheel.

Haven't had one in years

Disappointingly smaller than you remember? "

Yes!!!

I thought it was just me!

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.

Yeah op if this post and pussy were both magnets they would both be north.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This might not be the right site for you then if you're looking for love. Yes it does happen but it's not the site's main purpose.

Totally disagree with that.

There are loads of people have found love on this site.

How can you totally disagree with that when it literally says it does happen. "
we met on this site 4 years ago yes at first it was just sex but we fell in love and got married so yes it does happen op you must realise this site is not really a dating site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wagon wheels are up there but you can't beat a Mint Club

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Theirs someone for everyone then theirs someone who is looking for just one

May the force be with you pal

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By *onochrome2Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Same as us. We met on here 10 years ago!

Neither of us were looking for love.

"This might not be the right site for you then if you're looking for love. Yes it does happen but it's not the site's main purpose.

Totally disagree with that.

There are loads of people have found love on this site.

How can you totally disagree with that when it literally says it does happen. we met on this site 4 years ago yes at first it was just sex but we fell in love and got married so yes it does happen op you must realise this site is not really a dating site "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tiny amount of couples/fems met up before covid let alone. most women on here just seem to like the chase and most couples are run by the hubby.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

You've joined at a really difficult time for you to gain much success, due to the months that people have been waiting to meet people they know or have got to know since the pandemic started. It has always needed men to have tons of patience here regardless though.

If you can create realistic expectations and focus your efforts, there are many of us here who are decent and not just looking for 1 thing, we have varied interests. It's not a place where just 1 type of guy and sexual encounter is in demand.

Get to know us for more than sex too.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

"I love jammy dodgers

I just had a Wagon Wheel.

Haven't had one in years

Disappointingly smaller than you remember?

All treats from when we were kids seem smaller now. It only occured to me this morning that I'm way bigger than I was as a kid, so it might be that!

There is absolutely no way on earth that wagon wheels are the same size now as when I was younger.

It's because yr hands are now bigger!lol

They were at least eight bites as a kid. I can shove the whole thing in my gob at one time now. "

You need one of those veris that goes on about Dysons....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tiny amount of couples/fems met up before covid let alone. most women on here just seem to like the chase and most couples are run by the hubby. "
wrong they are not couples are run by couples at least the genuine ones are if one says no it’s no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So there's a few things... this isn't primarily a dating site. If people get that impression from you and they aren't interested in that it's probably a factor in why you aren't having much luck.

We're currently in a pandemic so a lot less people will be interested in meeting and might not see the point of getting into deep conversations that have to keep going for months and months before it's safe to meet. Especially if they are primarily interested in sex not dating.

Also it doesn't benefit you to moan or try and belittle other people's choice on sexual partners based on what you think they want, as if you know what's good for them more than they do! You're just making assumptions, and even if that is the case for some women, so what? The point of somewhere like FAB is that you can be more upfront about your desires. If that's sex without connection with many partners so be it. There's nothing wrong with women or men doing that - and tbh men who have lots of casual sex are only "fuckbois" if they aren't being honest about just wanting sex, and the majority of guys on here are honest if that's what they want.

TL;Dr stop moaning and making other people out to be the problem just because you aren't getting what you want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forgive me but looking at your profile, you're a good looking guy but I think you should rewrite the text. There's something about what you've written that smacks to me of sexual desperation and creepiness, not really confidence. Pushy isn't a turn-on.

I think the other red flag is that you've confused love with sex on the profile. If what you want is to meet someone for a longish relationship if you hit it off, don't be saying you don't mind NSA, quick meets, FF couples, dogging etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck Mr!

It's very tough for men on here.

Do some more pics . You can never have enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mean... We are experiencing a pandemic.

That, and fab is geared more towards couples and women. Men are frowned upon.

Those who seeking men are seeking something extraordinary. No matter what people say otherwise, this is true

Once you come to terms with the above you will have a better time on here.

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By *edantic SheilaWoman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

"I mean... We are experiencing a pandemic.

That, and fab is geared more towards couples and women. Men are frowned upon.

Those who seeking men are seeking something extraordinary. No matter what people say otherwise, this is true

Once you come to terms with the above you will have a better time on here."
I don't frown upon men

I love men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is your head in a better place now OP?

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South

"I mean... We are experiencing a pandemic.

That, and fab is geared more towards couples and women. Men are frowned upon.

Those who seeking men are seeking something extraordinary. No matter what people say otherwise, this is true

Once you come to terms with the above you will have a better time on here. I don't frown upon men

I love men

Haha me too!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This might not be the right site for you then if you're looking for love. Yes it does happen but it's not the site's main purpose.

Totally disagree with that.

There are loads of people have found love on this site.

My gf and I also met on here and have a great dynamic and all the feels!

But fuck that, I'm more interested in the jammy dodger vs wagon wheel debate!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"This might not be the right site for you then if you're looking for love. Yes it does happen but it's not the site's main purpose.

Totally disagree with that.

There are loads of people have found love on this site."

I would love to meet someone on here for a swinging relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't know about other women but I don't like moaners. "

I love a good moaner myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tiny amount of couples/fems met up before covid let alone. most women on here just seem to like the chase and most couples are run by the hubby. wrong they are not couples are run by couples at least the genuine ones are if one says no it’s no"

Jenny has the final say who we will meet when safe to do so. So it is not always the men in charge of the profile, we are a team so we look together on here.

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By *angbangFantasyWoman
over a year ago

London

I think you joined this site at a really bad time, during a pandemic.

People like myself have been here for sometime and personally I've dated fellow swingers and recently have had a guy I've played with and known for a couple of years that wants to date.

So I guess it depends what you want to use this site for but the timing isn't great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wagon wheels are up there but you can't beat a Mint Club"

Mint Clubs are pretty special!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ausageNmashCouple
over a year ago

Andover

Maybe you should join a conventional dating site or grow a thicker skin ?

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By *ausageNmashCouple
over a year ago

Andover

Love how this has turned into a thread about wagon wheels

Aldi do a very good version

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham

"Chin up lad....I’m 5’7 and Ginger. I’ve had plenty of fun just hold out for the right ones not all are after 6ft gym gods *inserts thumbs up emoji*

Orange is the new black

Is that you Donald T

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love jammy dodgers

I just had a Wagon Wheel.

Haven't had one in years

Disappointingly smaller than you remember? "
seen that look before

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