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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

First of all I understand why people don't reply to every message , and I always read profiles before I contact anyone to ensure I'm not " bothering " someone whose criteria that I don't meet .

I wonder if there's something in my profile which puts people off or it just goes with the territory being a single male ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile comes across as defensive.

But you have 3 verifications within the first few months of joining, what were you doing different then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have just read you profile and I finbd i=no fault in it. I would say that i replay to every first contact even if its to say sorry your not my type.

I think people who dont are basically flaming rude. Its takes a minute to send a message.

Im sure you will find folk and maybe look further a field for fun when you dont have your kids.

Good Luck and happy swinging

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By *irty_newcastleCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle Upon Tyne

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By *irty_newcastleCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle Upon Tyne

Get rid of the legal bollocks on your profile. It makes you sound like a right fucking bellend!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Get rid of the legal bollocks on your profile. It makes you sound like a right fucking bellend!"

Thanks for your honesty , a bit harsh but thanks anyway ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get rid of the legal bollocks on your profile. It makes you sound like a right fucking bellend!

Thanks for your honesty , a bit harsh but thanks anyway .... "

Ive seen plenty of profiles with legal jargon and it doesnt stop me from replying.

Each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get rid of the legal bollocks on your profile. It makes you sound like a right fucking bellend!"

I've wanted to say this a million times but I always end up getting banned from the forums so thanks for saying it for me!

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

It may have been brusquely said but the warning is meaningless so get rid.

Ad has also been said.you apologize a lot - for not having msn, for putting your family first,.for the fact that you can accom but it will have to be planned... You don't need to be sorry,.it's your life and real life always takes precedence over play.

If you don't want to cam then simply say so - you have face pics available and have verifications.

However you choose to use the site and the rules by which you do so are.your choice and never apologize for choosing what makes you comfortable and.happy and confident. M

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why cant we get on our chat when we are a silver support member? x

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By *irty_newcastleCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle Upon Tyne


"Get rid of the legal bollocks on your profile. It makes you sound like a right fucking bellend!

Thanks for your honesty , a bit harsh but thanks anyway .... "

lol Just a real pet hate of mine im affraid, really grates on me when I see it. Nothing personal..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Okay, you've asked for a ctitique so here goes.....

1. Like others have said LOSE THE LEGAL CRAP - it is unenforceable and, in your case, is almost longer than your own profile.

2. There is a golden rule in selling - Tell them what you CAN do, not what you CAN'T do. Your profile comes over as putting too many obstacles in the way of arranging a meet and comes over as if it's going to be a problem. Re-write it so you concentrate on what you CAN do about meets.

3. The ONLY sexual pleasure you mention is giving oral. Is that it??????? You must have others. Say a it about them too.

4. The whole thing is all about YOU, and not about what you can do for someone else.

5. Way too many cock pics - you've only got one cock so one pic (and a good one) is enough. And if you are genuinely single, why no face pic?

6. Age range - keep saying this to people, but 18-99 says to us that you haven't given it any thought at all.

7. Verifications - Have looked into your veris and we would smell a rat. VERY similar wording has been used on the veris you have been given, and the corresponding ones you have given to the lady concerned........ If we were contacting you we would be grilling you about them........

All the above, just our humble opinion of course.....

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