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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi not been on long but very hard too find ff for ffm I know it's a fantasy for most men had a couple if experiences before but more mature now and def no wat I'm doing ! Not brad Pitt but very hard too find ??!!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

welcome

and you have been here a week and you are saddened that you can't find 2 females to meet together...

do you mind me asking, what were your expectations of swingers and the site...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have been doing this for 18 months now - as a couple - and it's only recently that we have enjoyed the company of the elusive single bi female - so to the op - patience .......

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah Srry guys your rite I have upmost respect for the swingers on this site don't expect it too fall at my feet just impatient which you can't be !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought I had read every ridiculous not-gonna-happen-for-a-long-time complaint, but this one takes the biscuit!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"Yeah Srry guys your rite I have upmost respect for the swingers on this site don't expect it too fall at my feet just impatient which you can't be !"

keep on going, you will have fun

all the best to you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Srry starra75 just cing what reaction was not trying too offend ??!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just remember that women are people not objects. Tch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

unless they are friends/tag team that meets together and they find you or you strike lucky with them then its not going to happen on a first meet

if this is what you want your better off making friends with other bi ladies, and if you get the chance to meet make sure u give em the best time you possibly can so they want to see you more and maybe be friends or a regular/fk bud, then see if its something they want to try and your half way there and can look toghether if neither of you know anyone

ive done it a few times and its great fun if you can keep up and give em what they want,

but when ive always arranged it ive either coupled up with someone on here and we looked together, or ive managed to get 2 my single bi friends to come play together with me, and they been happy to do it coz of the fun we had together and the relationship we got as good friends too

of course they always the chance encounter which has happened to me twice, once walking home on from a night out in town and 2 lasses locked out the house they were going round so come to mine and it just happened after they shared me take away and another just at a house party after everyone crashed out and gone home but us 3 still left

but if u want to arrange it then think u need good relationship with each of the girls to trust you and to also want to do it for you and them,

you will be very very lucky to find it on a first meet,

your better off working on singles and seeing if you get on with someone well enough for them to want to do something like this with you, which the key will always be already having great sex with them (usually regulary) and a good friendship with them too from your meets with bi girls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just remember that women are people not objects. Tch "

yeah some people gotta realise these are ladies they are talking too not blow up dolls haha

and its more something they would do for someone they really liked than just for anyone they meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Srry starra75 just cing what reaction was not trying too offend ??!!!!"

What language are you speaking.

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By *iketotrynewpeopleCouple
over a year ago

meath

do the lotto you have a better chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have only been here a week lol, you already have 3 varifications , get a grip mate, join the que.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"do the lotto you have a better chance"

Agreed.

He needs to log this in as something that is never going to happen!

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"do the lotto you have a better chance

Agreed.

He needs to log this in as something that is never going to happen!"

Disagree with the never going to happen. I've had plenty of mff, mfff and mffff meets via here and other swinging sites. Just think the OP expecting it to happen after being here a week is a bit mad.

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By *thlete0Couple
over a year ago

southend


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I thought I had read every ridiculous not-gonna-happen-for-a-long-time complaint, but this one takes the biscuit!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"do the lotto you have a better chance

Agreed.

He needs to log this in as something that is never going to happen!

Disagree with the never going to happen. I've had plenty of mff, mfff and mffff meets via here and other swinging sites. Just think the OP expecting it to happen after being here a week is a bit mad.

"

I'm willing to bet that your meets have been with couples or fuck buddies, of which one is a female.

For a single guy to expect two women who don't know each other to agree to meet him for a ffm, well that's just not gonna happen.

There are ff couples on here, sure, but there are very few and they get to be very VERY picky!

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By *orth West CoupleCouple
over a year ago

liverpool


"Hi not been on long but very hard too find ff for ffm I know it's a fantasy for most men had a couple if experiences before but more mature now and def no wat I'm doing ! Not brad Pitt but very hard too find ??!! "
You have a problem....I've been looking for 5 bi-females to have an orgy with my wife then let me join in...and I've been looking for 2 weeks...no luck....what a bummer this site is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi not been on long but very hard too find ff for ffm I know it's a fantasy for most men had a couple if experiences before but more mature now and def no wat I'm doing ! Not brad Pitt but very hard too find ??!! You have a problem....I've been looking for 5 bi-females to have an orgy with my wife then let me join in...and I've been looking for 2 weeks...no luck....what a bummer this site is "
Advertise for four bi females...might have a better chance...hope this helps.

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Disagree with the never going to happen. I've had plenty of mff, mfff and mffff meets via here and other swinging sites. Just think the OP expecting it to happen after being here a week is a bit mad.

I'm willing to bet that your meets have been with couples or fuck buddies, of which one is a female.

For a single guy to expect two women who don't know each other to agree to meet him for a ffm, well that's just not gonna happen.

There are ff couples on here, sure, but there are very few and they get to be very VERY picky!"

Yeah, some of these meets I've had have been with people already known to me.... Bur lots have come from socials..where all parties have met that night and went on to play later that night...

I'm not saying it'll be easy for the OP..... Just that I disagree with the "it'll never happen"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Jesus Christ I know women are not objects take a chill pill people was just wondering how too go about it and would never expect a thing off anyone on a first meet

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By *orth West CoupleCouple
over a year ago

liverpool


"Hi not been on long but very hard too find ff for ffm I know it's a fantasy for most men had a couple if experiences before but more mature now and def no wat I'm doing ! Not brad Pitt but very hard too find ??!! You have a problem....I've been looking for 5 bi-females to have an orgy with my wife then let me join in...and I've been looking for 2 weeks...no luck....what a bummer this site is Advertise for four bi females...might have a better chance...hope this helps. "

Good idea.....Though I might even go for 4 bi females and one straight female first before I lower my expectations....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jesus Christ I know women are not objects take a chill pill people was just wondering how too go about it and would never expect a thing off anyone on a first meet "

Not so polite now, are you?

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By *orth West CoupleCouple
over a year ago

liverpool


"Jesus Christ I know women are not objects take a chill pill people was just wondering how too go about it and would never expect a thing off anyone on a first meet

Not so polite now, are you? "
So your not interested then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jesus Christ I know women are not objects take a chill pill people was just wondering how too go about it and would never expect a thing off anyone on a first meet

Not so polite now, are you? So your not interested then "

I think I'd be a firm no

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm not unpolite not sure you know what I was asking ?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was your rude response starting with Jesus Christ take a chill pill that prompted me to suggest that you were no longer being polite.

Perhaps you should clarify what you ARE looking for if you think we have misunderstood.

Also, punctuation helps

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By *orth West CoupleCouple
over a year ago

liverpool


"It was your rude response starting with Jesus Christ take a chill pill that prompted me to suggest that you were no longer being polite.

Perhaps you should clarify what you ARE looking for if you think we have misunderstood.

Also, punctuation helps "
ok miss.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anyway sorry too have confused all buy asking how I go about it, wasn't intention to sound like I think that women would just do that, just wondered, hope fun for all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be patient .... hook up with one lady, get to know her, talk about what you'd like, ask her what she'd like, if it works you can both look for another lady to join you.

Simples

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By *orth West CoupleCouple
over a year ago

liverpool


"Be patient .... hook up with one lady, get to know her, talk about what you'd like, ask her what she'd like, if it works you can both look for another lady to join you.

Simples

"
Does that work if you are looking for 5 bi-lady's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be patient .... hook up with one lady, get to know her, talk about what you'd like, ask her what she'd like, if it works you can both look for another lady to join you.

Simples

"

Now that is more realistic. Not much, but slightly more likely than the other scenario.

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By *orth West CoupleCouple
over a year ago

liverpool


"Be patient .... hook up with one lady, get to know her, talk about what you'd like, ask her what she'd like, if it works you can both look for another lady to join you.

Simples

Now that is more realistic. Not much, but slightly more likely than the other scenario."

Well that's my scenario buggered.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That was a can of worms opened ....thanks folks xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm having enough problems finding just one female or a couple to have fun with lol but it hasn't stopped me having fun on here the forums are great fun (most of the time lol)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That was a can of worms opened ....thanks folks xx"

Just think about this - you're in a pub full of guys. All the guys are chatting to each other. They see two sexy women pass. One comments that he'd love to get them in bed. All the men cheer and agree.

ALL the men.

Simple fact is that this fantasy is as common as Katie Price and doesn't happen for many single guys.

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By *orksvalleyguyMan
over a year ago

leeds


"Be patient .... hook up with one lady, get to know her, talk about what you'd like, ask her what she'd like, if it works you can both look for another lady to join you.

Simples

Does that work if you are looking for 5 bi-lady's "

It just takes longer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck trying to get 2 bi women!

You might be wise getting acquainted with a bi woman and then trying to get another involved!

This is a great site but you have to be patient, I know for guys this is a novel concept!

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By *orth West CoupleCouple
over a year ago

liverpool


"Good luck trying to get 2 bi women!

You might be wise getting acquainted with a bi woman and then trying to get another involved!

This is a great site but you have to be patient, I know for guys this is a novel concept! "
not really....I did experience 2 bi-women a few weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a few mff's with my mate. Always fun and the bloke seemed to enjoy it as much as we did.

As others have said, bi fem's seem to be quite rare. Most people say they can't even find one.

But if you don't have a fantasy you can't fulfil it....

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good luck trying to get 2 bi women!

You might be wise getting acquainted with a bi woman and then trying to get another involved!

This is a great site but you have to be patient, I know for guys this is a novel concept! not really....I did experience 2 bi-women a few weeks ago "

Yes but there was another bloke in the room lol.

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By *orth West CoupleCouple
over a year ago

liverpool


"Good luck trying to get 2 bi women!

You might be wise getting acquainted with a bi woman and then trying to get another involved!

This is a great site but you have to be patient, I know for guys this is a novel concept! not really....I did experience 2 bi-women a few weeks ago

Yes but there was another bloke in the room lol. "
Was there....never noticed him...

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

The only FF couple ever to show an interest in me - wanted my sperm so they could have a child!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would always help if you could accommodate.....people will be wary if you can't.....ie are.you really.single etc etc......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would always help if you could accommodate.....people will be wary if you can't.....ie are.you really.single etc etc......"

Exactly what I thought too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would always help if you could accommodate.....people will be wary if you can't.....ie are.you really.single etc etc......

Exactly what I thought too."

Anyway...

FF on this site are RARE! The term "needle in a haystack" springs to mind. Your best bet is to maybe got to a club and search out women with similar interests or put it to a few women you meet here.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My advice, find 2 single women and plan to meet at the same time and place. As long as they are both bi they'll be up for it.

Seriously, trust me, what could possibly go wrong? Or maybe take a look at your expectations...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

keep us posted..preferably before hell freezes over

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By *uyuksno1Man
over a year ago

poole

im glad we live in bournemouth we get ff fun all the time sorry

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I've been led to believe that if you're going out with a girl and you go back to her place and she's just getting naked ..then.... just as you drop your pants the girls step mum opens the door ...

That does happen doesn't it ..??? Well you've seen the dvd..... ... .

Good luck fella..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been looking for 5 bi-females to have an orgy with my wife then let me join in...and I've been looking for 2 weeks...no luck....what a bummer this site is "

You got no chance mate..... I have been looking for 3 weeks and only want 3 bi super models to pay for me to join them on a luxury holiday for a few months and and........

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By *orksvalleyguyMan
over a year ago

leeds

Best answer yet

In my region there are 38 FF couples listed of which just 10 have logged on in the last month. And I"m pretty sceptical about several of those 10 actually being in any way genuine

"Hens teeth" springs to mind!

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By *lgernonMan
over a year ago

cupar


"Hi not been on long but very hard too find ff for ffm I know it's a fantasy for most men had a couple if experiences before but more mature now and def no wat I'm doing ! Not brad Pitt but very hard too find ??!! "

Four words: Duct tape, roofies, Ford transit!

Sorry folks, couldnt resist

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