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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

hi, my wife and I really want to have a threesome with other women, she is bi and really misses it. the problem is we can't seem to get any interest from local women on this site. I start to chat to them then they just stop after a few messages. my wife is very pretty and I know I am a little on the rough side but I can't really help that. any advice?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not rough at all!!! x [googles the mileage to Worthing]

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Why don't you let your wife do the chatting instead for a change

If I was a single woman I would'nt want to start making any sort of arrangement with a couple unless it was the female I was chatting to

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

Can't see anything wrong with your profile tbh. You're both very attractive people so I don't think you really have a problem there...

Only thing that may put a lot single women off is the fact that you cannot accommodate, but that's about it.

It's just patience at the end of the day. Obviously single women get 1000 messages a day from all-sorts (Men, Couples AND women), so you just have to take your time and wait for the one who shows mutual interest.

- Amy. x

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

If you can't accom how about suggesting meeting in a club?

I don't invite strangers back to mine, some of my regulars have never been to mine. I certainly wouldn't invite two people I don't know to my house!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

the only prob we find with accommodating is we have a 9yr old son, we dont have many people to have him overnight for us. we don't feel overly comfortable inviting someone in with him at home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some advice here from the female of this couple.

When I was on here as a single bi female, I wouldn't have touched any woman who was listed as just curious with a barge pole. Sorry but I wouldn't.

Thing is, we bi ladies often view the 'curious' ladies as either doing it for their guy or Katy Perry's 'I Kissed a Girl' kinda thing of trying it out for a night. Basically we want to know that woman will be into us otherwise we are simply just an extra pussy in the room for the guy!

So my advice is to lose the curious tag, change it to bisexual. She needs to be strong to her convictions. If she is nervous and new to it, you can say that on the profile.

As for the fact that the profile is clearly written by the male, that's a big no-no. I used to immediately click the back button there. It just feels like it's for the guys pleasure not hers.

Your states that you're only looking for single fems, but then you mention couples and guys too. Take off the only single females bit because it sounds a little close minded (IMHO).

Your pics are great and you seem a nice genuine couple. I do believe that if you made those changes to the profile, I'd have been inclined to contact you both back when I was single.

I think you just need to be patient. There are a hell of a lot of couples with bi fem seeking a single bi fem for a threesome, and like ten girls willing to meet them (exaggeration, but you know what I mean!).

Sure it will happen for you eventually.

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

To me your profile's a bit contradictory

Your "looking for" says men, women, couples....

Then your profile says you'rw only looking for women.... Followed by you're interested in meeting couples for soft swap... Then followed by what you are and aren't interested in from single guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you can't accom how about suggesting meeting in a club?

I don't invite strangers back to mine, some of my regulars have never been to mine. I certainly wouldn't invite two people I don't know to my house!"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

have made some adjustments on our profile, got the wife to write it lol

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"have made some adjustments on our profile, got the wife to write it lol "

Looks better to me, but I'd lose the status you have up.... Just sounds negative

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only advice I can give is to move to Stafford

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Go to Kestrels sure someone will turn up..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

just packing will be there soon, get the kettle on hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's like waiting for the bus sometimes.

When you want the bus, it doesn't bluddy come...

When you don't want the bus, you see umpteen of 'em go by at once

Hope you get lucky soon...

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some advice here from the female of this couple.

When I was on here as a single bi female, I wouldn't have touched any woman who was listed as just curious with a barge pole. Sorry but I wouldn't.

Thing is, we bi ladies often view the 'curious' ladies as either doing it for their guy or Katy Perry's 'I Kissed a Girl' kinda thing of trying it out for a night. Basically we want to know that woman will be into us otherwise we are simply just an extra pussy in the room for the guy!

So my advice is to lose the curious tag, change it to bisexual. She needs to be strong to her convictions. If she is nervous and new to it, you can say that on the profile.

As for the fact that the profile is clearly written by the male, that's a big no-no. I used to immediately click the back button there. It just feels like it's for the guys pleasure not hers.

Your states that you're only looking for single fems, but then you mention couples and guys too. Take off the only single females bit because it sounds a little close minded (IMHO).

Your pics are great and you seem a nice genuine couple. I do believe that if you made those changes to the profile, I'd have been inclined to contact you both back when I was single.

I think you just need to be patient. There are a hell of a lot of couples with bi fem seeking a single bi fem for a threesome, and like ten girls willing to meet them (exaggeration, but you know what I mean!).

Sure it will happen for you eventually."

I also agree with the comment about the bloke doing all the chatting. That puts me off straight away. Just makes it feel like it's all for the bloke and the female is just going along with it.

You're a good looking couple. Perhaps try to get pics the right way up?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good advice from starra75 and the poster above. When I had my single female profile here, I always found it off putting when it was always the male half of a couple who did all the chatting without any contact from his other half. Good luck and hope you find what you're looking for.

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