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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello everyone.. I’m pretty new here and not really experienced with this sort of thing .. I currently don’t really find the site works well for me and wonder if folk have tips and advice to give . Thanks

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

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How does it not work for you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Folk just don’t really chat ... I introduce myself reasonably politely but don’t get responses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely get replies to messages so don't expect it to often, if you don't get a reply move on & don't keep sending repeat messages, if someones interested they will reply. It takes time but stick to it, after all it is free.

Staying polite & informative about yourself I find helps. Look for shared interests & compatibility.

Try using the forums, join in a little, enjoy the fun, the debates, stories, advice & let people get to know you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being not single will make it harder,you've only been here a few weeks...Time my friend....time

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

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If you do a forum search on rate my profile you will see some really good advice which will increase you odds.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you all "

Dishonesty is something that will probably put most people off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't see what you're interested in. You need to sell yourself a bit on here - a decolourised photo of a torso isn't enough.

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset


"Folk just don’t really chat ... I introduce myself reasonably politely but don’t get responses "

Everyone checks the profile before reading the message.

The only info on yours is that your not single, and won't spend £5 to use features as "who's looked at me" with zero interests listed and 1 pic thats not exactly attention grabbing.....there's not much to find some common chatting ground and most don't wanna send x amount of messages to find out when there's many profiles that spell it all out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all don't get replies pal, get used to it.

Not being single will work against you as half the women on here don't chat with attached. BUT some women do like locals that can accom so if you can find local women that will travel to you, then you have that going for you.

Also like someone's said, it takes time (especially with what's going on at the minute) , I've been chatting to some women for years before actually meeting them, and also some I've still to meet when both free

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset

Really don't know why any of bother replying to these threads

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

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"Everyone checks the profile before reading the message.

The only info on yours is that your not single, and won't spend £5 to use features as "who's looked at me" with zero interests listed and 1 pic thats not exactly attention grabbing.....there's not much to find some common chatting ground and most don't wanna send x amount of messages to find out when there's many profiles that spell it all out."

Couldn't agree more

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