FabSwingers.com forum: Bargaining for a meet

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Has anyone had experience of people trying to haggle or negotiate their way into a meet? We’ve had a handful of such occasions since we started the couples profile a year ago. Annoying, in poor taste and not at all sexy. We haven’t reported anyone but just wondered how common this is. What was the request or offer? Anyone wanted something outrageous ? What was your response? Have you ever used it to your advantage?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Can you give any examples ?

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I've had a few people try to find solutions for every reason why I don't want to meet them in a layby at 0430 40 miles from home

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can you give any examples ? "

We had someone offer money for something. One couples profile told us they had an interest in one of us and then asked what they could offer in return for a meet. In another case we arranged a meet with a couple, who then tried to get another meet out of us by saying they were doing us a favour, they would only go ahead if we did something else for them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got offered £30 if a 20 year old could bang my holes

He was deleted and blocked

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I got offered £30 if a 20 year old could bang my holes

He was deleted and blocked "

That’s outrageous, you are clearly worth so much more! Shocking that people think that’s acceptable behaviour. We did same with our request, delete-block!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've had a few people try to find solutions for every reason why I don't want to meet them in a layby at 0430 40 miles from home

Hahaha ummm nice that they were so keen? There is a reek of desperation about this site sometimes!

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By *renzMan
over a year ago

Between Chichester and Havant

I have met people and after chatting etc, when they've found out what I do, I have been asked to do work for them, free of charge of course! Not necessarily a direct link between sex and work but it was there. If that happens then I make my excuses and don't return.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Yes, constantly OP. They always try to find a way round the phrase "no thanks" which is why many of us choose not to answer in the first place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I add that if first message is can we meet? Then that should be a warning sign?

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By *smith197505Man
over a year ago

Bournemouth

That is terrible people bargaining to meet.

I would never do that, but if I can come on over I’ll bring pizza

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"That is terrible people bargaining to meet.

I would never do that, but if I can come on over I’ll bring pizza "

Throw in some gin, and deal done x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Asking for or offering money is against site rules. Asking for or offering drugs is too.

Report and let admin deal with it.

I'll close this now to prevent people inadvertently breaking forum or site rules

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