FabSwingers.com forum: profile help

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

i know im bi curious but i only ever get messages from blokes, not complaining but am starting to wonder if there is some thing im not seeing putting ladys off? please help me! i love women!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile seems basically okay but you do mention the bi thing a lot. If you want women or couples to contact you, you need to make it clear that you are looking for them too and also sell yourself to them.

The second guessing yourself doesn't help, even if it is about using sex toys on yourself. It suggests that you lack sexual confidence, which is probably not the case at all. If you don't like receiving anal then say you'd rather not receive it. If you'd still like to try it then just say you're open to it either way. Don't make such a big deal about it.

You need to sort your age range out as you are currently seeking any gender, single or a couple and of any age. It just makes you seem desperate. You need a bottom and top age range, because let's face it, would you really go with a 99 year old?!

The pics are fine, though if it were us, we'd want to see face pics.

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By *orth West CoupleCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

"i know im bi curious but i only ever get messages from blokes, not complaining but am starting to wonder if there is some thing im not seeing putting ladys off? please help me! i love women!"
Change your profile from Bi-Curious to Bi-Sexual...Get rid of the bit about trying anal on yourself...sorry but it makes you look a sad desperate loner....then take into account the comments made by the above poster....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

im takin notes! thanks guys, massive help! i see where ur coming from on the desperate thing, although i had no intention of sounding that way! lol oh and i have face pics on my private? is it best to state this do you think? many thanks for your help!!!!

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By *orth West CoupleCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

"im takin notes! thanks guys, massive help! i see where ur coming from on the desperate thing, although i had no intention of sounding that way! lol oh and i have face pics on my private? is it best to state this do you think? many thanks for your help!!!!

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Yes...state you have a face pic...and when you do message somebody send it with your message....people like to see who they are talking to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe say that you have face pics on request or available to friends, something like that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

oh and i was only trying to be honest about the anal thing! looking at ur profiles i can see that ur advice is very valid as urs are really good and made me want to meet you!lol. thankyou

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

ne chance you can have a look at my new one and let me know?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I didn't see the original so can't comment as to whether it's an improvement or not.

What I can say is personally, I find text speak, poor syntax etc off putting: especially in anyone over 18. I simply ignore messages/profiles I need the Rosetta Stone to decipher.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ne chance you can have a look at my new one and let me know?

Took a gander and I really like the profile now. Much much better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've obviously taken the advice as I think your profile is great. Shame you are so far away. Xxx

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