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"Could I grab some feedback on my profile please? I’m completely new to the scene from a long relationship and just want to know where I’m going wrong haha I know you lovely ladies will have 40/50 messages a day but feedback would be nice please " Why do you assume you are doing something wrong? I am only interested in men I find attractive, it's as simple as that... And most women on here get way more messages than that... Even us fuglies, so standing out from the crowd will be quite helpful | |||
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"Thank you, I think it’s a mixture of not getting replies or being told no sorry not for me! I mean do you think I could perhaps change anything or would adding more photos be better? I suppose being new would be a disadvantage especially on here there seems to be a lot of time wasters on here on the male side towards women but I appreciate your reply x" Obviously more pics would be good... Keep your cock to yourself tho lol... 1 or 2 in friends pics is no biggie though... Being new is hard enough... Being new in the middle of a pandemic is going to greatly affect your chances too... Most guys, in normal times, take at least 6 months to get a meet, if they are lucky... A little more info about what you like and offer, stick to your guns, only message if you match, you will find this out by reading the text part of their profile. Don't "take a chance" if you don't, it rarely goes down well... And chill, it's a long road but can be totally worth it if you find the right people for you. Good luck OP! Hope you find what you are looking for | |||
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"Could I grab some feedback on my profile please? I’m completely new to the scene from a long relationship and just want to know where I’m going wrong haha I know you lovely ladies will have 40/50 messages a day but feedback would be nice please " You joined in the middle of a pandemic, so what are you expecting! We are in lockdown and meeting other people is not allowed. So perhaps people do not want to reply until meeting up is allowed. | |||
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"Thank you, I think it’s a mixture of not getting replies or being told no sorry not for me! I mean do you think I could perhaps change anything or would adding more photos be better? I suppose being new would be a disadvantage especially on here there seems to be a lot of time wasters on here on the male side towards women but I appreciate your reply x Obviously more pics would be good... Keep your cock to yourself tho lol... 1 or 2 in friends pics is no biggie though... Being new is hard enough... Being new in the middle of a pandemic is going to greatly affect your chances too... Most guys, in normal times, take at least 6 months to get a meet, if they are lucky... A little more info about what you like and offer, stick to your guns, only message if you match, you will find this out by reading the text part of their profile. Don't "take a chance" if you don't, it rarely goes down well... And chill, it's a long road but can be totally worth it if you find the right people for you. Good luck OP! Hope you find what you are looking for " Thank you! I appreciate your feedback and I will do those! I do always check the profile first I suppose the pandemic is a big issue and I need to take that into account! I’m going to update the profile with your suggestions x | |||
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"It’s early days for you OP. A bit of constructive criticism? It comes across as slightly awkward. Even if you don’t feel that confident yet, try and inject some into your profile. Tell us what you are hoping to gain from the site and what we can gain from choosing you. More public pics for sure. Doesn’t have to be a full facial, just eyes maybe. Some nice torso shots. And interact on the forums. It’s really the only way forward at the moment and you can make some good friends and maybe connections for when that time comes that we’re all dreaming of, Best of luck V" Ah okay I don’t want it to sound awkward at all so I’ll have to redo that over I’ll add some photos of torso eyes etc Thank you x | |||
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