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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok, so I'm turning 40 this year, and and thinking about getting the snip. I have 2 beautiful daughters and that's enough!

But I'm just wondering, I'm sure there must be done gents in the Fab world who have had it done, does it hurt bad? Did it effect anything? Did it make anything better? Any advice would be "Fab"

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By *asterandGenieCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

"Ok, so I'm turning 40 this year, and and thinking about getting the snip. I have 2 beautiful daughters and that's enough!

But I'm just wondering, I'm sure there must be done gents in the Fab world who have had it done, does it hurt bad? Did it effect anything? Did it make anything better? Any advice would be "Fab"

Had it done years ago electro no scapel method felt like being electrocuted in the nuts.

Means with a long term partner no need for other contraception but with casual partners still need condoms anyway.

Recovery was pretty quick and you get to wank loads

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By *rthur WrightusMan
over a year ago

Round the Bend

Ok, so I'm turning 40 this year, and and thinking about getting the snip. I have 2 beautiful daughters and that's enough!

But I'm just wondering, I'm sure there must be done gents in the Fab world who have had it done, does it hurt bad? Did it effect anything? Did it make anything better? Any advice would be "Fab"

Not myself but my cousin was 'adjusted'a few years back. Have you ever heard the joke about making a Camel take on board extra water by bricking him ? My cousin was a lot like that, couldn't stand upright for several days .

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

I had it done.

The only thing it changed was that myself and my partner at the time felt less anxious about her getting pregnant, and she no longer needed to sort the side effects of the pill.

As for, did it hurt. Nope. Ached a bit but that was it.

Most stories you hear about the pain come from the scalpel op, which is hardly done in the UK anymore.

For that they actually cut your ballsack open, and cut out a section of your vas (sperm tubes).

Now we go through scalpel-less op, where they rub an anesthetic on your balls to numb them, make a tiny puncture hole, then insert a tool that quarterises (heats up and melts together) the vas.

Just wear tight pants after to keep things in place, and try not to move too much for a few days after as the ache is horrible (but not painful).

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By *ndebs47Couple
over a year ago

Bury

When I was considering having a vasectomy, I asked a very good ( female) friend who’s then husband had been neutered, if there’s anything she could share to put my mind at rest...... her answer...”it tastes exactly the same “ ....... needless to say I had the procedure, and many many years later married said girl.......

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I had the snip 11 years ago, by the same ‘no scalpel’ technique as described by others on the thread. It was no issue at all, and quite enjoyed the (I think) morphine I was administered for the procedure. Then just tight fitting pants, paracetamol, and bags of frozen sweet corn, took it easy over the weekend ( Friday morning appointment), and back to work on the Monday. A few weeks later you give them a sample, and they give you your Jaffa certificate

As you will see from my vids, it hasn’t affected my ejaculate.......

Just get it done mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope nope nope

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I was talking to somebody who had had it, and he said it makes things much "thinner", I thought that he meant it has made his cock thinner... but he was talking about his ejaculate!

I didn't realise until later that that was what he was referring to though.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"I was talking to somebody who had had it, and he said it makes things much "thinner", I thought that he meant it has made his cock thinner... but he was talking about his ejaculate!

I didn't realise until later that that was what he was referring to though."

That hasn’t been my experience.......

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Odd one turned me into a porn broker.

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

"I was talking to somebody who had had it, and he said it makes things much "thinner", I thought that he meant it has made his cock thinner... but he was talking about his ejaculate!

I didn't realise until later that that was what he was referring to though.

That hasn’t been my experience.......

Nor mine.

Sperm only make up able 5% of ejaculate so shouldn't really be noticeable.

So it's likely to either be in his head, or something else has changed which he falsely thought was due to the op.

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By *ev_1Couple
over a year ago

Bickliegh

Best thing I had done no problems at all

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By *uskymotoMan
over a year ago

Cumbria

I got neutered in July (ni scalpel method, 2 weeks waiting time and £430. Far easier than NHS interrogation during covid).

Felt a little strange and a little discomfort in the lower abdomen at the time.

Drove 2 hours home straight after and only a little tenderness for 1 day.

Just do it if you're content with your current family line up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had it done, one day a little tender, next was fine and enjoyed the wank sessions needed to check it went well.

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By *analmaleMan
over a year ago

Hook

Was quick and painless and does not affect a normal sex life afterwards

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By *ouncer63Man
over a year ago

wolverhampton

I had mine done 20 years ago it was done different then too now

i had 2 cuts in ball sac under local was awake watching them cut my ball sac quaterized tubes couple of stiches job done

Bit of discomfort for a couple of days but fine after that

From that day to present still wanking away no problems

Just make sure you want it done 100%

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

I got done back in 2006ish. Had a small cyst removed from a bollock as well so they did both at the same time under a general anaesthetic. No pain, dull ache for a couple of days, back to work after a restful weekend.

No side effects, never felt any different.

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By *el and jayneMan
over a year ago

Gloucester

Didn't feel a thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had mine done under local anaesthetic. Had a bit of an itch on one side for about 2 to 3 days. No bruising, no Buster Gonad impression.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tasmin, balls swelled for a while but only discomfort rather than pain. Well worth it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and no it didn’t hurt, when they pulled on the tube to tie it did feel like I’d just been kicked in the nuts but it was fleeting

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

My husband had it done some years ago.

He had a tiny incision can't even see it now. It was done under local anaesthetic.

If I remember correctly he was a tad sore for a day or two.

It hasn't affected his semen. It's still thick and juicy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Wow, thank you all for the amazing feedback. I think I will go for it as the majority sound positive lol.

What a great bunch you lot are.

Thanks again

Jay x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had it done about a year ago and I’m not going to lie, it was not a nice experience and everyone I know who has had it done and including me has got an infection

. But for a bit of discomfort my partner could come off the pill so it’s a distant memory now and glad I got it done.

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By *rhugesMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

I had it down quite some years ago. It was absolutely fine no pain no side effects

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally painless had it done under a local so the biggest laugh was me and the wife shaving my balls so I could apply the enla cream under a film dressing to make the local jabs painless

The most important thing to avoid any problems is to rest in bed with regular tea beers etc for at least 24 hours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had it done 40 years ago in Ireland Not any more pain than to be expected. Helped my sex life since I couldn’t get anyone pregnant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had it done 25 years ago.. was ok a bit of bruising that’s all

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By *trongbobMan
over a year ago

rochester

I had mine done about 17 years ago now, tiny little nick on my ball bag, didnt need stitching, felt a little pull as he did his thing down there while the nurse was chatting to me, no problem, cup of tea and a biscuit and then drove home, that was friday, took it easy over the weekend and back to work on the Monday, totally recommended it.

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By *i de BiCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

You will have nothing to worry about , its the best thing you can have done if you don't want any more children BUT if the need to want Children again with say a new partner it can be reversed .

But the only thing you have to get used to is having your bits on display in the surgery . Had mine done at a Teaching hospital and was like Rugby scrum around me as they all watched the procedure.

Was back at work the next day with no issues

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By *ypriotMaleMan
over a year ago

Cyprus / London

"Ok, so I'm turning 40 this year, and and thinking about getting the snip. I have 2 beautiful daughters and that's enough!

But I'm just wondering, I'm sure there must be done gents in the Fab world who have had it done, does it hurt bad? Did it effect anything? Did it make anything better? Any advice would be "Fab"

Best thing I ever did.

Make sure that you are 100% sure to get it done.

I got mine done about 6 years ago.

The operation was about 30 mins. I was ready for action as soon as I got home. I have not had any side effects or pains. I haven't noticed anything different to be honest.

Just be careful when you sneeze or cough (joking).

Overall 100% satisfied

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had it done when I was 32. I had it performed under local anesthetic, and was out in an hour.

It makes no difference to performance, or feeling, and you can still ejaculate. I actually think it makes sex even better.

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By *utterflyandArtificeCouple
over a year ago

Trowbridge

Had it done one day, back out to my job in the East African desert the next.

Smelled a bit of burning and had a bit of an ache initially but that soon wore off.

Job's a good'un as they say.

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By *untimegeekMan
over a year ago

Havant

Had mine done about 15 years ago GP's surgery , apart from him getting sidetracked and not numbing one side (unbelievable pain when he started cutting my ball sack) everything went fine and was back at work within an hour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had it done July 2002 under anaesthetic

Was called back in the October to be told it hadn't worked

Had an ultrasound scan and l had 2 tubes coming from the left testicle

Had it redone in Dec 2002

Given the choice now l wouldn't of had it done as we got divorced

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By *asha86Couple
over a year ago

walsall

I had it done about 5 years ago now and it was the best thing i did! I had abit of pain during ghe procedure and for about a day after. I had 1 day off then back to work but wish i had took about 3 days as i ached like fuck after the first day back to work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had mine done a long time ago using the scalpel procedure. Do not recall having to much discomfort.

Failed the sperm test and had to go in for a second time, which glad to report worked. Now have a few scars on my balls showing where I was carved up.

Sounds like the new procedure is much better.

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By *obka3Couple
over a year ago

bournemouth

Had mine done 20 years ago, was by the spot weld method, bit of burning smell, no pain no swelling and no worry about getting anyone pregnant when you know them a while and move on from std issues.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No scalpel method. Didn't hurt. Smelled a bit during procedure. Less jizz now but if we play longer and edge a bit, the quantity is as before the op.

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By *unesMan
over a year ago

scarborough

"When I was considering having a vasectomy, I asked a very good ( female) friend who’s then husband had been neutered, if there’s anything she could share to put my mind at rest...... her answer...”it tastes exactly the same “ ....... needless to say I had the procedure, and many many years later married said girl.......

And a beautiful young lady she is....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr was a little sore but went back to work the day later, no issues at all other then you can’t let it get up for a while to help it heal, that was funny. He struggled to keep it down

So glad he did it a lot better when your not worrying about accidents

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By *oo hotCouple
over a year ago

North West

"Ok, so I'm turning 40 this year, and and thinking about getting the snip. I have 2 beautiful daughters and that's enough!

But I'm just wondering, I'm sure there must be done gents in the Fab world who have had it done, does it hurt bad? Did it effect anything? Did it make anything better? Any advice would be "Fab"

I had it done in my late thirties.

Two things...

1) No it doesn’t hurt, although occasionally I get an itch on my right bollock from time to time.

2) Positively, it is a great thing when you are a committed relationship as you can both relax and enjoy every moment of your love life with no concerns.

As an aside, it probably (very slightly) reduces the volume - though it is hard to quantify when anyway the volume increases after abstinence and decreased with activity.

I don’t regret it at all.

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By *ornyone30Man
over a year ago

ABERDEEN

I had it done a couple years ago. Its uncomfortable more than sore. Plus side is no fucking about with condoms on birthdays snd anniversary lol

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Had it done a decade ago and like most on here no problem...watch out for the first wank afterwards because my cum was full of blood...nearly fainted and I'd never heard of that as a side effect

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By *oo hotCouple
over a year ago

North West

"Had it done a decade ago and like most on here no problem...watch out for the first wank afterwards because my cum was full of blood...nearly fainted and I'd never heard of that as a side effect "

Me neither.

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By *ookie an creamCouple
over a year ago

Fife

Had it done few years ago we have 3 kids and thats enough for us.

Only issue i had was the stitches didnt dissolve, it got painful but jst cut them out myself all in all healed pretty quick and haven't notice much of a difference.

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By *ny1localMan
over a year ago

READING

I had it done years ago with no problems. Weeks later you had to provide a sample, I've kept the instructions to this day as it always makes me giggle..'No Saliva '.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ruined 2 years of mylife.

Couldn't orgasm.

Hurt like fuck if i tried.

Permanent dull ache.

Severe sharp pain if orgasm approached.

Im one of the unlucky ones though.

A minority among successful cases.

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By *ranfondoMan
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

Was done 15 yrs ago...easy job...bit of an ache for a couple of days .... otherwise it's worth it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had mine done a 3 years ago. In and out in an hour and only took paracetamol that day (even drove home).

They did a great job and I've had no complications

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By *lyreelMan
over a year ago

King's lynn

If you are one one of the unlucky ones to have after effects then it’s awful, I had it done by a non english Doctor whom afterward I told I wouldn’t let him take up the hems of my trousers. He was careless which led to further problems and another operation under general 8 months later.

If you can avoid having any op then that’s the best, but do weigh up the pros and cons. It can affect your performance drastically.

I am fully recovered now but if I could turn back time I would not have had it.

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By *inkyfun2013Couple
over a year ago

lewisham

Had it 11 years ago after a pregnancy scare. Op was a breeze - while the doc was digging around in my nads I was chatting up his dirty Irish nurse.

We were told to avoid sex for a week. Lasted less than a day before we had to "test" it - worked fine

Normal post op after care was not a problem.

Only downside was pain in the balls sometimes after ejaculation, but that went after a few months. Well worthwhile - it meant we could bare back with each other at all times of the month without fear of babies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok, so I'm turning 40 this year, and and thinking about getting the snip. I have 2 beautiful daughters and that's enough!

But I'm just wondering, I'm sure there must be done gents in the Fab world who have had it done, does it hurt bad? Did it effect anything? Did it make anything better? Any advice would be "Fab"

No it doesn't really hurt, you're generally quite well generally aneasthatised, of course like with mine there is a risk that it has fully kicked in when they snip and that did give me a horrible dull jolt through my body but it was gone before I knew it.

As for afterwards, I suppose this is different for each case but I was not really that sore, then again I was dosing myself up quite heavily on Paracetamol and Ibuprofen so that could have really helped!

Since then though, I have experienced some aching during and after ejaculation and even before when I have been mid sex. it can be a complete fun stopper. Then there are the random aches, at random times. it may also damage your sex drive too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok, so I'm turning 40 this year, and and thinking about getting the snip. I have 2 beautiful daughters and that's enough!

But I'm just wondering, I'm sure there must be done gents in the Fab world who have had it done, does it hurt bad? Did it effect anything? Did it make anything better? Any advice would be "Fab"

Has not

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By *iked50Man
over a year ago

durham

I had mine done when I was 41 so 20 years ago now, I had to wear my ex’s bikini bottoms to hold all in place for a couple of days but no major pain just aching but had wank after a week and fucking not long after 6 weeks to get all clear. It made a load of difference in not having to worry especially with some couples we played with regularly so no condone etc.

however a lot less cum for me and recently had problems with testicles and first question I was asked was have you had the snip as it increases vascular problems. Nothing major and the lump I had has disappeared but you should research it

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By *imale38Man
over a year ago

Barnsley

I had the snip done 3 or 4 years back now and they used the scalpel method. Mine didnt actually swell up that much but were sore for couple hrs after anasthetic wore off. Apart from that it was a doddle.

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By *oinus7378Couple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Had it done about 17 years ago, not really painful apart from when they made the incision in the area NOT numbed by the anesthetic. Afterwards slightly dull aching but getting the wife to milk me eased it immensely

. Apart from that nothing. Just nice to be able to cum with confidence

with her. Instead of her having to go through issues with the pill.

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By *d4ugirlsMan
over a year ago

Green Cove Springs

My Dad was 76 years the time when I got the invite to come over to be the godfather of my new brother.

Needless to say was an awakening call, so at 51 years young went under and had it done.

No issues at all.

When I went and did my sample post op, was kind of dicey at first. They had you in the woman's clinic at the clinic. The nurse got me set up in the room showing me the wank stack of mags, then the video selection, of course had to take the oppurtunity and be a creepy and ask if they had any with naughty nurses.

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By *iking SoftiesCouple
over a year ago

Chesterfield

I had mine about 25 years ago, cant say it was pleasant but it wasn't painful. The day after I took both of my young daughters on a school trip to a play park and within a week I was back at rugby training. No problem at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing to add except I had it, op was quick and successful with no side effects.

However, as a few replies have indicated you ARE taking a chance as the result isn't guaranteed to be trouble free; do your research and know with any surgery you're taking a risk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was snipped a couple of years ago now. Happy to share the experience.

I spoke to my GP, who gave me an NHS information sheet. Later, when I decided to go through with it, I made an appointment with him, and he went through a series of questions over the telephone, to establish suitability, reasons for wanting it, completed understanding of the ramifications and to check if there was any coercion involved. Happy, he then made a reversal.

A short while later (a few weeks) I got my appointment letter, which I confirmed, and then received an information pack. The procedure was done privately, on behalf of the NHS.

When you arrive for he appointment, you are taken away from anybody who is with you for a private consultation. Part of this is to ensure that there is no coercive control taking place, and you are there of your own free will. I understand this is now common practice for any life changing, elective surgery. Then you wait for your name to be called.

Once in the room, you have a consultation with the Doctor, during which you receive an examination to for things, including wether or not your tubes can be found. (Interesting side note here. You don't strip for the procedure. They leave you with your pants and trousers around your ankles. I think this is to reduce your ability to run from the room!)

Providing all is present and correct, you receive the local anaesthetic injection. You are warned that it may be uncomfortable. In reality, I'd rate the discomfort as no worse than if you were to pull a single tube from your scrotum, and of the same duration. So, nothing to be concerned about.

The procedure commences with a single tiny incision to the scrotum (In my case, near the root of the penis) through which your tubes are drawn out for cauterisation. There is a slight odour as they are cauterised and the sound of the equipment leaves you in no doubt something is happening, but there is no pain or discomfort. My Doctor kept me informed of progress as he went, and any time I looked or felt anxious, the incredibly gorgeous nurse assisting reassured me, distracted me and left me calm. Actually, the most difficult part of the whole experience was not get hard such was the level of attractiveness of the nurse. (Your experience may vary) Once done, and tubes back inside the wound is dressed and left to heal naturally without stitches. You are then taken to the recovery room. Once they are satisfied with your progress, you are sent on your way, with an after care pack and advice. They do not recommend you drive yourself to / from the procedure, and recommend a few days rest to aid healing.

So what's life like afterwards? I've noticed a significantly reduced "output" on ejacualation, although apparently prior I've been told the "output" was noticeably generous. Make of that what you will. Also, every now and then I get a faint, dull ache. There can be rare complications, but this is all explained to you before surgery. Hopefully that helps you understand the procedure.

The real questions to ask yourself are about the lived with consequences. At 40, you're still young enough to find yourself in a relationship where more kids might become desirable. You need to be cock sure of yourself not wanting, or any future partner not wanting children in the future. There is no guarantee a reversal would be successful.

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By *uriousBeanCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth

I had it done 7 years ago and reversed two years ago. The reversal is far more painful!

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