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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi, please would some people take the time to read my profile.. hopefully give me some ideas where I'm going wrong. Im a lovely guy in my 30s and dont seem to have much luck. Most of the times not even a reply.

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By *hickennchipsWoman
over a year ago

up above the streets and houses

Maybe a public body shot and not just cock?

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

A good set of pictures will encourage someone to look at the text. An interesting text with humour and information about that person will possibly elicit a reply from any message sent.

Start with the pictures and work on the text.

Then contribute to the forums or chat rooms so you’re seen on here and after Covid you may get lucky

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Maybe some women find the phrase "loving male" offputting ? Most aren't looking for a relationship

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By *bwlookingforfunWoman
over a year ago

crawley

Your profile sounds like you are looking for Netflix buddy, not sex partner.

Add some pics. Belive me or not, dick pics are not what all girls want.

Good luck.

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By *heelsmanMan
over a year ago

Staines


"Hi, please would some people take the time to read my profile.. hopefully give me some ideas where I'm going wrong. Im a lovely guy in my 30s and dont seem to have much luck. Most of the times not even a reply. "

I assume its woman you are looking for & have read plenty of their profiles.

So what do women say on their profiles, COCK as main pic. instant delete!

Do you have a face pic at all or just cock? Also instant delete.

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By *eard-lincolnMan
over a year ago

near lincoln

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By *lasphemousGirlWoman
over a year ago

Cambs

Definitely vary your pics OP just a couple of cock pics Isn't going to stand out on here I'm afraid. Try to say something about you in your text that shows your personality. Read others profiles for inspiration but make it your own. Good luck

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By *eard-lincolnMan
over a year ago

near lincoln

If you clicked on your profile whilst looking for a meet would you message it. I highly doubt it. You have spent 2 minutes creating that and you’ve been on here years.

Your profile says straight yet you’re looking for bi couples and tvs.

Who is going to want to meet you when all they can see is your dick. 99% of people won’t . Would you meet someone when all you’ve seen is their dick ?

Lack of effort equals lack or replies. No matter how good your messages may be . People may not bother to read them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suspect "fun with no hassle" might be a turnoff for women - particularly when they're expected to host. It's code for "nsa" or, worse, "blow and go". It also shows a rather shallow attitude towards sex.

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By *iss KissWoman
over a year ago

near Coventry

I'd say more pics. But only 1 of your cock. If you're brave. One of your face.

It wouldn't stop me messaging but I'd be a bit hesitant about free at the weekend. 1. Corona virus.

2. Usually in a relationship. Going on past experience. So probably going to be a pain in the arse with meets.

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By *iner69erMan
over a year ago

inverness

Doesn't matter how good your profile is, most women don't seem to be interested and will ignore your message, or read and delete or ignore. On the rare occasion you do get a reply, it's mostly no, sometimes there's a lot of chat that comes to nothing or they mess you about. There is that million to one chance you will get a meet, so it's up to you if you want to persevere.

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By *lym4realCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

The infamous cock picture and despite overwhelming numbers of females and couples saying if you 1st thing they see or receive is a dick pic ..it's a delete and block ...

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex


"Doesn't matter how good your profile is, most women don't seem to be interested and will ignore your message, or read and delete or ignore. On the rare occasion you do get a reply, it's mostly no, sometimes there's a lot of chat that comes to nothing or they mess you about. There is that million to one chance you will get a meet, so it's up to you if you want to persevere. "

That's just not true. A profile says everything about someone especially when it says nothing at all.

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Hi OP,

Your 33 years old, have no face pics and can't accomodate. To me that reads as 'playing away' and therefore we would stay clear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi, please would some people take the time to read my profile.. hopefully give me some ideas where I'm going wrong. Im a lovely guy in my 30s and dont seem to have much luck. Most of the times not even a reply. "

What do you expect during a pandemic?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"hopefully give me some ideas where I'm going wrong. "

Have you considered that people might find your name a bit offputting. Calling yourself a lad when you are 33

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

Maybe say what type of woman you’re looking for. And maybe make the cock pic a harder one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't entice me.

In your face cock pic.. turn off.

It pandemic.. so meeting folk even chatting is no guarantee on here.

Get in forums and chat build up confidence.

?maybe put some hint why you cant accommodate ...I read your profile as married..I may be wrong

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading


"Wouldn't entice me.

In your face cock pic.. turn off.

It pandemic.. so meeting folk even chatting is no guarantee on here.

Get in forums and chat build up confidence.

?maybe put some hint why you cant accommodate ...I read your profile as married..I may be wrong"

Good advice here and from secretlysoftie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe try the opposite profile if original not working. Perhaps that could work?

Fuck off right now.

Im not looking for fun. Absolutely no discretion given. I'll tell everyone I've pumped you.

I am 1ft tall with a fat build. I like to think I am a very lazy but anxious type of guy...don't go with the flow..

I have a very low sex drive and hate to pleasure others and be pleasured!!

Im not staying at a family members house so can accommodate. Im not happy to prove I'm in a relationship or married..

Zero thanks for reading a bit about me.

If you would like to know any less just don't give me a msg ??

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By *konCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

Your main issues are

1) you’re a single bloke

2) you can’t accommodate

3 ) you smoke

4) it’s covid time

Those are difficult hurdles no matter what your profile is like

Your photo and lack in f don’t help

Xx

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