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By *exter37 OP Man
over a year ago

eckington

Would like some advice on going to an adult club when we go back to normal. I want to try a club but nervous as to going. I'm shy to start with. I know I'm nothing special but just apprehensive as feel I will get ignored. Any tips would help and be appreciated.

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By *heekyweebissimWoman
over a year ago

fife,

Treat it as going to any other pub or club, have manners and don’t go expecting sex. Just relax and enjoy the environment

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By *exter37 OP Man
over a year ago

eckington

Thanks for your advice. I get told alot by women on here that I'm not there type (most common response)

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

Go for the social aspect and to meet like minded people. I never ever go with the plan to play. I will always tell people to say hi if they see me and thats as much as I expect. .. wont be everyone's type.

I would always say not to expect fun

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By *exter37 OP Man
over a year ago

eckington

Thank you little miss Cali. I'm not expecting to play not getting hopes up. If I get a chance to play it will be a miracle and I will faint. You look amazing btw x

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By *lwenWoman
over a year ago

De12 area

You could always call the club (when open) to see if you could pop and have a look round when there quiet.. I did this and now Im quite happy going in on my own.. And most of my visits I've not played.. Its the social side I like and go for.

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Use the time you have on your hands between now and clubs opening to make some connections with others.

You'll find it far easier to turn up somewhere where you already know people than somewhere you don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you go, be yourself and talk to people. You won't be ignored. Clubs are not that kind of place if your friendly and chatty. If you go, not talk and sit in the corner, then you will be ignored.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for your advice. I get told alot by women on here that I'm not there type (most common response)

They only have your profile to go on here tho. In a club you can speak. Smile too. So many people in clubs have a resting bitch face if they’re nervous.

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By *exter37 OP Man
over a year ago

eckington

"You could always call the club (when open) to see if you could pop and have a look round when there quiet.. I did this and now Im quite happy going in on my own.. And most of my visits I've not played.. Its the social side I like and go for. "

That's a good idea thnk you

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Use the time you have on your hands between now and clubs opening to make some connections with others.

You'll find it far easier to turn up somewhere where you already know people than somewhere you don't."

This is by far the best advice for a solo guy before visiting a club. Just one friendly face inside, will make it easier for you to feel ‘at home’, show you around, and possibly help you make connections with others. Having been as a solo guy to several different clubs, and as a couple, I can tell you, people are much warmer towards guys as part of a couple. All the best fella

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By *ohn1953Man
over a year ago

North Wales

The Attic club Friday and Saturday nights in Derby or the Attic cinema which is open in the day time too when things get back to normal ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want to try the clubs too more for the social side, I find text chat difficult to gauge, I think meet in a club would be much more relaxed.

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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago

Kingston upon Thames

"Go for the social aspect and to meet like minded people. I never ever go with the plan to play. I will always tell people to say hi if they see me and thats as much as I expect. .. wont be everyone's type.

I would always say not to expect fun "
absolutely the right advice ... expect nothing but smiles and conversation ... then if action occurs you are rightfully excited by the outcum ... wink

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