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"Perhaps update your profile so it looks like you are looking for women, and include more detail. At the moment your profile just looks like you are looking to meet TV' s, changing your status update might help. " mate single men are pond life there are a thousand men to one girl on any site all men struggle you have got to be chilled and dont expect action at a drop of a hat go in the chat room ... clubs ... coffee meets your local events and get your face seen | |||
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"mate single men are pond life" Sorry but if thats how you see yourself, dont be surprised when people start agreeing with you... | |||
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"mate single men are pond life Sorry but if thats how you see yourself, dont be surprised when people start agreeing with you..." That's why I always call the zip in my trousers a Damsel-fly... ;) Wolf | |||
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"mate single men are pond life Sorry but if thats how you see yourself, dont be surprised when people start agreeing with you..." Agreed! | |||
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"Hi All, Im relativly new to the site and to swinging, im photo verified, have good amount of pics, send non pushy, polite messages to girls but to this day i never get messages back, i dont think im unattractive, but maybe i am? Who knows? Just want to get other oroples views and possible reasons why this isnt happening for me! Thanks x" i looked at the profile and the photos u seem to have a good profile and photos, if i was meeting i would def send you a message. but if you are looking to meet tvs etc are you bi or straight as its a bit confusing have fun x | |||
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"Hi All, Im relativly new to the site and to swinging, im photo verified, have good amount of pics, send non pushy, polite messages to girls but to this day i never get messages back, i dont think im unattractive, but maybe i am? Who knows? Just want to get other oroples views and possible reasons why this isnt happening for me! Thanks x" The TV thing let's your profile down, we would have arranged a meet no problem, but you cannot class yourself has straight and meet TV's | |||
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"its the sexuality thing, you got a good profile apart from the ts lark. look at your friends list, look at you saying ok i will do ts if you basically fit n convincing, plus says straight, better off to change to bi curious if you want ts as well, then you wont be excluding yourself from people/couples who dont care if your bi coz if your messages are like you say they are, well the rest of your profile is fine, but if you send out a confused message about your sexuality it puts off people who dont want to meet bi people, but also puts off people who dont mind that your bi or want to meet bi people. at the moment you put most of them off apart from TVs, which explains why your friends list is just TVs" Good spot...never looked at the friends list You cannot really say that was a accident can you | |||
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"get rid of the bi curious bit and love of TS's, it puts women off" erm its HIS profile | |||
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"Cheers for all the posts guys, I say im straight because i only like the female form which is why i will never meet man, or tv, TS (in my eyes) are a bit different and portray a female Image, although everyone has different views. I get the 'men who cant accom' thing as im guessing alot of men who cant probably have gf's or wifes? Any ways thanks guys" if you find a nice TS i'll have a 3sum with you | |||
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"get rid of the bi curious bit and love of TS's, it puts women off erm its HIS profile" yeah and he's moaning about women not wanting to meet him, so why not give it a try, can always change it back again. | |||
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"get rid of the bi curious bit and love of TS's, it puts women off erm its HIS profile" But he did ask for peoples views....so that leaves him open to all suggestions...doesn't mean he has to do it.... | |||
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"Cheers for all the posts guys, I say im straight because i only like the female form which is why i will never meet man, or tv, TS (in my eyes) are a bit different and portray a female Image, although everyone has different views. I get the 'men who cant accom' thing as im guessing alot of men who cant probably have gf's or wifes? Any ways thanks guys if you find a nice TS i'll have a 3sum with you " check out her veris, she's very democratic in her tastes and genuine | |||
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"get rid of the bi curious bit and love of TS's, it puts women off" Doesn't put me off at all. You're obviously not messaging the right people (hint hint) | |||
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"get rid of the bi curious bit and love of TS's, it puts women off Doesn't put me off at all. You're obviously not messaging the right people (hint hint) " Your busted remember...... | |||
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"get rid of the bi curious bit and love of TS's, it puts women off Doesn't put me off at all. You're obviously not messaging the right people (hint hint) Your busted remember...... " Only an ickle bit. I'm almost fixed. And anyway busted or not I can still flirt. | |||
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"Cheers for all the posts guys, I say im straight because i only like the female form which is why i will never meet man, or tv, TS (in my eyes) are a bit different and portray a female Image, although everyone has different views. I get the 'men who cant accom' thing as im guessing alot of men who cant probably have gf's or wifes? Any ways thanks guys" I think they are referring to you with the comment about not being able to accommodate as you haven't said, to be honest though at the age you are, I suspect you either live at home or shared accommodation. Nice tattoos by the way | |||
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"personally i think people should be honest, loads of people moan that bi guys lie and put straight on their profile so its nice to see someone whos not ashamed of their sexuality and willing to be open about what they are looking for " thats it, if ur profiles confused it puts most people off, if your honest then your still in with people who not afraid of bi or are actually looking for it. if ur good looking lad, genuine and dont send messages from hell then they will be plenty of bi couples i reckon who will take a chance on you if ur genuinly bi as they struggle sometimes to find people who actually are bi instead of pretending hoping to bang the mrs lol | |||
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"Put what you want to be honest. Who you sleep with is your own damn business. If someoneone won't meet because you have Bi down, or meet TS, then sod them in all honesty. I find judgemental idiots a far bigger turn off than someone who is just being honest and themselves." "Just want to get other oroples views and possible reasons why this isnt happening for me!" Did you miss that bit of the op or were you too quick being a "judgemental idiot"...oh the irony! The op asked a question, everyone answered giving their point of view without being judgemental...apart from you! | |||
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"Put what you want to be honest. Who you sleep with is your own damn business. If someoneone won't meet because you have Bi down, or meet TS, then sod them in all honesty. I find judgemental idiots a far bigger turn off than someone who is just being honest and themselves. "Just want to get other oroples views and possible reasons why this isnt happening for me!" Did you miss that bit of the op or were you too quick being a "judgemental idiot"...oh the irony! The op asked a question, everyone answered giving their point of view without being judgemental...apart from you! " They were making a judgement on him based upon the fact he either wasn't averse to meeting a TS or had a TS on his friends list. So instead of actually bothering to say hello and maybe asking him some questions they were all saying I wouldn't meet you because X. Y Z is on your profile. In my book that's being judgemental, but hey, it's the internet so what do I care if a few people get their jammies ruffled. | |||
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"Put what you want to be honest. Who you sleep with is your own damn business. If someoneone won't meet because you have Bi down, or meet TS, then sod them in all honesty. I find judgemental idiots a far bigger turn off than someone who is just being honest and themselves." We would never meet a bi bloke...nothing to do with being judgemental about there lifestyle, just not our thing..... | |||
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"We would never meet a bi bloke...nothing to do with being judgemental about there lifestyle, just not our thing..... " I'd put good money on the simple fact that you probably already have, considering how many "straight" guys have approached me in the last 6 months. Bi guys don't have any markings, so the only way to tell is if they're being honest. I just don't believe in punishing honest people and rewarding liars. End of the day it's up to you who you shag. I don't know you and we'll never meet, so meh. | |||
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"Put what you want to be honest. Who you sleep with is your own damn business. If someoneone won't meet because you have Bi down, or meet TS, then sod them in all honesty. I find judgemental idiots a far bigger turn off than someone who is just being honest and themselves. "Just want to get other oroples views and possible reasons why this isnt happening for me!" Did you miss that bit of the op or were you too quick being a "judgemental idiot"...oh the irony! The op asked a question, everyone answered giving their point of view without being judgemental...apart from you! They were making a judgement on him based upon the fact he either wasn't averse to meeting a TS or had a TS on his friends list. So instead of actually bothering to say hello and maybe asking him some questions they were all saying I wouldn't meet you because X. Y Z is on your profile. In my book that's being judgemental, but hey, it's the internet so what do I care if a few people get their jammies ruffled." It's my experience the people who get their "jammies ruffled" are those that feel excluded in some way. I haven't looked, but I wager you're bi by your responses! I don't question or get uppity if someone doesn't want to play with me or hurl insults around. I actually know I'm not everyones cup of chai and don't expect to be. But hey, that's just me! | |||
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