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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi everyone we are Laura and dan

We have recently came out off a polyamorous relationship after a couple of years.

We was wondering if anyone else has been in the same position as us the hard part of all this mess is that we generally really care about these people and also they have become to be are best friends

Don’t really want to get into details about it but has anyone been in this situation and was it solved ?

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Yes, and in our case it ended messily.

You care about them, you still like them as people but like any relationship breakdown it just didn’t work.

Depending on the reason for the break down, it just takes time to get over it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How long was you together? We wasn’t sure how to approach because when you care about people and love them you don’t want them feeling sad so we feel like giveing them a big cuddle ect ect or would it be better to just leave it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Last thing we want to to upset anyone

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By *andRCouple
over a year ago

barry

We spent the most part of last year in a poly relationship with a single girl. It was the best year of our lives , it ran it's course and she backed off, was a bit younger than us and not ready for a further long lasting commitment but it ended well ish. Xx G

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By *allgirthyMan
over a year ago

Harrogate

I can imagine it’s pretty gutting to lose one third of the triangle like that. Here’s hoping you find what you want in 2021.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I guess it's inevitable that the singles in this type of relationship are always going to move on. The couples still have each other.

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By *allgirthyMan
over a year ago

Harrogate

At what point does the couple cease to be a couple and the bond between all three is just as strong? Then there’s no single, per se. Perhaps that’s only achievable if you all come together early on in the relationship, though maybe that’s quite rare?

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By *rs_pegging_mrCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

Would love to find a lady to be in a polyamorous relationship with us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are looking for suitable candidates for this sort of relationship. Male or female?

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By *my and KCouple
over a year ago

Kent and London

We are lucky enough to be in one and going great .

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By *konCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

We have a very regular and good girlfriend but it’s limited to extended trips away and sleep overs . She stayed for 6 months during house renovations and it wasn’t quite the same

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By *lwenWoman
over a year ago

De12 area

I was in one for 5 years.. It only ended when 1 Moved away for work and he met someone while working away.. And decided not to come back.. Been looking for a replacement now for 2 years..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I lived with a bi couple for just over two years and it was amazing. No doubt there were complications but overall it was a wonderful few years. It only ended when they moved abroad for work and I wasn’t keen to move. We stayed in touch for several years but have since lost touch

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I'm polyamorous. I'm not really sure what the question is. Break ups can be rough.

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By *ouMeHer-LincsCouple
over a year ago

Lincs - Leics - Notts Border

We are looking for a lady to join our relationship.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I guess it's inevitable that the singles in this type of relationship are always going to move on. The couples still have each other. "

See this is so often the issue here. If its a relationship then nobody is single but if there's a continuing attitude of "couple + single" that's usually where there's a problem.

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By *apper and shamenCouple
over a year ago

Brierley Hill

Been in the situation a couple of times, first ended very messy, second not so.

Luckily the second situation ended as friends and is still that way. Still have great affection for a special friend. (If you read this you know who you are) xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think it depends on your relationship and how strong ii is, there’s nothing wrong with having singles as really good friends and taking it from there and whatever happens happens, but happiness is key and communication is important x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we are discussing how to start this open relationship--grateful any tips and ground rules

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

We had a live-in girlfriend for nearly 4 years.

When it was good, it was awesome, but when it was bad it was a nightmare!

It's hard to prevent at least a little jealousy/competition between the same sex partners, regardless of much in love they are. There was also the problem of "it's been my kitchen for x years, I'm not sure I can let someone else in"

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By *my and KCouple
over a year ago

Kent and London

This is something we want to with another couple . But hard to couples who want the same near us .

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By *elkieWoman
over a year ago

Durham


"This is something we want to with another couple . But hard to couples who want the same near us ."

Well, yeah, because if you’re looking for a quad you’re each in four relationships - one with each participant plus the four of you together. It’s really hard to do and is starting polyamory on advanced mode.

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By *my and KCouple
over a year ago

Kent and London

we had one for a while with married woman who was playing on her own. It was good while it lasted but ultimately we always wanted a four way relationship and as you mentionned is not easy.

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By *adgets.and.GizmosCouple
over a year ago

Cwmbran

We would love another single bi female to join us again. Totally aware that it’s not likely to last forever. X

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