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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok, I'm kinda new to all this.

I'm not getting any messages/replies. What am I doing wrong ? Bad profile ? Bad pics ? Please help. Any advice welcome.

Lee

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

do you think your cock is more attractive than you....

you have face pics? why not sell yourself on them rather than a stonker

good luck

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By *iscreet_guy_4_st8_funMan
over a year ago

Sutton Coldfield


"Ok, I'm kinda new to all this.

I'm not getting any messages/replies. What am I doing wrong ? Bad profile ? Bad pics ? Please help. Any advice welcome.

Lee"
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Me too... I used to get replies and meets but haven't had nothing in ages?? are all the genuine couples and single fems moved to another site??

HELP!!!

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

"What you waiting for....send me a message and let the fun begin x"

The reality is that you will have to be doing the work trying to entice interest in you. And you will be competing with large numbers of other men on here...

But don't give up hope trying...

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By *averiMan
over a year ago

Swindon to bristol


"Ok, I'm kinda new to all this.

I'm not getting any messages/replies. What am I doing wrong ? Bad profile ? Bad pics ? Please help. Any advice welcome.

Lee"

become a supporter..you can see who has looked at you then.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

become a supporter..you can see who has looked at you then."

If I've been '_iewed' surely they'd have messaged me ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

become a supporter..you can see who has looked at you then.

If I've been '_iewed' surely they'd have messaged me ?"

that does sound a bit arrogant

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does it ? Sorry.

If I _iew profiles I tend to message them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

become a supporter..you can see who has looked at you then.

If I've been '_iewed' surely they'd have messaged me ?"

Looked at me or '_iewed' means just that and NO more! If someone looks at your profile and decides 'not for me'. why should they have to message you to tell you?????

In any case, we opt to not include our details on anyones 'looked at me' list for exactly the reason you have stated - have had people message us beforehand DEMANDING to know why we had not made contact!!!!!

and

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smiling on your pictures might help...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile is boring and generic

Your pictures are unattractive

The fact that you claim to message everyone you _iew is concerning in itself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

become a supporter..you can see who has looked at you then.

If I've been '_iewed' surely they'd have messaged me ?

that does sound a bit arrogant"

+1 was thinking that tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your profile is boring and generic

Your pictures are unattractive

The fact that you claim to message everyone you _iew is concerning in itself "

I've got to say I agree here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cocksure of himself i think

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull


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become a supporter..you can see who has looked at you then.

If I've been '_iewed' surely they'd have messaged me ?"

Lee,

In the nicest possible way, wake up to the real world; you have only been on here for a few months and it takes time! You have to be patient!

Firstly, just because you can see that people have _iewed your Profile doesn't mean an "automatic" message from them. Consider the meaning of the word -"_iewed": people have done just that, and made up their minds. If they wish to contact you, they will but it is not mandatory!

Then your Profile. Remove the cock shots to your Private photos. Your public or face pics would be better if you could show a smile or happy expression.

Remove the headrer line.. IS THIS WORKING? etc. It sounds as if you are desperate!

And to say you message back everyone, don't. I get people _iewing me at times with whom I'd have no chance of meeting or would wish to for various reasons, but I don't it follow every single _iewing with a message.

It comes down to the simple fact, on here you are up against so many single other guys. Get into the Forums. Get into socials or to clubs. Get yourself noticed for all the good reasons!

It will turn round, but you have to be patient!

Good Luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

become a supporter..you can see who has looked at you then.

If I've been '_iewed' surely they'd have messaged me ?

that does sound a bit arrogant

+1 was thinking that tbh"

i don't think it was arrogance, i think was more than likely naivety

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

become a supporter..you can see who has looked at you then.

If I've been '_iewed' surely they'd have messaged me ?

that does sound a bit arrogant"

i think what he means is if they _iewed his profile and were interested, they would have messaged him.

makes no odds to me who looks at my profile if they dont message me.. they obviously arent interested so being a supporter is no benefit as far as i am concerned. in fact if i knew i had people looking at me but still no messages it would make me feel worse!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

become a supporter..you can see who has looked at you then.

If I've been '_iewed' surely they'd have messaged me ?

that does sound a bit arrogant

i think what he means is if they _iewed his profile and were interested, they would have messaged him.

makes no odds to me who looks at my profile if they dont message me.. they obviously arent interested so being a supporter is no benefit as far as i am concerned. in fact if i knew i had people looking at me but still no messages it would make me feel worse!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Judging by your posts on here the problem could well be your own levels of expectation.

That said, the profile is bland, generic and says nothing about you or what you are looking for. Oh and it starts negatively which is never a plan. As for the pics it's a reflection of how poor they are that the one of you with a biscuit in your mouth is arguably not the worst one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Judging by your posts on here the problem could well be your own levels of expectation.

That said, the profile is bland, generic and says nothing about you or what you are looking for. Oh and it starts negatively which is never a plan. As for the pics it's a reflection of how poor they are that the one of you with a biscuit in your mouth is arguably not the worst one."

What he said. Seriously, your pics are terrible! Whatever possessed you to sell yourself based on those photos is beyond me.

Your profile is basically okay though. It may just be your expectations are too high. We have only had two meets thus far - though we have massively strict criteria - and we're a couple, so as a single male using this site you will have to be patient.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Me too... I used to get replies and meets but haven't had nothing in ages?? are all the genuine couples and single fems moved to another site??

"

If by 'genuine' you mean 'fancy you' ...then I guess they must've

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"

Me too... I used to get replies and meets but haven't had nothing in ages?? are all the genuine couples and single fems moved to another site??

If by 'genuine' you mean 'fancy you' ...then I guess they must've "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One word " patience" it is a virtue your going to have to develop

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