FabSwingers.com forum: The first swap

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi fabbers!

What was your first actual swap like?

Was it club, party or home?

Did you both just go for it or were there 'rules' in place that you stuck to? (And are those rules still in place?)

Interested as we will be doing this as soon as restrictions are lifted... thanks x

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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago

Kingston upon Thames

always at a club for us ... the tension and the playful inquiry ... so easy for a lady to get a single guy ... it is harder to have all four "click" ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeh we had a social which was really good fun but we didnt all click so nothing happened after that. Hard to find that 4 way connection!

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

My first meet with my partner was a social meet with a couple, we then got a hotel at a later date.

We had already discussed our boundaries and theirs.

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By *weetnjuicycoupleCouple
over a year ago

nottingham

Club first then there’s no pressure to play or swap — ease your way in and talk to each other constantly xx

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Ours was at home way back in 2010. A single guy, we had a wonderful MFM threesome experience and never looked back x

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By *akedduo66Couple
over a year ago

Near Bordon

Our first ever swap was a meet in a posh flat in London.

We were nervous as hell.

There was six of us, I ended up with a French gymnast, C enjoyed a young Brazilian guy and the party was hosted by a guy with a wooden leg.

Beat that!.

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"always at a club for us ... the tension and the playful inquiry ... so easy for a lady to get a single guy ... it is harder to have all four "click" ... "

Totally agree with you - just need to find a Club

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By *weetnjuicycoupleCouple
over a year ago

nottingham

"always at a club for us ... the tension and the playful inquiry ... so easy for a lady to get a single guy ... it is harder to have all four "click" ...

Totally agree with you - just need to find a Club

Meet you at Chams when it’s all over x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At a club with a very attractive couple in their 20’s

and mature beyond their years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met in a really nice pub. I was with my then wife. The other couple turned up; he was a chubby fella with a perm and she had the tightest most revealing rubber dress I'd seen. Still we decided to carry on with the meet. Followed them to their very nice home and played for a couple of hours; he got frustrated because he couldn't make my Mrs cum, his Mrs squirted all over my face (before it had been invented) and he tried sucking my cock when the ladies went to shower.

Amazing what you could find on the back pages of Loot them days

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By *blasiansCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

A travelodge, lovely couple soft play. But tbh we were in at the deep end as it was our first meet of any kind and borders were still being established and with hindsight a coffee would have been better, but lucky for us it worked out.

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"always at a club for us ... the tension and the playful inquiry ... so easy for a lady to get a single guy ... it is harder to have all four "click" ...

Totally agree with you - just need to find a Club

Meet you at Chams when it’s all over x"

We certainly want to give it a try, & soon!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Clubs certainly seem the most popular - if only we could go to one! x

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

I was married back then , arranged to meet with couple who had arranged to meet several other couples for an evening at Abfab , had a great time and never looked back .

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By *appy2100Couple
over a year ago

kensington

Ourplace4fun sept 2019.

Unreal.

Happy christmas everyone x

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By *exualNeeds69Couple
over a year ago

Gatwick

First time for us was in a club. We tried pre-planning it but made us too nervous so decided to go to a club and go with the flow

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Going to a club takes the pressure off from a direct meet - makes sense! We will certainly be paying a visit as soon as they are open again! X

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By *tockport 69Couple
over a year ago

Stockport

it was with the landlady of the local pub 25 year ago .we now meet with couples and have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talked about it and role played it for years to the point where we thought stuff it we’ve gotta just give it a go. Actually hired an escort for our first mmf hoping it would avoid any awkwardness and we knew we just wanted to dive straight in. Worked a treat for us.

Never looked back and have had some lovely private meets with couples since.

We had boundaries to start with but it didn’t take long for those to go out the window.

Haven’t made it to a club yet but would love to once all this is over

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By *rK MrsJCouple
over a year ago

Kidderminster

"Hi fabbers!

What was your first actual swap like?

Was it club, party or home?

Did you both just go for it or were there 'rules' in place that you stuck to? (And are those rules still in place?)

Interested as we will be doing this as soon as restrictions are lifted... thanks x "

Early 20s at home, friend of ours and her boyfriend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We went to a club to just see how things were as we were complete newbies and swapped first night..lol

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By *rAndMrsCurious12Couple
over a year ago

Lancashire

A MMF bi three way in an apartment he’d booked, champagne flowed and nice chat then soft play followed.

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By *tableMasterMan
over a year ago

Don’t overplan it or expect fireworks!

Go to a club to watch first. It’ll give you something to discuss and help you set boundaries and work out what each of you wants.

A club let’s you play then retreat to watch.

At home it can get awkward if things are slow to start or the pilot light goes out!!

Take it easy. It’s just sex. Leave your emotions at home and enjoy the physical aspect for what it is.

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By *WillowxWoman
over a year ago

Oo err Devon

"Our first ever swap was a meet in a posh flat in London.

We were nervous as hell.

There was six of us, I ended up with a French gymnast, C enjoyed a young Brazilian guy and the party was hosted by a guy with a wooden leg.

Beat that!. "

Wow!! That's a great story!

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By *emptusboth777Couple
over a year ago

oxford

We will let you all k is soon we hope lol. We have things all lined up, but covid is stopping it progressing. We are very excited to try it

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By *van ArdenMan
over a year ago

Coleford, Forest of Dean, Gloucestershire.

Great input from you sexy people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First time with a couple off here was a disaster ??

Turned up at their place, he was pissed and was im gonna fuck your wife sore. She was nice then their daughter came out into the living room.

We made an excuse and left.

Had gr8 MMF experience since and want more and more post covid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ours wasn't great, done the social, both very nice and good looking so thought ... great.

On the play date the lady turned up half cut then carried on drinking getting more and more d*unk, hubby lost interest in her pretty fast so we basically swapped back to our own partners.

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By *s2walesCouple
over a year ago

Gwent...

Our first experience was wish friends that played. The wives had both had fun in unit one tipsy night. We had talked about it for ages and loved out first time. Unfortunately they moved to the States and we rarely see them...but great memories...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don’t overplan it or expect fireworks!

Go to a club to watch first. It’ll give you something to discuss and help you set boundaries and work out what each of you wants.

A club let’s you play then retreat to watch.

At home it can get awkward if things are slow to start or the pilot light goes out!!

Take it easy. It’s just sex. Leave your emotions at home and enjoy the physical aspect for what it is. "

Brillient advice. Spot on as its just sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very nervous and tense

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By *weetnjuicycoupleCouple
over a year ago

nottingham

"Don’t overplan it or expect fireworks!

Go to a club to watch first. It’ll give you something to discuss and help you set boundaries and work out what each of you wants.

A club let’s you play then retreat to watch.

At home it can get awkward if things are slow to start or the pilot light goes out!!

Take it easy. It’s just sex. Leave your emotions at home and enjoy the physical aspect for what it is.

Brillient advice. Spot on as its just sex. "

Very wise words all round —- and remember to have a great fuck afterwards just the two of you - to reconnect x

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By *J coupleCouple
over a year ago

stone

Our first full swap was at a club. We went with a couple we’d played with on a few occasions before but only soft swing. It was awesome when the other fella asked me if I was okay with him asking MrsJ to take things further. She smiled and said yes. We had a great time.

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By *arbarianzCouple
over a year ago

BARNSTAPLE

one of our first meets was with a lovely couple who we had a lot in common with in our hobbies (go nerds!) it was quite clear we all wanted to 'do more' but it wasn't until she popped off to the loo and came back out in nothing but lingerie that we got the 'signal' and went off to the bedroom for some fun!

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By *tt1Couple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

100% genuine although it reads like a a story !

Back in 2005 we went on a weekend away to Amsterdam, nothing planned and hadn’t discussed anything like swopping other than the odd comment here and there.

Went on a “dinner cruise” and were sat on a table of 4 with another English couple.

Went for a drink afterwards and all ended up back at our hotel room ......

As unplanned now boundaries were set and we’ve not looked back since (albeit we do have a couple of boundaries now!)

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By *p4u69Man
over a year ago

Guernsey

Mine was at Abfab with a partner about 14 years ago. We both ended up sleeping with a couple in a same room swap. After we finished that there was no stopping us then as we ended up in a 10 person gangbang among other things. Certainly a night I'll never forget

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By *ewhorizonsCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

We were invited to a private swingers party through Fab. It was above a porn shop. After trying on some outfits, we started flirting with the hosts. I ended up giving the petite brunette hostess an oily foot massage and went down on her whilst my wife played with her husband. We were buzzing when we left.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Love these stories! So many positive experiences including the odd bad one! When we have our 1st swap we will be sure to share our experience x

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By *aysOfOurLivesCouple
over a year ago

Essex

That sounds like a plan

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