FabSwingers.com forum: What’s the problem

By *0ungMancLad OP Man
over a year ago

rochdale, Manchester

Alright so I’m fairly new to this but still have been on the site for a few months now, I’ve had no luck at all, not with meeting (I know we can’t but nobody even shows interest lol) barley any look with messaging and not even any luck with cam stuff. I’m well mannered and all that and fair enough I’m not the best looking lad, but am I really that bad? Or is it my profile? Basically what I’m asking is are there any improvements I can make that might make me more likely to get a bit of the swinging action, cheers

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By *0ungMancLad OP Man
over a year ago

rochdale, Manchester

And also if anyone has any advise on what sorta message my first one should be let me know, I usually switch between well mannered and polite to a bit dirtier depending on the profile

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

Honestly....there's not anything that makes you stand out. You're right about people not meeting, so patience there. As far as chatting - there's a lot of people (us included) that don't do long chats or are looking for online friends. We want to see some photos, work out if we fancy you, meet, fuck. Without the opportunity to do the last two, we struggle to maintain a chat.

Your pics are a bit meh. Self timers are better than mirror photos, and the dick pics just prove you have a dick.

Your age range shows you just want to shag anything that has boobs and moved - do you REALLY want to meet a 99 year old???

Finally....your age might be a barrier. An awful lot of swingers get more into it after the kids have moved out. That makes them old enough to be your parents and for a lot that's too much of an age gap, so your "target market" is really much smaller than, say, a 35year old.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

it wouldn't really be right for us to rewrite your profile for you as it needs to be a reflection of who you are, what you are looking for and how you can make someone's shared fantasies come true.

If I wrote it for you it would be about me.

The same with the first message l.

It should be showing your personality and how you can connect with whomever you are writing to.

There are countless threads with profile advice on here if you search the forums you should be able to find them, likewise there are many successful profiles but I do feel it's better not to just too imitate someone else's, people should see you for who you are and be interested in that.

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By *0ungMancLad OP Man
over a year ago

rochdale, Manchester

Ahh yeah I get what you mean, I don’t take many pictures of myself at all so will try and work on that aha, so you think there should be more photos of just me rather than me with my dick out etc lol coz I just assumed that’s what people wanna see coz that’s what they’re here for, as for the age range thing I just liked to keep my options open just in case haha and yeah I did wonder about my age but there are enough people on here that are in there twenties so I assumed it’d be okay and a lot that say they want a younger lad, just don’t know if that mean my age lol and thanks for the advise

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset

Same age as my son, with the same work trousers and cock in hand.....hence my age filters.

That aside, your bio basically says you simply want anything. Its a lame scatter approach that has nothing of any direct interest. Why is the last part even there if you don't know what its about, as you say? (Its actually about showing how stupid people believe anything, now you know).

Be more direct, actually have interests.

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By *istress-MazikeenWoman
over a year ago

bolton

"Ahh yeah I get what you mean, I don’t take many pictures of myself at all so will try and work on that aha, so you think there should be more photos of just me rather than me with my dick out etc lol coz I just assumed that’s what people wanna see coz that’s what they’re here for, as for the age range thing I just liked to keep my options open just in case haha and yeah I did wonder about my age but there are enough people on here that are in there twenties so I assumed it’d be okay and a lot that say they want a younger lad, just don’t know if that mean my age lol and thanks for the advise "

As has said before your age is a barrier, also do you really think you in work trousers with paint all over them is attractive?

Would you like to see a woman just dressed in joggers and a dirty top?

Use paragraphs when writing as well, as your profile is a little bit difficult to read.

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By *iner69erMan
over a year ago

inverness

"Alright so I’m fairly new to this but still have been on the site for a few months now, I’ve had no luck at all, not with meeting (I know we can’t but nobody even shows interest lol) barley any look with messaging and not even any luck with cam stuff. I’m well mannered and all that and fair enough I’m not the best looking lad, but am I really that bad? Or is it my profile? Basically what I’m asking is are there any improvements I can make that might make me more likely to get a bit of the swinging action, cheers

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There's nothing you can do but keep sending messages and hope for the best. You may have to wait years. I've had one meet in 11 years and since then ,nothing. Girls on here mostly don't seem to be interested,but there is a few here and there,it's just a question of perseverance till you find them. Or maybe never.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I feel the amount of work you put into your profile is likely to be be comparable to the amount of joy it brings you

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